19 Amafulegi Abomvu Akhazimulayo Wezindaba Zomphakathi Ebudlelwaneni Akufanele Ungalokothi Ubuzibe

Ukuskrola nokuswayipha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana sekuyingxenye ebalulekile yobudlelwano besimanje. Landela amathrendi akamuva, yabelana ngama-reels ahlekisayo, noma ubukisa kancane uzakwenu. Kodwa kuthiwani uma lokho kuthepha kabili noma ukubuyekezwa kwesimo kuveza okungaphezu kwalokho obukulindele? Ingabe uyangabaza ubuqiniso be-inthanethi yozakwenu? Ingabe uzithola uzibuza ukuthi ingabe ukuziphatha kwabo ku-inthanethi kuhambisana nezenzo zabo empilweni yangempela? Isikhathi sokwazi mayelana namafulegi abomvu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ebudlelwaneni ukuze ugcine uxhumo olunempilo noluphumelelayo nozakwenu.

Uma ubona ukuziphatha okuyimfihlo, ukudlala ngothando ngokweqile, noma ukusebenzisana okungalungile ku-inthanethi, ungakubukeli phansi ukubaluleka kwakho. Lokhu kungaba yinto enkulu. Ukuqaphela lezi zimpawu kubalulekile uma kuziwa ekuvikeleni amandla obudlelwano bakho obubucayi. Nawa amafulegi abomvu angu-19 ezinkundleni zokuxhumana okufanele uwakhumbule ukuze uvikele isibopho sakho futhi ukhuthaze ukuba khona kwedijithali okunothando nokuvikelekile.

19 Amafulegi Abomvu Akhazimulayo Wezindaba Zomphakathi Ebudlelwaneni Akufanele Ungalokothi Ubuzibe

Ukuthola izimpawu zokungazethembi ebudlelwaneni ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kungavula amehlo. Ukubeka imingcele ecacile ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ebudlelwaneni kuyinto encane. Ezinye izimpawu ezibomvu zokuthandana online kungaba ukuthola ukuthi umlingani wakho unama-akhawunti ayimfihlo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, noma ukubona ukuxhumana kwakhe nabantu ayethandana nabo.

Kungokwemvelo ukuzibuza, “Ingabe imithombo yezokuxhumana ithinta ubudlelwano ngendlela embi?” Yebo, ingakwenza lokho. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kukaJean M. Twenge , isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esidumile saseMelika, imithombo yezokuxhumana ayiyona impilo yangempela. Khumbula, lokho okubonayo ku-inthanethi kungase kungabonisi njalo iqiniso lomuntu. Kodwa-ke, yonke inkomba ebalulekile yezokuxhumana engaphambili isengathinta ubudlelwano empilweni yangempela.

1. Ukwabelana ngezithombe ezingalungile nezikhathi zobudlelwane obuyimfihlo kungenye yamafulegi abomvu agqama kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

Sekuyisikhathi sokuxoxa ngesinye sezibonakaliso ezisobala kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ukufaka izithombe ezingafaneleki zenu nobabili ndawonye akufanele kwenzeke ngaphandle kwemvume yakho. Ukwabelana ngezithombe zabo ezingafanele nomuntu othile ku-inthanethi kubonisa ukuthi umlingani wakho angase akukopele , noma ukuthi wephula imingcele yomunye umuntu.

• Iba nengxoxo evulekile mayelana nokuthi ikuphi ukuziphatha okuku-inthanethi okufaneleyo nokunenhlonipho
• Qaphela uma imikhuba yabo yokwabelana ngezithombe ibonakala ishintsha kusukela ezikhathini zokuzijabulisa ukuya ekuvezeni ngokweqile okuqukethwe mayelana nobudlelwano bakho nawe esidlangalaleni.
• Lapho umlingani wakho eshaya indiva imizwa yakho futhi ebhala okuqukethwe komuntu siqu okukwenza ungakhululeki, yisikhathi sokuveza okukukhathazayo ngempilo yakho yothando.

