Indaba yethu ngempela iyifilimu ye-Bollywood ( i-Chennai Express kanye ne -2 States ngokuphambene). NgingumPunjabi ngishade nomuntu waseTamil futhi sinomshado wamasiko ahlukahlukene. Kodwa-ke, ngokungafani nalokho okuboniswa kula mafilimu, imindeni yethu yomibili yavumelana kalula nomshado wethu.
Umshado Ngamasiko Ahlukene – Amasiko Nemikhuba
Okuqukethwe
Bengingumlobokazi wokuqala phakathi kwabangane , ngakho-ke ngokwemvelo, bonke abangane bethu abavamile babebheke phambili emshadweni wethu omuhle. Nakuba kwakukhona uthando olungapheli nenjabulo emoyeni, amalungiselelo omshado aveza umehluko omkhulu wamasiko phakathi kwethu nemindeni yethu. Saqaphela ukuthi kwakuwumshado wamasiko ahlukahlukene ngakho-ke sasihlangana nokungezwani okumbalwa kanye nezingxabano, kodwa lokhu kwakungaphezu kwalokho. Umshado emasikweni ahlukene unezici ezahlukahlukene ezihlukile, kodwa usewubunye balabo bantu ababili, kanye namasiko abo.
Umyeni wami, ongumTamil Brahmin, wathi akukho ukudla okungeyona imifino, ukudansa noma iziphuzo ngosuku lomshado ngenxa yabadala abadla ngoludala emndenini wakhe. Babevumelene ngokwenza lo mcimbi ngendlela yesiPunjabi, ongaqali ekuseni njengemishado yamaTamil kodwa uthembisa ukuqhubeka kuze kube sekuseni. Sinqume ukuba nephathi ye-3-D's (Umdanso, Isidlo sakusihlwa Neziphuzo) ngaphambi kosuku lomshado.
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Uhlangothi lukamkhwenyana lwalufuna umshado esimweni sezulu esimnandi futhi hhayi ubusika obunzima eDelhi, ukuze izihlobo zabo zikhululeke. Sikhethe uFebhuwari, silindele ukuthi kungabandi kakhulu kangangokuthi ama-Chennai-ites ayevaleleke ezindlini, noma kushisa kakhulu ukuze amaPunjabis adanse. Kodwa-ke, ngalowo nyaka, ngosuku lwephathi ye-cocktail, kwakuheleza umoya oshubile, owawenza amakhaza ashubile, futhi imindeni yethu yabhekana nakho ngezindlela zayo ezihlukile.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi kwakukhona omalume bomyeni wami behleli phambi kwezifudumezi begqoke amashawuli emakhanda abo, bephuza isobho elishisayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abazala bami babehamba begqoke amabhulawuzi angenamikhono nama-halter, bephuza izindlela zokupheka ze-cocktail ezithakazelisayo , bengathinteki nhlobo emakhazeni. Umehluko wethu wawungakaze ube sobala ngendlela ekhangayo, noma eyesabekayo kangaka.
Babebonakala bekhohlwa yikho konke ngamasiko emishado emasikweni ahlukene futhi bamukela noma yini eyayibonakala ikhululekile kubo. Kwakugeleza iScotch newayini kanti ingxenye yohlangothi lukamkhwenyana nayo iphethe ingilazi ezandleni zabo. Babeqhamuke nale ndlela yokushaya amakhaza nokuhlangana 'nomoya' wamaPunjabi wokuzijabulisa. Emishadweni yesiPunjabi, amagama azo awasho lutho; okubalulekile kuphela ukuthi umculo ugcwele ivolumu. Ngisho noma imishado emasikweni ahlukene ilandela imithetho ehlukene, utshwala buhlanganisa wonke umndeni.
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Baqala ukuhlangana
U-DJ ubedlala umculo we-Bollywood ojwayelekile futhi wonke umndeni womkhwenyana usendaweni yokudansa. Abangane bami nomndeni abakaze balithole ithuba lokungena endaweni yokudansa, kodwa babenyakazisa ngenjabulo emculweni lapho ababemi khona.
Uhlangothi lomkhwenyana, oluphefumulelwe ama-movie e-Bollywood, lwalulungiselele imidlalo eyinkimbinkimbi yomcimbi we-Punjabi sangeet ukuze luhlabe umxhwele umndeni wethu. Ngokuvumelana nendlela abakhuliswe ngayo, babehlele ngokucophelela futhi balungiselela izethulo ezinemininingwane zawo wonke amalungu omndeni wabo ngengoma enikezelwe kumuntu ngamunye. Ngokuphambene nalokho, sasinochungechunge lwemidlalo yokudansa yawo wonke amalungu omndeni lapho inhloso kwakuwukudansa nje nokuhlanya kancane endaweni yokudansa.
Ukuqhathanisa emshadweni wamasiko ahlukene
Ngosuku olulandelayo kwaba umshado. Umhlangano womkhwenyana noma we-baraat wanikezwa ngo-7:00 ntambama ezimemweni zomshado futhi ngangitshele umyeni wami ukuthi eze ngo-7:30 ntambama. Emishadweni yesiPunjabi, ama-baraat aziwa ngokufinyelela ihora noma amabili ngemva kwesikhathi esinikeziwe ngenxa yokubambezeleka komzuzu wokugcina, isikhathi sokudansa emshadweni noma nje ukungena sekwephuzile. Kodwa lokhu kwakuwumshado wamasiko ahlukahlukene ngakho kusobala ukuthi izinto ngeke zihambe njengoba besicabanga.
