Ihlola izibalo zabantu abakhohlisayo eMelika, i -General Social Survey iphawula ukuthi ngamadoda avame kakhulu ukukopela kunabesifazane. Uma umuntu esebhekene nokukhashelwa yindoda ayithanda kakhulu, umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu engqondweni yakhe uyohlala uwukuthi - Ingabe uzokopela futhi? Uma wake waba ngumkopeli, ingabe uyohlala ephinda?
Ukuze singene shí kule ndaba, sibe nengxoxo nomqeqeshi wempilo kanye nomeluleki uJoie Bose , ogxile ekweluleni abantu ababhekene nemishado ehlukumezayo, ukuhlukana, kanye nokulala nabantu abangaphandle komshado. Simbuze, “Kungani umuntu eba nesifiso sokukopela ebudlelwaneni?” Ukholelwa ukuthi, “Abantu ngokuvamile abahleli ukukopela kusenesikhathi. Esigabeni sokuqala, kwenzeka ngokuzumayo. Bese umuzwa wobuhlobo obusha uletha injabulo. Ugcwalisa lokho okungekho ebudlelwaneni obukhona.”
“Nokho, kunezimo ezithile ezivimbela umuntu ukuba ahlukane nomngane wakhe womshado.” Yilokho futhi iphuzu lapho ukukopela kuqala khona,” uyanezela. Noma ngabe yisiphi isimo, ukungathembeki kudala ukuphuka kwenhliziyo, ukushaqeka, umuzwa wecala, nomunyu ebudlelwaneni. Imithelela ekhubaza kakhulu yokukopela ebudlelwaneni yizinkinga zokwethembana. Ake sixoxe ngokuthi uma umkhohlisi usuke engumkhohlisi yini.
Ingabe Uzophinde Akopele? Zithini Izibalo
Okuqukethwe
Ukukhohliswa kungaba nzima kodwa qagela ukuthi yini? Akuwena wedwa. Ngokombono wokuziphatha, ukukopela ngokusobala kuwu-cha-cha oqinile, kodwa emhlabeni wonke, ukungathembeki kubonakala kuyinto evamile kunokuba ihluke. Izibalo ze-serial cheater ziyethusa:
- U-40% wabashadile abangashadile kanye no-25% wemishado babona okungenani isigameko esisodwa sokungathembeki, ngokusho kombiko. izifundo
- Enye cwaningo uthi u-70% wabo bonke abantu baseMelika bazitika ohlotsheni oluthile lokuqomisana esikhathini esithile ekuphileni kwabo komshado
- Cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezinhlanu zabantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-30 babe nobudlelwano bocansi nomunye umuntu ongeyena umlingani wabo, njengokusho kwabo ucwaningo
- Ngokuya ngalokhu cwaningo, abantu (53.3%) okuvamise ukubikwa ukuthi bayakopela nabangani abaseduze, omakhelwane, noma abantu obajwayele
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Ngakho-ke, uma ubheka imishado ekuzungezile, umlingani okhohlisayo akuyona into engashaqisa futhi. Kodwa ingabe ikhona indlela yokuthola ukuthi bazophinde bakopele? Nazi izibalo ezithakazelisayo ezizokusiza ukuthi uphendule lokhu: “Ingabe uzophinde akhohlise uma ngimbuyisela emuva?”
- One 2016 cwaningo ithole ukuthi phakathi kwabantu abake bakopela ebudlelwaneni bangaphambili, u-30% bakhohlise abalingani babo bamanje
- Enye cwaningo bathola ukuthi labo ababengathembekile ebuhlotsheni obubodwa babenethuba eliphindwe kathathu lokungathembeki kolandelayo.