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2. Uzakwenu uthumela amazwana angcolile kokuthunyelwe kwabanye abantu, kodwa hhayi kwakho

Uzakwenu uhlanganyela kalula ekushiyeni amazwana angcolile kokuthunyelwe kwabanye abantu. Lokhu kuphakamisa imibuzo nokungabaza mayelana nezinhloso zabo nokuzibophezela ngobudlelwano bakho.

• Naka izimpawu ze Ukudlala ngothando ku-Instagram. Ingabe umlingani wakho uhlala eshiya amazwana angcolile kwamanye amaposi? Ngoba lolu hlobo lokudlala ngothando ku-inthanethi lungafaka engcupheni ukwethembana nokuvikeleka ngokomzwelo phakathi kobudlelwano benu
• Ukuzibandakanya ekudlaleni ngothando noma ekuziphatheni kocansi nabanye ngokusebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana kuthathwa njengokuziphatha okungamukelekile ebudlelwaneni kubantu abaningi. Ucwaningo iphakamisa ukuthi lezi zenzo zibhekwa njengezifana nokungathembeki futhi zingabangela imizwa yokukhaphela, yokulimala, nokungazethembi.
• Isethulo kulokhu: Ingabe ulungile ngomlingani wakho odlala ngothando nabanye ngokungenabungozi inqobo nje uma nabo begcina isimo esifanayo nawe esidlangalaleni? 

3. Abakunaki ngokuphelele ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nakuba nilandelana nobabili

U-Lena, umdansi waseColorado, wabelana nathi, "Ngangizibophezele kumuntu othile, futhi yonke into yayibonakala ilungile. Kodwa ngaqala ukuqaphela ukuthi akaxhumani nami ezinkundleni zokuxhumana esidlangalaleni. Kwangenza ngazibuza ukuthi kungani isoka lami lingaphawuli ngezithombe zami/engikubhalile noma ngisho 'lizithande' kodwa litholakala njalo ngaphansi kokwaziswa komphakathi kwabanye abantu."

Abafuni yini ukuthi abangani bakho nomndeni wakho bazi ngani nobabili? Ingabe bayafihla ubudlelwano benu kothile othize? Uma kungebona ubudlelwano obusha, futhi uma besebenza kahle ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, le mibuzo ifanelekile okufanele uyicabangele.

4.Asikho isithombe sakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nakuba usuqomile

Ake sixoxe ngomuntu ophazanyisayo wanamuhla: Uma engakuphakeli ezinkundleni zokuxhumana noma uma enqaba ukuthumela ngisho nesithombe esisodwa sakho noma kuphi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana (kodwa enezinto eziningi nabangani bakhe nomndeni wakhe), wenzani? Lokhu kungakwenza uzibuze impilo yobudlelwano bakho futhi uzizwe ushiywe ngaphandle. Imikhuba enjalo yomlingani wakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ingakushiya nokuzethemba okuphansi kanye nempilo yengqondo embi.

• Umeluleki wesikole samabanga aphezulu waseNew Orleans uhlanganyela nathi, “Ngivame ukuba nabafundi ehhovisi lami futhi bazoqala ukukhathazeka kwabo kanje: 'Ngifuna nje ukwazi ukuthi kungani intombi yami noma isoka lami lingangifaki ezinkundleni zokuxhumana?' Uma othile ethumela izithombe nawo wonke umuntu ngaphandle kozakwethu, ngikubheka njengelinye lamafulegi abomvu obudlelwane obungase bube khona.”
• Uma umlingani wakho ehlala egwema ukwabelana nawe izikhathi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, lokho kubonisa ukuntula ukuzimisela ukugubha ubuhlobo bakho esidlangalaleni.
• A Umsebenzisi we-Reddit isho ukuthi ifulegi elikhulu elibomvu yilapho umlingani wakho edlala yedwa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Uma begcina isimo sobudlelwano babo singacacile, kukhombisa ukungabaza kwabo ukuveza ukuzibophezela kwabo esidlangalaleni noma ukuthi bagcina izinketho zabo zivulekile.

Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho bangempela buyizinhlobo ezithile, futhi ukubuqhathanisa nokuthunyelwe okukhazimulayo kwezithandani ezithumela okuningi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngeke kwenze ubuqiniso babo.

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5. Enye yezimpawu ezibomvu zokuqomisana kwe-inthanethi ukuthi basalenga kuma-ex wabo

Ngeke ukwazi ukuzibamba kodwa uqaphele ukuthi isithandwa sakho sibonakala sine-ex yakhe evalelwe engqondweni. Bachitha ingxenye ethile yosuku lwabo bekhuluma nomuntu oyedwa ku-inthanethi noma bahlale befaka izithombe zabo ndawonye ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. 

• URyan, 28, umphathi we-inventory, uthi, “Ngangivame ukucabanga ukuthi kungani isoka lami lilokhu libheka intombazane efanayo. Lokhu ukuziphatha okunobuthi futhi akulona uphawu lobudlelwano obunempilo
• Kakhulu I-PDA nomunye umuntu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kubonisa ukuthi bangase bangathembeki kuwe noma basengaba nemizwa nge-ex yabo

6. Umlingani wakho ufihla umsebenzi wakhe wenkundla yezokuxhumana njalo

Ingabe uzakwenu uvamise ukufihla umsebenzi wakhe wenkundla yezokuxhumana? Ungakuchithi njengokumane kuzenzekele. Themba umuzwa wakho wemvelo ngoba lokhu kuziphatha ngokuvamile kuphakamisa izinkinga ezibucayi kakhulu. Bheka eduze kakhulu ngoba, sithembe, leli elinye lamafulegi amakhulu abomvu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. 

• Uyayibona leyo miyalezo enyamalalayo engaqondakali noma izikhathi zokuphendula ezinde ezingachazwanga? Kungaba okungaphezu nje kokuthi “iphutha lobuchwepheshe”
• Uzakwenu angahle angabi nabalandeli abaningi ku-inthanethi, nokho ucime ukuphawula kwakhe. Awukaze ubone noma ubani exhumana naye ku-inthanethi selokhu naqala ukuthandana nobabili. Thola ukuthi kungani
• Uma umlingani wakho eqala ukusula umlando wakhe, naka. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izithombe ezindala, amazwana, noma izingxoxo zonke, kungase kube nokuningi endabeni kunalokho okubonwa ngamehlo

7. Uphawu olukhulu oluyisixwayiso: Bazibandakanya ebuxhwanguxhwangwini be-inthanethi noma ukuhlukunyezwa ku-inthanethi

Gwema noma ubani, hhayi umlingani wakho kuphela, ohlanganyela ezenzweni ezisolisayo njengokuxhashazwa ku-inthanethi noma ukuhlukumeza. Imikhuba enobuthi kanye nokuziphatha okunjalo kokufuna ukunakwa akufanele neze kunganakwa uma ufuna ubudlelwano obunempilo, ikakhulukazi esimweni sezokuxhumana lapho imiphumela ingaba nkulu khona.

• Kwenze kucace ukuthi ubuxhwanguxhwangu be-inthanethi akwamukelekile, hhayi kuwena kuphela kodwa kunoma ubani omunye ku-inthanethi. Zibekele indinganiso yenhlonipho nomusa njengomuntu
• Uma beqhubeka nokubonisa ukuziphatha okusongelayo noma okuhlukumezayo kwabanye abasebenzisi abaku-inthanethi, yisikhathi sokubhekana nenkinga ngokuqondile.

