"Ka hē te whakamaoritanga a taku tāne i aku kōrero katoa" - 17 Tohutohu hei āwhina i a koe

"Ka hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i aku kōrero katoa" – te kōrero mō ngā mano tini o ngā hoa rangatira e karapoti nei i a mātou. I aroha ahau ki tētahi tāne he rite tōna kaha ki te pīnati, he ngāwari hoki tōna ngākau. I ngana tonu ahau ki te whakatenatena i a ia kia kōrero mai ki ahau, kia whakapuaki mai i ōna kare ā-roto, kia waiho rānei ahau hei wāhanga o tōna ao. Ko ēnei nganatanga koretake katoa ka pā mai ki ahau me te whakautu tino koretake mai i a ia, "Kua taea e koe te kōrero mai ki ahau i mua ake nei he maha ō raruraru ki ahau. Ko te tikanga kia ngāwari ngā whanaungatanga. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakapau kaha ki te noho tahi me te tangata e arohaina ana e koe."

E ai ki tāu i whakaaro ai, kāore taua whanaungatanga i pai mōku. Engari ka taea e au te whakaaro kei roto ahau i te mamae kotahi i roto i te marena mō ngā rā maha, ina whakahē tonu tō tāne i ngā mea katoa e kōrerohia ana e koe. He tautohetohe anō ia kōrero ki a ia. I ētahi wā, ko ia te tahae i ō kōrero. I ētahi wā, ko te kēmu tuku whakapae. I ētahi wā, he whakahāwea ira tangata noa iho.

Ki te kore ia e eke ki te taumata o tō manawanui, tera pea he nui rawa te tono whakarere mō tēnei take. "Engari kāore he pānga o taku whakaaro ki taku tāne. Ko ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e au, ko tāku tāne he rerekē," ka whakahē pea koe. Āe, kua mārama mātou ki tāu kōrero. Nō reira, he aha tāu e taea ai hei whakapai ake i tō marena? Kia mau ki a mātou tae noa ki te tohu whakamutunga, ā, ka kite koe i te ara pai i te kokonga, e oati ana mātou!

"Ka hē te whakamaoritanga a taku tāne i aku kōrero katoa" - 17 Tohutohu hei āwhina i a koe

Kei te whakaaro koe kāore e taea e koe te kōrero ki tāu tāne me te kore ia e riri? Mēnā he rite tonu tēnei ki te mea e mōhiotia ana e koe – ina tautohe kōrua, te āhua nei kei te kōrero koe ki te pakitara. Nā te mea ko ngā kōrero anake e hiahia ana ia ki te whakaatu ki a koe, kāore he pānga ki tō whakaaro. Heoi anō, kāore tētahi o ā kōrua tautohe e tae ki tētahi otinga whaitake. 

E mea ana a Irene, he kaiwhakahaere hokohoko nō New Jersey, "Ko ia te mea nui mō taku tāne. I te rā i tukuna mai ai e taku kamupene taua whakatairanga nui ki ahau, i tino whakahīhī ahau ki a au anō. I tae ahau ki te kāinga ka kōrero atu ki a ia. E rua meneti me te hawhe te roa i pau i a ia ki te huri i te kōrero ki te whai hua o tana whakatairanga, ā, ko taku he taonga whakamarie noa iho. Te āhua nei, i riro mai i ahau nā te mea he wahine ahau."

I noho a Irene i raro i te atarangi o tētahi tāne whakahihi . He matatini nui o te hiranga, te whakamātau i ngā mea e pā ana ki a ia anō, te whakahē i ngā tirohanga a ētahi atu – he tohu noa iho ēnei o te whakahihi. Ki te kore tō tāne e tino kaha pērā i tana, me rapu he otinga mō tō āwangawanga mō te "Ka hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e au". He aha koe i whakaaro ai he aha ia i pēnei ai? He mārama kei te puta he āputa kōrero i waenganui i a kōrua. Ā, ina kitea e koe te pūtake o tēnā, ka māmā ake te whakatau i ngā māramatanga kei te aroaro. I tēnei wā, me whakapuaki atu ētahi o ā mātou whakaaro nui ki a koe. Mā ēnei tohutohu 17 koe e āwhina ki te whakamahi pai i te āhuatanga "Kāore taku whakaaro e pā ana ki taku tāne".