- Ucwaningo uthi u-45% walabo ababike ukukopela umlingani wabo ebudlelwaneni bokuqala babike ukuthi benza kanjalo nakowesibili
Kodwa ukufunda izibalo ngabantu abakopela izikhathi eziningi akwanele. Phela, ungazibona kanjani izimpawu zokuxwayisa zokuthi wakopela izikhathi eziningi 'kuwe'? Uma ucabanga ukuthi umlingani wakho uzimisele ukukopela futhi, khona-ke sizokusiza. Ake sihlole izici ezibangela ukukopela okulandelanayo kanye nezindlela zokuhlonza izimpawu ezicacile zokuthi uzokopela futhi.
Izici Ezivamile Zokukopela Kwe-serial
U-Joie ucabanga ukuthi izici ezimbili ezivame kakhulu zomkhohlisi we-serial ukunganeliseki nokungajabuli. Uthi, “Uma kunesizathu sokungajabuli ebuhlotsheni bamanje futhi uma leso simo siqhubeka sikhula, amathuba okukopela aya anda.”
1. Akukho ukuziphendulela
Abakopelayo abalandelanayo bahlala benombono wokuthi ukuthambekela kokukopela kuyinto abahlushwa yiyo. Abanalo igunya phezu kwakho futhi abakwazi ukuzibamba. Eqinisweni, ungamangala ngezinto ezishaqisayo ezishiwo abakopelayo lapho bebhekene nazo. Iphutha likhona noma kuphi nakuzo zonke izindawo ngaphandle kwabo.
2. Ukusola imidlalo
Bonke abakopelayo abalandelanayo banekhono lobuciko bokukhohlisa ebudlelwaneni . Basebenzisa kabi isicaba sothando futhi bashiye abalingani babo bezizwa bengafaneleki noma benesibopho sokukopela. Umkopelayo olandelanayo angabeka ukungathembeki kwakhe kumlingani wakhe. Izinkulumo ezinjengokuthi “Awukaze ube sekhaya kimi” noma “Awuzange wanelise izidingo zami ezingokwenyama” zivame ukuzwakala. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuphambene kakhulu futhi kuyingozi.
3. “Akuyona into enkulu kangako!”
Kuzo zonke izimpawu zomuntu okhohlisayo ngokulandelana, lesi yisona esibi kakhulu. Banciphisa ubukhulu besimo ngokuzama ukwenza ukukopela kube yinto evamile. Bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kuvamile futhi izinto ezinjalo zenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile. Akudingeki ukusho ukuthi lo mbono othukuthelisayo ubangela ukuba umlingani wakhe abhekane nobuhlungu obukhulu. Umlingani othintekile akakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani umuntu okhohlisayo engabonisi ukuzisola.
Ingabe noma yiziphi zalezi zimpawu ezihambisana nalokho ohlangabezana nakho ebudlelwaneni bakho? Usuvele uyazazi izibalo zabakopela abakhaphela ozakwabo okwesibili. Kodwa uma ufuna ukuthola ukucaciseleka okwengeziwe ngokuthi indoda yakho izophinde ikhohlise noma cha, dlula kulezi zimpawu eziyi-11 okudingeka uziqaphele.
11 Izimpawu Uzophinde Akopele
Summer, udokotela waseKansas, wabelana nathi ngendaba yakhe. Lapho uJoey ekhohlisa ehlobo, wayekhungathekile. Kwamthatha izinyanga eziyisithupha ukuthi amxolele ngokuphelele kodwa lokhu akuzange kumenze angabi nandaba nenhliziyo yakhe futhi. Uma kukhona, kwamfundisa ukuba aqaphe futhi aqaphe ukuze angabe esalimala. Waqala ukuqaphela ngemva konyaka ukuthi wayesekhulile futhi echitha amahora amaningi kakhulu ehhovisi - izimpawu zokuqala ukuthi uzophinde akhohlise.
USummer wayengeke avele ame ambuke enza amaqhinga afanayo amadala okumkhohlisa futhi. Wambhekana naye. Wayekwazi ukubaluleka kokuthethelela ebudlelwaneni kodwa kwanele. Leli kwakuyithuba lokugcina futhi wayelishayile. Wanquma ukuthi ukuhamba kwakuyindlela engcono kakhulu kuye.