8. Uzakwenu unama-akhawunti ayimfihlo ezinkundla zokuxhumana noma amaphrofayili mbumbulu

Masikhulume iqiniso – Sonke sike saba ne-akhawunti eyodwa-mbumbulu okungenani ngesikhathi esithile ezimpilweni zethu. Sonke sike saba khona, sicasha ngenxa yokungaziwa kwe-akhawunti yomgunyathi ngenxa nje yokukhahlela noma ukuhlola okudabukisa inhliziyo. Kodwa kuthiwani uma umlingani wakho engenayo i-akhawunti eyodwa eyimfihlo, kodwa amaphrofayili omgunyathi amaningi kakhulu emkhonweni wakhe? Izinto ziqala ukubukeka zisolisa ngaleso sikhathi. 

Ukugcina izimfihlo ezingenabungozi kuyinto eyodwa, kodwa lapho ukulandelelana okuncane ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kuphenduka isimo sokuphila okumbaxambili, sekuyisikhathi sokuqeda amanga. Uma umlingani wakho ene-akhawunti eyimfihlo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ezinye izinto ezikhathazayo ngalokhu kuziphatha yilezi: Bangase bahlasele abantu abambalwa noma amakhasi, bangase baphile impilo embaxambili engase ingahlobene nokukopela, noma bangase babe yinkohliso yezezimali.

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9. Baqapha konke okwenzayo

Ingabe umlingani wakho uqapha konke okwenzayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ehlolisisa konke ukuthanda, ukuphawula, noma ukwabelana? Lokhu kuziphatha kungase kukhomba umgwaqo onamatshe ngaphambili. UCharles, ofunda eMissouri, uhlanganyela nathi, “Ix yami yayivame ukuthi, 'Akuwena, ukulutheka ezinkundleni zokuxhumana!' Kepha cha, bekunguye - bekuyisinqumo sakhe ukuthi ngilawule usuku nosuku angikwazanga ukuthumela lutho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngesaba ukusabela kwakhe. 

• Ukuhlola njalo kumsebenzi wakho we-inthanethi, kusukela kobani oxhumana naye kuye kulokho okuthunyelwe okuthandayo kuba ncane mayelana nothando futhi okwengeziwe mayelana nokulawula. Lokhu kuvame ukuveza izimpawu zokungavikeleki kobudlelwano ezinkundleni zokuxhumana - Izimpawu zomuntu wesilisa unobuntu obuntekenteke noma zowesifazane ophethe ngokweqile
• Ingabe umlingani wakho uvame ukucasuka ngokusebenzisana okungenangozi owenza ku-inthanethi? Uma wonke amazwana anobungane eba inkundla yempi, lokho kuwuphawu oluqinile lwe- ubudlelwano obulawulayo
• Uma zihlasela ubumfihlo bakho bedijithali, zikucela amagama ayimfihlo enkundla yezokuxhumana, noma ukufunda imilayezo yakho eyimfihlo, kuwukuhlasela okucacile kwemingcele yakho.

10.Ngeke bakulandele emuva ezinkundleni zokuxhumana

Wake wazibuza ukuthi kungani bengeke bachofoze inkinobho ethi 'Landela'? Uma umfana engakungezi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana noma intombazane yakho ingakulandeli emuva ngemuva kokuthembisa ukuthi izokwenza, yisikhathi sokujula emithethweni eyisisekelo. Akukhona ngokufuna ukunaka kwabo; lokhu (ukuntuleka) kwesenzo kungase kubambe isihluthulelo sokuqonda indlela yabo yothando nobudlelwano.