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1. He wāhanga o te ao ngā whakahē – whakaaetia tēnā

I te wā e huri haere ana ngā mea katoa o tēnei ao, ka mau tonu tēnei meka kotahi. Ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi hononga ki tētahi atu tangata, ka puta he pakanga, ka puta he tautohetohe, ā, i ētahi wā, ka kino pea. Ko te tere o tō hohou i te rongo ki te ao tūturu, ko te pai ake. Heoi anō, he rerekē ō tātou whakaaro i ō tātou mātua i ngā wā maha. 

Nō reira, ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi atu pakeke kei waenganui o ō tau rua tekau, kaua e tumanako ka tino ōrite ō rātou whakaaro ki ōu. Ehara ngā whanaungatanga i te moenga rōhi kia mahi rā anō tātou ki aua whanaungatanga, kia pumau ai. Engari ki te whakahē tonu tō tāne i āu kōrero, kua tae ki te wā kia tūpato koe ki te mahi i tētahi mea mōna. He pai ngā whakahē, engari kāore e pai mēnā he tikanga tonu.

2. Kia mārama ki ō kare ā-roto me ō tumanakohanga, ā, kia mārama te whakapuaki i aua kare ā-roto

Ko te mōhio ki a koe anō i roto, i waho hoki, te taahiraa tuatahi ka taea e koe te mahi mēnā e hiahia ana koe kia mārama ia ki a koe. Ki te kore koe e mārama ki te āhua o tō hiahia kia atawhaitia koe, ki te momo reo aroha rānei e whakamahia ana e koe, ka noho pōuri ia. Me hoatu e au tētahi tauira ki a koe.

Mehemea i tēnei wā i hiahia koe kia tikina koe e ia i te taunga rererangi. Engari i tuku karere noa koe "E kore e taea e au te tatari ki te kite i a koe" me te tumanako ka neke ia ko ia anake. Ka kite koe he aha i pērā ai ngā kōrero koretake hei take e puta ai te raruraru i waenganui i te tokorua? Ā, ko te riri mō te "Ka hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e au" e kore e āwhina i a koe ki te whakapai ake i te āhuatanga. 

3. Kōrerotia ki a ia ō kare ā-roto ina whakapohehetia e ia ō kupu

Tukua ahau kia kōrero atu mō tētahi kōrerorero poto māua ko taku hoa, ko Alice:

Alice: Kua hoha ahau ki te whawhai ki a Sam. Ko ia rerenga kōrero ka kōrerotia e au, ka taea e ia te whakamāori hei kupu whakatoi. He he tonu nōku ina tautohetohe māua?

Ahau: Āe, kaua e tino whakapataritari i a koe anō. E tino mohio ana ahau ka taea e kōrua te wikitoria i tēnei wā. He aha tana tauhohenga i tō kōrerotanga atu ki a ia mō tēnei?

Ārihi: Āe, kāore rawa i maia ahau ki te kōrero ki a ia. Me pēhea rā mēnā ka whara ōna kare ā-roto i ahau?

I ohorere ahau i te mōhio ka takahia e taku hoa te whakaaro o te kōrero pono i runga i te anga hua manu i te taha o tana tāne. Whakarongo mai, ka piki haere ō koutou raruraru kia tae rā anō ki te wā e rite ai kōrua ki te tū atu ki a rātou, ki te whakaae hoki ki tō rātou noho. Hei pakeke, ko te tikanga kia whakapuaki kōrua i ō kōrua āwangawanga, kaua e whakahaere i tō kōrua marena i runga i ngā whakaaro mō te whanonga a tetahi ki tetahi. Ki te whakaaro koe "Ko taku tāne te mea nui ki a ia", me noho ia ki te kōrero, me te tohu atu. Me pēhea e whakatika ai tō tāne i tana whakararu i a koe ki tēnei raruraru mēnā kāore ia e mōhio?