Uma uke wabhekana nesimo esifanayo ngaphambili futhi uzama ukulungisa ubuhlobo bakho, akulimazi ukuhlala uqaphile. Vele ube nobuqili futhi ungasoli ngokweqile. Ngoba uma enza izinguquko zangempela ukuze alungise ubuhlobo, ukusabela kwakho kungase kumxoshe.
Ngaphambi kokuthi singene ezimpahleni zokuthi uzophinde akhohlise, ake sihlole izinkomba ezibaluleke kakhulu uJoie azigcizelela kakhulu: “Qaphela uma efihla ukuthi ukuphi muva nje noma izenzo namazwi akhe awasafani. Ingabe unothando nokunaka okungaphezulu? indlela yokusebenzisa imali, sekuyisikhathi sokwethuka.”
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1. Uke wakhohlisa ebudlelwaneni bakhe bangaphambili
Kuvame ukushiwo ukuthi ukuziphatha kwesikhathi esidlule kozakwethu akufanele kusikhathaze futhi yisikhathi samanje kuphela esibalulekile. Kodwa uma eke wakhohlisa abalingani bakhe bangaphambili bese kuba kuwe, khona-ke kukhona iphethini ejulile emsebenzini lapha. Njengokukhangwa okubi kulo mkhuba oyichilo, angase aphindele kulo mkhuba ofanayo. Uma umuntu wakho ekopela izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa, khona-ke umlingani wakho ungumqambimanga oyimpoqo.
2. Akakhulumisani kahle
Mhlawumbe uzisola ngempela ngalokho akwenzile kodwa uqinisekile ukuthi sekuphelile? Kulula ukwethemba amadoda akhuluma ngokukhululekile ngezidingo zawo kanye nezenzo zawo. Amanye amadoda akhetha ukuyivalela imizwa yawo, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokwesaba ukukuzwisa ubuhlungu noma ngenxa yokuthi kukhona akufihlayo. Uxolo, kodwa lokho akuzona izaba ezinhle.
Kukhona esinye sezibonakaliso zokuthi uzokopela esikhathini esizayo. Uma efuna ukuqala kabusha, kufanele athembeke futhi akwazi ukukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyazisola ngokukopela kuwe. Ngaphandle kwalokho, izinkinga zizoqhubeka nokukhula. Nobabili yena nawe kufanele nichaze okulindelwe ebudlelwaneni benu ngesikhathi senqubo yokubuyisana.
3. Ukugcina izimfihlo kungenye yezimpawu zokuthi uzophinde akhohlise
URegina Solomon (igama elishintshiwe) wahlupheka ngenxa yokujola komyeni wakhe iminyaka. Babuyelana ngandlela thize ngemuva kwengxabano enkulu kodwa izinto azisafani. Uthi: “Okungicasula kakhulu ukungifihlela izinto.
Esinye sezibonakaliso zomyeni okhohlisayo ukuthi umbona eqamba amanga ngezinto ezincane, njalo. Nazi ezinye zezibonakaliso zokuthi umuntu unamathuba amaningi okukopela:
- Uzifela ngokuvikela amathuluzi akhe
- Ucingo lwakhe luhlale lubheke phansi noma lusephaketheni
- Uya ekhoneni ukuze athamele izingcingo ngezinye izikhathi/Akazibambi izingcingo uma useduze
- Wenza ngendlela exakile uma uzama ukusebenzisa ikhompuyutha yakhe ephathekayo ukwenza umsebenzi othile
- Akakutsheli ukuthi ubekuphi yize ephume amahora amaningi
- Uthola ngomngani oyedwa ukuthi ubengekho ngempela nozakwabo ngemuva komsebenzi
- Uphethe amacebo akhe njengelungu, funa uzitholele into angayifuni
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4. Lona omunye wesifazane useyingxenye yezibalo
Ngisho noma uthando seluphelile, isithunzi salo sibonakala sikhulu isikhathi esithile. Isikhathi kuphela esingapholisa ubuhlungu, kodwa bungaphela kanjani uma umyeni wakho eqhubeka nokuhlangana nomunye wesifazane ngobuqili? Uma ehlala exhumana nomlingani wakhe wezothando nganoma yisiphi isizathu (mhlawumbe bangabalingani noma banezibopho ezithile ezingenakunqamuka), kukhombisa ukungazweli okuthile kuye. Kungenye yezimpawu zokuthi uzophinde aphinge. Ungase ube matasa uzama ukuthola ukuthi ungamenza kanjani omunye wesifazane ahambe . “Uma umthethelela umlingani wakho ngokungathembeki kwakhe, ukunqamula kwakhe ubuhlobo nomunye wesifazane akunakuxoxiswana ngakho,” kusho uMaansi Harish, umeluleki oseMumbai.