• Yize wonke umuntu efanelwe yindawo yakhe, ukungafuni ukuxhuma ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kungase kuphakamise amashiya. Ingabe bakugcina usondelene nawe ngenxa yezizathu ezizwakalayo, noma kukhona okunye abakufihlayo?
• Ukungafuni ukukulandela kungase kubonise ukujula ukwesaba ukuzibophezela nasempilweni yangempela. Ukuqonda ukuziphatha kwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kunganikeza ukuqonda endleleni yabo yokusebenzelana

11.Ngeke balandele amalungu omndeni wakho noma abangani abaseduze

ULiam, umsizi wezokuthenga oneminyaka engu-25 ubudala, wabelana nathi, “Izinkundla zokuxhumana zimayelana nokwabelana ngemicimbi ekhumbulekayo empilweni yakho nokuxhumana nabathandekayo bakho. Ngakho-ke uma umlingani wakho ebonakala egwema ukulandela abantu ababaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngemva kwezinyanga eziningi nisebudlelwaneni obungathi sína , kubalulekile ukuthi uthathe isinyathelo emuva uhlole isimo.

“Yilokho okwadingeka ngikwenze ne-ex yami. Mina naye asizange sihlale isikhathi eside ngemva kwalokho.” U-Liam uqinisile. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kungase kube isexwayiso esikhulu sokuthi kukhona okungalungile. 

• Uma belandela yonke i-akhawunti engahleliwe ngaphansi kwelanga kodwa benganaki abantu obathandayo, sekuyisikhathi sokubuza izinhloso zabo. Kungase kube okungaphezu nje kokubheka okungenacala
• Nakuba ubumfihlo bubalulekile, uzakwethu ongazimisele ukuxhumana nabantu obathandayo kungenzeka ukuthi ufihla okuthile
• Buza ukuthi yini ebenza bangabaze ukulandela obathandayo ngaphambi kokuthi ugxumele eziphethweni, noma kunjalo

12. Umlingani wakho ukuqhathanisa nabagqugquzeli benkundla yezokuxhumana njalo

Uma beqhubeka nokukulinganisa nabantu abanethonya eliphelele, kubalulekile ukubhekana nezindinganiso ezingenangqondo abazibeka ebudlelwaneni bakho. Sekuyisikhathi sokunquma ukuthi izinkundla zokuxhumana zithini ngaye noma ukuthi indlela akuveza ngayo nge- Instagram yakhe ithinta kanjani ubudlelwano bakho. Lokhu kungaba izimpawu zobudlelwano obuyingozi kakhulu obuqhubekayo.

• Ingabe bahlale befuna ukuqinisekiswa nokugunyazwa ngabathonya? Lokhu kungase kubonise ukungaqiniseki kwabo okuyisisekelo kanye nesidingo sokuqinisekisa kwangaphandle, okungase kube nomthelela ekuxhumekeni kwakho komuntu siqu
• Uma inkundla yezokuxhumana ifika kuqala kunokujabulela izikhathi zangempela nawe, yisikhathi sokuhlola ukuthi izinto eziza kuqala kuzo zikuphi.

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13.Okunye okubhekwe ngabomvu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuthi ko DM wabo kugcwele abantu abangaziwa

Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuvusa amashiya. Lapho imilayezo yabo eqondile ihlanganisa nolwandle lwabantu abangabazi, kungase kube okungaphezu nje kwezingosi zokuxhumana ezingenacala. Phuma ebumnyameni ungene ekukhanyeni ngoba lokhu kuwuphawu olubomvu olubenyezelayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. 

• Uma ama-DM abo egcwele abantu ongakaze uzwe ngabo, kuhle ukuthi uphenywe. Ukubonisa ngale kuyisihluthulelo, ngakho themba umuzwa wakho wemvelo, futhi ubhekane nanoma yiziphi izinsolo ngokukhululekile
• Uma ubona umlingani wakho echitha isikhathi nalaba bantu abangaziwa, yisikhathi sokubuza uhlobo lokusebenzelana kwabo - Ingabe ukukopela, ingabe kuyinto engekho emthethweni, noma ingabe iwukulungisa okuthile okuxakile noma umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa ongafanele abangakutshelanga ngakho?