4. Pātai atu ki a ia “He aha?”

Nā te mea kāore ia e whakarongo ana ki tāu e kōrero ana? He momo āwangawanga hōhonu tōna, he raruraru rānei mō tōna whakaaro ki a ia anō e ngana ana ia ki te whakakore mā te whiu i a koe? He āhua noa iho rānei tōna kia riri, kia tere hoki te riri. Me rapu tātou i te pūtake o te raruraru. 

Whakamātauria he wā poto i mua i te whakatau, "Kāore he pānga o taku whakaaro ki taku tāne. Ki taku whakaaro kāore e taea e au tēnei mahi i ēnei rā." Me i taea e koe te wehe atu i te tūranga o te wahine pukuriri (he tūranga e mārama ana i roto i ēnei āhuatanga) ka noho hei hoa pai mōna mō ētahi haora, tera pea ka whakapuaki ia i ngā mea e whakararuraru ana i a ia. Ā, ina pērā ia, kia aroha ki a ia – whakamanahia ōna kare ā-roto. Ki te whai hua tēnei kōrerorero e ai ki tā tātou e tumanako nei, ka wetewetehia te haurua o ō pakanga marena.

5. Karanga atu ki a ia me te atawhai ina he ke atu tana kōrero 

" Ka hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i aku kōrero katoa" – he raruraru pea tēnei mēnā he tangata aro nui tō tāne ki a ia anō. Kāore rawa ia e aro mai i a koe e kōrero ana ki a ia? Kei te waea atu ia, kei te mahi tonu rānei. Mēnā koinā, kāore e taea te whakapae i a koe mō te manukanuka mō "Ko aku kōrero katoa, ko taku tāne te mea kē." Kāore koe e tika kia manawanui ki tēnei kuware ake ake nā te mea kua moe tāne koe. Whakamaharatia mārire ia kia tūpato ina kite koe i a ia e wehe atu ana i tētahi kōrero nui.

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6. Kia noho haumaru ia, kia manaakitia hoki 

Mena kāore i tutuki ngā hiahia kare ā-roto o te tangata i a ia e tamariki ana, he maha tonu ngā wā ka hangaia e rātou he tikanga whakatau i te raruraru, ka hoatu e rātou te mea e tumanakohia ana e rātou hei utu. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga anō hoki, ka aroha tēnei tangata ki tōna hoa rangatira pērā i tā rātou e tumanako ana kia whakahokia mai te aroha (te kore rānei o taua aroha). Nā, i te mea kāore tēnei hoa rangatira i te mōhio ki tōna tamarikitanga uaua, tera pea ka huri hei tino pouri mō tā rātou ake huarahi whakaatu aroha.

Tērā pea koinei tētahi atu take e hē ai te mārama o tō tāne ki a koe i ngā wā maha. Tērā pea kei te uaua ki a kōrua te whakamārama i te reo aroha o tētahi ki tētahi. Ngāna kia waihangahia he wāhi haumaru i roto i tō kōrua marena hei wetewete i ēnei kare ā-roto ngaro, me te kore e whakaroa. 

7. Whakamātauria ngā mahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero a te tokorua

Kāore e taea te kōrero ki tō tāne me te kore ia e riri? Me whakarongo tātou ki a Lena, he wahine kāinga 30-tau te pakeke, mō te āwhina a ngā mahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero a te tokorua i a ia ki te whakatika i te pakaru o te hononga ki tana tāne.

E mea ana a Lena, "I kōrero ahau ki aku hoa he hē te whakamārama a taku tāne i ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e au. Nā tētahi o rātou tēnei tohutohu i tuku mai ki ahau. I whai wā māua ko taku hoa i ia rā ki te whakarongo ki ā māua kōrero noa. I takaro māua i tēnei kēmu i reira ka tuhia e māua tētahi mea e maioha ana māua mō te tangata kē, ka whakapiri atu ki te pouaka whakamātao. Nā tēnei i homai he take ki a māua kia menemene tetahi ki tetahi. I ētahi pō, ka ruku māua ki ngā kōrero hohonu ake. I whakaae māua ki ngā hapa, ā, i whakapāha mō ngā wā katoa i whara ai māua tetahi i tetahi. Āta haere, ka kitea anō e māua te aroha i mauheretia i roto i te tuanui mō te wā roa."