Kodwa-ke, ngo-6:45 ntambama, ngesikhathi ubaba nomalume behlola amalungiselelo omzuzu wokugcina endaweni, futhi umama, omalume kanye nabazala besendleleni, udwendwe lwafika! Cabanga sonke simatasa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izinto sezilungile njengoba besingalindele iphathi yomkhwenyana kusenesikhathi. Ngihlala ngicabanga ukuthi, ukube lokhu bekuwumshado obonakalayo njengoba abanye bebenjalo selokhu kwafika i-Covid-19, lokhu bekungeke kube yinkinga.
Enye yezimoto zabo yayilahlekile endleleni futhi banquma ukuyilinda; ngaphandle kwalokho ngabe bangaphambili. Umyeni wami kamuva wangitshela ukuthi ngosuku lwephathi ye-cocktail, babephuzile kancane futhi inkomfa yomndeni yayibanjwe ngakho-ke ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi wonke umuntu 'uyabika' ngesikhathi somshado.
Ukwehluka kwezitayela zokugqoka kwabonakala futhi. Uhlangothi lwesiPunjabi lwaluhlotshiswe ngemibala egqamile, njengokungathi okomshado wabo, namasethi abo e-polki namadayimane angcono kakhulu, izinwele ezikahle kanye nezimonyo endaweni. Olunye uhlangothi bekungolosilika we-Kanjeevaram olula nokho oluhle nobucwebe bethempeli begolide, ama-bindi amakhulu kanye nezimonyo ezincane. Nakuba abesifazane basePunjabi babegqoke izinhlobonhlobo ezinjalo amagama abo amadoda angase angawazi ngisho (amakhorali, abomvu okwegazi, ama-teal nokunye), abanye besifazane ohlangothini lomkhwenyana bagcina begqoke umthunzi ofanayo oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, cishe njengokungathi balandela ikhodi yokugqoka.
Ubuhle Bomshado Ohlanganisa Amasiko
Ubani owayazi ukuthi zonke lezi zigigaba zokuganana kwamasiko zizoholela kulokhu. Manje lona sekuwumshado, lapho singagubhi khona isiko elilodwa kodwa amabili. Asibona ubuntu obubodwa kodwa sibabili. Okuhle kakhulu ukuthi sithandane kakhulu ngenxa yalokho. Sekuphele iminyaka ecishe ibe ngu-9 sishadile. Ngisazofunda ukwenza i-sambar enhle kakhulu. Ubheke ngabomvu imibuthano yesiPunjabi lapho ezozipholela khona.
Ngisadinga isipuni sami sokudla irayisi. Akakayithandi i-makki di roti kanye ne-sarson da saag. Umamezala wami ungifundisa isiTamil ngezinye izikhathi. Uthatha isinyathelo uma kufanele siye emicimbini esemthethweni, kodwa mina nginquma isikhathi esihamba ngaso siye kwamanye amaphathi. Njengokwehluka kobuntu bethu, sinezindlela ezahlukene kakhulu zokukhulisa indodana yethu eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala. Umyeni wami uyamjezisa ngokuba lukhuni, kanti mina ngibekezela kakhulu, ngizama ukuchaza ukuthi kungani singamvumeli ukuba enze okuthile. Ukushaya, ukushintshashintsha kanye nobumnandi balo mxube wokwehluka kuqinisekisa 'ukujabula' okukhulu emshadweni.
Ngiyajabula ukuthi asifani futhi asinayo indlela efanayo yokwenza izinto. Ikakhulukazi manje lapho ekhulisa ingane, ifunda kanjalo, kakhulu kithi. Abanye abantu bakholelwa ekwelulekweni kwemishado yamasiko amaningi ukuze banqobe lo mehluko. Ngenhlanhla, mina nomyeni wami asikakayidingi. Lo mshado wesiphambano samasiko kwakuyinto enhle kakhulu okwenzeka kimi engilethela ulwazi olusha lokufunda kimi usuku nosuku.
Imibuzo Evame Ukubuzwa
Imishado ngokwamasiko ehlukene yehlukene ngokwamasiko, imibono kanye namasiko. Lezi zinto zingangena ezinkonzweni, emishadweni, umehluko emizweni yabantu nasekugqokeni ngisho nesikhathi somshado. Ngaphezu kwalokho, khona-ke lokhu kwehluka kwamasiko kubonakala emishadweni ngemva komshado, ngokolimi, ukuthi abantu badlani, bagqoka kanjani kanye nengqondo yabo.
Yebo bangakwazi. Uma kunenkinga, umuntu angakhetha ngisho nokwelulekwa ngemishado yamasiko amaningi ukuze abhekane nayo. Umshado wamasiko uzoletha izinselelo ezithile kodwa ngothando olwanele nokuphikelela, ungaba futhi umshado omuhle kakhulu.
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