14. Bakhuluma ngokumelene namalungelo abantu abathile

Ingabe uke ube nomuzwa obeleselayo ngemva kokuba umlingani wakho ethumele izithombe ezicasulayo noma okuqukethwe? Awu, nakanjani aweqisi. Lena enye yamafulegi abomvu ajwayelekile e-Instagram. Ukuthumela okuqukethwe kuhle kuze kube yilapho kuqala ukuvusa ukungakhululeki ebudlelwaneni bakho bezothando ngenxa yesimo esibi semibono yomunye umuntu.

• Ungayivaleli imizwa yakho. Khuluma nophathina wakho mayelana nezikhundla zezepolitiki ezikwenza ungakhululeki
• Kuzodingeka ukhulume uma ufuna ukuba umngane wezinkinga ozikhathalelayo
• Tshela umlingani wakho ukuthi ahloniphe abanye futhi alandele indlela yokuziphatha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana jikelele. Batshele ukuthi abakwazi ukuthumela okuqukethwe okukhuthaza ukucwasa, ukucwasa ngobulili, ukucwasa, ukukwazi, njll. Uma benza kanjalo, lokho isinqamuleli sobudlelwano

15. Bazibandakanya ekucupheni nge-inthanethi noma ngokucupha abanye

Nakuba ilukuluku lingokwemvelo, ukweqa imingcele endaweni yedijithali kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu. Ukuthungatha ku-inthanethi, masibhekane nakho, kuwuphawu olukhulu oluyisixwayiso okungafanele lushaywe indiva. Iba nenhliziyo nenhliziyo nozakwenu uma bebonakala befana nenguqulo esabekayo ye-Sherlock Holmes kunomngane osekelayo.

• Uma umlingani wakho echitha amahora ephenya amaphrofayili abanye, ehlahlela konke okuthunyelwe nokusebenzisana, kungase kube yisikhathi sokubhekana nemikhuba yabo yokulandela umkhondo ku-inthanethi.
• Ingabe baphoqeleka ukuthi bahlole amaphrofayili wabangane bakho noma ojwayelene nabo noma bavame ukubheka abantu okade bengabangane bakho, futhi bazifunele ababo? Uma kunjalo, sekuyisikhathi sokukhuluma ngesidingo imingcele enempilo ngenxa yempilo yabo yengqondo

16. Umlingani wakho unomona ngalokho okufaka ku-inthanethi - Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kumayelana nempilo yakho yomphakathi noma umsebenzi wakho

Asikhulumi ngokugwazwa umona ngezikhathi ezithile. Enkathini lapho izinkundla zokuxhumana ziyingxenye enkulu yempilo yethu, umona womlingani wakho ngokuthunyelwe kwakho ungaba yinkinga enkulu empilweni yakho yothando.

• Uma konke okuthunyelwe okwenzayo kubangela uhide lwemibuzo mayelana nokuthi ubani, ini, nini, futhi kungani, basuke bengabaza ubuqotho bakho. 
• Bangase babe nomona ngomsebenzi wakho noma indawo yokusebenza. Ngakho-ke, naphezu kokubona izimpumelelo zakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, zihlala zithule ngokuphawulekayo, ngisho noma bezisebenza usuku lonke futhi wabelane ngezimpumelelo zakho nazo ngokuqondile.
• Uma umona wozakwenu uhumusheka kube ukuphawula okungekuhle noma ukusabela kokuthunyelwe kwakho, kuwuphawu olubalulekile lokuthi abakuphathi kahle. Khuluma nabo ngalokhu ngokukhululekile

17. Olunye lwezimpawu eziyinhloko zenkinga yobudlelwano ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuthi ubuntu babo be-inthanethi bungamanga

Kungani abantu bedinga imithetho yezokuxhumana ukuze bahlangane? Uma kwenzeka abalingani babo beqamba amanga ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngokuthi bangobani. Ebudlelwaneni obunempilo , ubuqiniso nokuxhumana kudlula i-digital face. Qaphela lezi zimpawu uma ufuna ukwakha uthando oluchuma kokubili ku-inthanethi nangaphandle kwe-inthanethi:

• Ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ayisibonelo sothando, sikuthela ngama-emoji enhliziyo namagama-ncazo ayinkondlo. Empilweni, izenzo zabo ziyabanda, futhi abavamile ukuveza imizwa yabo
• Uzakwenu uhlala abelana ngokuthunyelwe kwe-lovey-dovey ngawe esidlangalaleni. Ngokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi, abavamile ukungena ezingxoxweni eziphusile nawe
• Babhalisela izimiso nezinkolelo ezithile ku-inthanethi, kodwa empeleni, benza okuphambene. Isb, bazenza inyama edliwayo ku-inthanethi kuyilapho bejabulela isitsha sesobho yenkukhu ngokuphindwayo

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18. Uma bekwenza uzizwe ungavikelekile ngamabomu, kuwukuphula isivumelwano

Ungakuvumeli lokhu ukuthi kushelele. Ake sihlole leli fulegi elibomvu lenkundla yezokuxhumana ngokubheka ukuziphatha kwabo ezinkundleni ezahlukene. Kunemithetho yenkundla yezokuxhumana ngobudlelwano eningazinqumela yona. 

• Ingabe zikhona izimpawu zokudlala ngothando ku-Facebook? Ingabe balandela ama-akhawunti amaningi ezinkundla zokuxhumana abantu abangabazi abakhangayo? Uma ubona intshisekelo enobungane ngokweqile kubantu oxhumana nabo, yisikhathi sokubhekana nokungakhululeki
• Enye yezinkundla zokuxhumana ezinkulu amafulegi abomvu ebuhlotsheni uma eqhubeka nokwengeza abangani besifazane ku-Instagram noma uma eqhubeka nokulandela inqwaba yamadoda amahle. Kungaphakamisa ukukhathazeka ngezinhloso zabo kanye nomthelela ongaba khona ebuhlotsheni bakho
• Uma umlingani wakho ekwenza uzizwe kabi ngezenzo zakhe naphezu kokuthi uchaza imizwa yakho, kungase kube yisikhathi sokuvalelisa.

19. Bahlekisa ngokubhala kwakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana izikhathi eziningi

Uke waba nomuzwa wokuthi ukuziphatha komlingani wakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana akuhambisani nendlela akuphatha ngayo mathupha? Kuyisimo esiyindida abaningi abangase babhekane naso.

• Babekela inselelo ngokuzethemba okuthunyelwe kwakho ngemuva kwesikrini kodwa bagweme ukungqubuzana ubuso nobuso, bakushiye bengabaza imizwa yabo yangempela
• Lawo ma-emojis avamile abonakala enokugcona okungenangozi ekuqaleni, kodwa uqala ukuzibuza ukuthi ingabe kukhona okwengeziwe ekuhlekeni kwawo.
• Noma bekhuluma ku-inthanethi, awukaze ubabone besekela imibono yakho kuma-tweets noma kokuthunyelwe kwakho. Benza njenge-troll ebheke kuwe

Yini okufanele uyenze uma ubona amafulegi abomvu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ebudlelwaneni?

Ngisho noma wazi izimpawu ezibomvu zokuthandana online , kusewuhambo oluyinkimbinkimbi, oludinga ukucatshangelwa ngokucophelela. Manje njengoba usuthole okungenani eyodwa yazo kumlingani wakho, yini ozoyenza ngokulandelayo? Ingabe kuyingozi ukucela umlingani wakho ukuthi avimbele othile? Noma ukungathumeli uhlobo oluthile lokuqukethwe? Phefumula kakhulu, silapha ukukuqondisa.

Sondela isimo ngokunakekela nangokuxhumana. Khumbula, ubuhlobo obuhle bakhelwe ekwethembeni nasekuhlonipheni. Ngakho-ke, thola isibindi sokubhekana nalezi zinkinga, futhi ungagxili kunoma yini engaphansi kothando nenhlonipho ekufanele.