Ka taea hoki e koe te whakamātau mārire ki te whakapuaki i tō whakaaro i mua i te kōrero. Mēnā rānei, whakamanahia, whakawhirinakihia hoki te whakaaro o te tangata kē i mua i te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro. "Āe, ko taku e kōrero atu nei ki a koe he mea noa iho e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakapuaki mōku, kāore he pānga ki a koe. E aroha ana ahau ki a koe, ā, e harikoa/pouri ana ahau ki te whakapuaki atu ki a koe..." Mēnā rānei "E mōhio ana ahau kāore tō whakaaro i te whara i ahau, e mōhio ana ahau e aroha ana koe ki ahau. Me whakapuaki noa e ahau ōku kare ā-roto mō tēnei..."

8. Whakamutua te hiahia ki te toa i ngā whawhai katoa

Ko tēhea te mea e pai ake ana ki a koe – te hinga i a ia mā te tinihanga, ā, ka ngaro tō tāne i roto i te tukanga, te mahi rānei i tētahi mea hei whakapakari i tō mārenatanga ? Mena kei roto koe i te tīma 'mārenatanga harikoa, hauora', he nui ake te uara o te wikitoria i tētahi arai i tō whakapehapeha uaua. Ngāna ki te pehi i te hiahia kaha ki te whakaeke ā-waha i a ia hei whakatū noa i tētahi kaupapa. Kāore ngā whanaungatanga e mahi tonu i runga i ngā hononga rua o te tika me te hē. I ētahi wā, ko te manawanui anake te mea e hiahiatia ana hei kimi i tētahi ara waenga.

9. Kaua e whakamahi i te reo pukuriri 

He maha ā mātou kaipānui kua kī pinepine i tēnei kōrero, "He hē katoa aku kōrero ki taku tāne." Nā, koinei tētahi taha o te kōrero. Kei te warewarehia e mātou te mea i tangohia e koe he reo kino, he reo whakatoi rānei, i tukuna rānei e koe ētahi kōrero whakatoi hei whakaiti i a ia? 

I taua wā, mā ōna kare ā-roto e akiaki ia ia ki te mahi i ngā mea katoa i roto i tōna kaha hei whakaatu i a ia he tika. Tērā pea koinei tētahi o ngā take kāore e taea e koe te kōrero ki tāu tāne me te kore ia e riri. Mena kei te riri kōrua, kei te kōrero kino rānei i roto i ia kōrero, kua tae ki te wā ki te tirotiro i te reo me te teitei o tō reo.

10. Whakamutua i waenganui o te tautohetohe

I te wā e werawera ana te tangata, ka kōrerotia e ia ngā kupu tino koretake. Ā muri ake nei, ka pāngia rātou e ngā hua kino, ka whakama, ka pouri hoki mō te whakakino i tā rātou hoa rangatira. Tērā pea ka puta ngā wā e ngana ana koe ki te whakamārama i tētahi mea ki tāu tāne, ā, kāore ia e pai ki te hopu i tō whakaaro. Kei te riri koe; kei te whakapoauau tetahi i tetahi. Tērā pea ka mutu ko tētahi o kōrua ka kōrero kino, ka nui rawa te kino o te tautohetohe. 

Kaua e whakaroa tetahi ki tetahi mō ngā wiki i muri i tēnei, me whai wā okioki i mua i te taenga ki raro rawa. Haere ki waho, kai i te miraka kawa tio, ka hoki mai ina marino koe, ā, ka taea e koe te whakaaro tika. "He he tonu nōku ina tautohetohe tāua?" ka pātai pea koe. Kāo, kāore pea. Ā, koinei te take me kimi e koe he huarahi hei tīmata anō i te kōrero mā te marino i te tuatahi, hei painga mō tō marena. He pai ake te mahi mēnā ka okioki 'rua' kōrua, ka hoki mai me te hinengaro mārama ake.

