Communication
It hurts when my LDR boyfriend cuts off from me
Question: Dear Ma’am, I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend since last 1 year. He is quite loving and caring, but sometimes I don’t know what goes wrong with him. He suddenly cuts off… doesn’t talk or even text, but after a couple of days, he is back. Maybe he has work …
This couple may be different but their communication strategy is unique
My husband and I are vastly different creatures in pretty much everything. One wonders how we have stayed married for almost 20 years. But when I try to capture the essence of what makes us so different, I realise we aren’t different at all really – I mean we are, but we’re different in all …
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What we find to talk about after 30 years of marriage
A lot of my younger friends are always curious to know what couples like us who have been married for 30 years ever talk about. “Do you actually talk to each other now?” “I mean what is there to talk about, you guys lead a boring life.” “The kids are working and away most of …
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Here’s how you can keep your marriage intact
“Marriages have become more complex than ever. There’s love, there’s trust, and there’s fun, but all of it is marred by misunderstanding, chaos, and countless ego clashes.” said my best friend as we were undertaking a leisurely stroll. Then, she told me how her husband screamed at her when she had accidentally lost her wallet …
10 Signs You Are Dating A Boy, Not A Man
The difference between a boy and a man in a relationship can be easy to spot, provided you know what you’re looking for. To make sure you don’t end up mislabeling your man and missing out on a good thing as a result, let’s take a look at the differences between dating a man vs a boy.
Golden silence: Despite being chatterboxes this couple doesn’t talk at home
I grew up with talkers; my parents, grandparents, uncles and aunts talk a lot. With their spouses, siblings, neighbours or the help, especially the help because if she is not humoured enough, she may just decide the memsahib is not worth working for. One of my memories of childhood is the time of the evening …
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Here’s what it takes to satisfy a woman in bed
A couple came to me about their sexual dysfunction. They were extremely distressed and hadn’t been having sex for a long time. Their communication had eroded and they were just cohabiting for the kids’ sake. However, the lady finally decided to seek help and searched for a lady sexologist, approached her husband and convinced him. …