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• Thembeka kumlingani wakho: Uma ubona amafulegi abo abomvu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, qala ingxoxo evulekile nepholile nomlingani wakho. Buza imibuzo efana nokuthi, "Ngibone izinguquko ezithile ekuziphatheni kwakho ku-inthanethi. Singakhuluma ngakho?" 
• Funa umbono wangaphandle: Funa isiqondiso kumngane omethembayo noma umeluleki wobudlelwane. Bangase banikeze umbono omusha noma babuze imibuzo ongazange uyicabangele
• Zinike isikhathi sokuhlola isimo: Gwema ukugijimela ekwahluleleni ngaphandle kokuhlolwa okufanele. Thatha isinyathelo emuva futhi ucabange ngemizwa yakho, imicabango, nobufakazi obukhona. Zibuze imibuzo efana nokuthi "Yini ebangele lokhu kukhathazeka okuhlobene nenkundla yakhe yezokuxhumana?" noma “Ingabe kufanele ngikhathalele ukuthi isoka lami lilandela bani ku-Instagram?” 
• Linganisa isimo sobudlelwano bakho: Linganisa ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho bumi kuphi, ubuze imibuzo efana nokuthi “Ingabe sobabili sizimisele ukusebenzisana nezinselele ndawonye?” noma “Iziphi izici zobuhlobo bethu nempilo yothando ezidinga ukunakwa?” 
• Xoxani ngezinqumo ndawonye: Phatha amafulegi abomvu njengamathuba okuvuselela kanye thuthukisa ubudlelwano bakho. Esikhundleni sokukhomba ngeminwe, sebenzisana nomlingani wakho ukuthola izixazululo 
• Gcina ukuxhumana njalo: Ngaphandle kokukhuluma namafulegi abomvu, yiba nezingxoxo ezivulekile mayelana nemizwa yakho, okulindele, kanye nemingcele ephathelene nenkundla yezokuxhumana.
• Cabangela ikhefu lenkundla yezokuxhumana: Ndawonye, ​​hlolani ubuhle besikhathi esichithwa ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ku-inthanethi. Xoxa ngezinhloso zakho zekhefu. Kuthuleke ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ingajulisa ukuxhumana kwakho futhi nitholane kabusha ngaphandle komhlaba obonakalayo
• Chitha isikhathi sekhwalithi ngaphandle kwamafoni: Nikeza umlingani wakho ukunaka kwakho okuphelele. Dala isimo sokuba khona kanye nokuqaphela, uzivumele ukuthi ujabulele izikhathi ezabiwe. Cabanga ngezinto enizijabulela nobabili ezingaqinisa ubuhlobo benu
• Thatha ikhefu komunye nomunye (isikhashana): A ikhefu lobudlelwano besikhashana inganikeza bobabili ozakwethu ithuba lokuthola ukucaciseleka futhi baphinde bazitholele bona. Sebenzisa leli khefu njengethuba lokuhlola izidingo zakho zomuntu ngamunye 
• Bhekana nezinkathazo zomuntu siqu: Funa usizo lochwepheshe noma uzibandakanye ekuzihlaziyeni. Cabangela ukwesaba okungase kube nomthelela emicabangweni yakho nokuthi ungakha kanjani ukuzethemba. Ngokunakekela inhlalakahle yakho yomzwelo, ungakwazi ukuqina ngokwengeziwe ekuzulazuleni amafulegi abomvu njengangenhla

Ngakho-ke, ingabe inkundla yezokuxhumana iyabuthinta ubudlelwano? Yebo, kusobala. Ukuqhubekela phambili, khumbula ukuthi iseluleko esiqondile asinakuthatha indawo yokunaka kwangempela. Naka izenzo zozakwenu futhi uzulazule endaweni yenkundla yezokuxhumana ngozwela. Ngokuhlanganisa lezi ziphakamiso nangezingxoxo ezivulelekile, uzokhuthaza ukuzizwisa kobudlelwane obunokulinganisela nobuxhumene.

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