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11. Whatiia te mekameka whakapae

Ko Evelyn, he kaiako kura tuarua kei waenganui o ōna tau 30, e amuamu ana, " Ka hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i aku kōrero katoa. Ko aku kōrero katoa, ko taku tāne te mea kē. I tono ahau ki a ia kia tikina tā māua tamāhine i te kura nā te mea i noho ahau ki te mahi. I kī atu ahau ki a ia, EHARA i ahau te kawenga ki te tiaki i ngā mea katoa. Ka hoki mai ia me te kī, "Kei te kī koe he pāpā kino ahau? He aha koe te kore ai e taea te tango i tētahi rā hararei ki te haere ki ana whakaaturanga kanikani pērā i ahau? He aha ahau tonu te whakakore i ngā hui?""

Kei te amuamu tonu a Evelyn mō tana whanonga pōrearea ki tana hoa pai. I tētahi ara, ko te whakawhiti whakapae te mea e piri tahi ana i a rāua i roto i tēnei marena kino. Me whakamārama atu anō ahau, kāore rānei, ka kite koe he aha te hiranga o te wāwāhi i te tauira INĀIANEI ka tīmata te whai whakaaro ki ngā hiahia o tētahi ki tētahi?

12. Tērā pea he whai hua ngā tautohetohe mēnā ka ngana koe

"He hē katoa aku kōrero ki taku tāne, he aha rā te take o te kōrero ki a ia? Kāore au i kōrero ki a ia i ngā rā e whā kua pahure ake nei," te kōrero a tētahi kaipānui, kua pāngia e ngā raruraru marena mai i ngā tau e rua kua pahure ake nei o tana marena, ki a mātou. Kāore e taea e koe te ārai i te tangata kē atu i mua i te whakarongo katoa ki a ia. Ahakoa kei te ngana koe ki te tohu i tētahi o ōna ngoikoretanga, me mahi i roto i te huarahi e kore ai ia e whakaaro he koretake, he mataku rānei. 

Whakamaumahara ki a ia me pēhea tonu tō aroha ki a ia, me te maha o ngā āhuatanga hei rapu māna i roto i te tāne . He mea nui kia mau tonu te hononga aroha ki a ia ahakoa kei te tautohetohe kōrua. Kia mau te ringa, kia mārie te titiro kanohi, kia whakarongo, kia kōrero aroha hoki i a koe e whakaū ana i tō raruraru. Waihoki, he nui ngā tūponotanga ka hē te kaupapa i roto i te tautohetohe, ā, ka kōrerohia te take i wareware ai ia ki tō rā whānau i ngā tau e toru kua pahure. Kia arotahi! Ina kite koe i te iti rawa o te tūponotanga ka huri te kōrero hei whawhai, mā ēnei tohutohu koe e āwhina kia hoki ki te huarahi tika.

13. Ehara te whakahoki kupu ki a ia i te otinga 

" Ka hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i aku kōrero katoa. Me pēhea mēnā ka hoatu e au ki a ia te reka o tana ake rongoā? Tērā pea ka kite ia i te hē o ana mahi i taua wā" – ka puta mai pea ēnei whakaaro i roto i tōu mahunga. Engari kua whakaarohia e koe me pēhea te hanga i tētahi āhua noho tahi e kore e taea te tu atu i roto i tōu ake kāinga?

Ki te mea kei te whakamanamana ia mō tētahi motuka hou, me noho tonu koe ki mua, me te whakamanamana mō te whare hou i whakaritea e koe mō ō mātua. Ka puranga ake tētahi whakapoauautanga ki tētahi atu. Ā tōna wā, ka tino wehe kē kōrua i roto i te marena , ā, ka uaua rawa te mōhio tetahi ki tetahi. Whakapono mai, ehara te kanohi ki te kanohi i te whakaaro tika hei whakatika i tētahi marena pakaru. Engari ka nui ake te mauahara, te kawa.

14. Tu tonu 

"Kāore au i te pai ki ngā reo nui. Ka tīmata ia ki te hamama i ia wā ka hē ahau, ka mutu taku kōrero, ka wehe atu rānei. Nōku tonu te he ina tautohe māua?" te pātai a Elijah, he kaituhi nō Chicago, Illinois. Kāore. Kaua e pohehe, e Elijah. Ehara i te mea ko tā mātou he hoatu i te whakaaro ko koe te tangata hei whakaora i tō marena i tēnei raruraru. Ae, i hiahia mātou ki te tohu i ētahi mea ka taea e koe te whakarerekē hei pai mō tēnei whanaungatanga. Engari kāore mātou e kī ana kia whakarērea ō uara, ō hiahia, me ō whakaaro kia rite ki āna paearu mō te hoa rangatira 'tino pai'. Kaua rawa e hoki whakamuri i te tū mō ō whakapono, ahakoa te huarahi e arahi ai i tō whanaungatanga. Me mahi noa me te aroha.

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15. Murua, tukua atu hoki ētahi 

E kōrero ana ahau i runga i aku ake wheako, e mōhio ana ahau ki te whakarihariha o te kore e taea e te tangata whakahīhī te ārai i a ia anō ki tētahi kōrero e tika ana kia pā ki a KOE. Nō reira, ina kī koe, "Ko taku tāne te mea nui ki a ia", e whakaae ana ahau ki a koe. Heoi, ka taea e koe, e au rānei te whakakahore i ō tāua ngoikoretanga tangata? Kāore hoki e taea e tāu tāne. 

Ka aroha te tangata ki te tangata, ā, ka noho tahi rātou mō te wā roa e awhi ana i aua tohu kino katoa o te whanaungatanga. Nā te mea i ētahi wā ka nui ake ngā tohu kakariki i ngā tohu whero. Ki te kaha tonu koe ki te whakatau i ēnei take marena, me te piri tonu ki tōna taha i ngā wā pai, i ngā wā uaua, me whakarite e koe he wāhi mō te aroha i roto i tō oranga. Ka taea te whakakore i ētahi pakanga, ētahi māramatanga hē rānei, mena kāore e whanake hei tauira.

16. Whakaarohia te aratohu ngaio

I te nuinga o te wā, ka pāngia ngā whanaungatanga e ngā raruraru, ā, ka hinga pea ngā hoa tokorua ki te kimi huarahi i waho o ēnei porowhita kino. Ko te mahi tino whaihua ko te haere ki te kite i tētahi kaitohutohu marena whai raihana. Ka taea e koe te tangi ko koe anake, ka tukua tō marena kia hinga ki roto i te awaawa i ia rā, i ia rā. 

Heoi anō, ka taea e koe te noho ki te tari o te kaiwhakaora hinengaro, ka pātai, "Ka hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e au. Me pēhea taku whakamōhio i a ia ki tōku uara, kia pai ake ai tana manaaki i ahau?" Hei mōhio māu, kei a koe tonu a Bonobology i ngā wā katoa. Mena he āwhina tāu e rapu ana, kei konei ngā kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro mātau, mātau hoki o tā mātou rōpū tohunga hei tautoko i a koe.

17. Kia tupato koe 

Ina whakakāhoretia tonutia tō tirohanga e tō tāne, ka raru pea tō hinengaro. Ko koe anake te tangata hei tiaki i tō hauora hinengaro, ā, e kore tēnei haerenga e haere noa. Tērā pea ka pāngia koe e te nui o te raruraru, ka whakakī hoki i tō hinengaro ki te riri. Me whai mahere tārua koe hei tuku i te ngākau harikoa me te rangimārie o roto hei whakatau i tēnei raruraru whānau. He mahi whakangahau, he whakaora tinana, he ako i tētahi pūkenga hou, he whakaaroaro, he hikoi rānei i roto i te ngahere – rukuhia ki roto i tētahi mea e hari ai koe i tēnei ao, kaua e whakaroa.

E te kaipānui, ko te tumanako ka mōhio koe ki te huarahi hei whakamarie i a koe anō, ā, i te wā e rongo ai koe i te riri e rere ana i roto i a koe mō te "He hē te whakamāoritanga a taku tāne i ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e au". Kia manawanui, kaua e tukua ia kia uru ki roto i tō kiri, ā, kia mārama te kōrero. Kei te hiahia mātou kia pai ake ōu whanaketanga me tō heke mai me tō tāne aroha. 

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