Uyanezela, “Akufanele neze uyeke ekuzihlonipheni kwakho.” UJoie uphinde athi, "Uma omunye wesifazane/indoda isala, khona-ke kuba nzima futhi amathuba okuba baphinde bakope ayanda. Bahlanganyela endaweni ekhululekile kanye nezibalo ezibagcwalise kwasekuqaleni, khumbulani? Lesi isimo esingajabulisi futhi esingakhululekile. Okhohlisiwe uyohlale esola." Kodwa-ke, ukunqanyulwa kobudlelwano ngeke kukuqede ukungabaza kwakho mayelana nombuzo obaluleke kakhulu - Ngabe umyeni wami uzophinda akope?
5. Akakakulungeli ukuhamba ibanga elide
Ungabuyisa kanjani ukwethembana ngemva kokukopela? Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uNandita Rambhia sithi, “Ngemva kokwenza iphutha elikhulu, kubalulekile ukuvuma ukuthi kube nomonakalo. Lokhu kungaba yindaba ebucayi kodwa kumele kuxazululwe. Kudingeka uzwela olukhulu, oluvela kumuntu obangele umonakalo ongokomzwelo, ukuvuma ukuthi nguye obangela ukucindezeleka komunye umlingani. Kubalulekile ukunikeza isikhala nokuba nesineke nokubekezela okukhulu.”
Ngakho, lapho indoda inamahloni ngokungabi nangqondo kwayo, kufanele yenze konke engakwenza ukuze izuze ukwethenjwa futhi ikwenze uzizwe uthandwa. Kufanele enze noma yini ukuze akwenze uzizwe ulondekile. Cabanga ngakho. Ingabe indoda yakho iyawenza lowo mzamo? Ingabe ukwenza uzizwe ubalulekile futhi uhlonishwa? Uma impendulo ingucha, kungenye yezimpawu ezicacile ukuthi uzophinde akhohlise.
6. Umzimba wakhe uyakhohlisa
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kwezokwelapha uShincy Nair Amin sithi, “Abacwaningi baphethe ngokuthi amadoda azulazula awakwazi ukuhlala ebhekile futhi angabikezelwa ngezinga elihle lokunemba kodwa ngokuthakazelisayo, abesifazane abakopelayo cishe akunakwenzeka ukubafunda.” Ungathatha lo mbuzo omfushane ukuze ubone ukuthi uqamba amanga ngokukopela:
- Uyakubona ukungabaza enkulumweni yakhe? Yebo/Cha
- Ingabe uyacwayiza ngokushesha noma uyajuluka ngenkathi ezama ukuqhamuka nendaba ekholakalayo ezohlanganisa amathrekhi akhe? Yebo/Cha
- Uke wambona enza ihaba ngendaba elula? Yebo/Cha
- Ingabe uvame ukumthola egwema ukukubheka emehlweni lapho ekhuluma nawe? Yebo/Cha
- Ingabe ushaya ihlathi ukuze aqambe amanga ngokuthi ukuphi? Yebo/Cha
- Ingabe umthola engaphumuli noma eququda lapho ekhuluma nawe? Yebo/Cha
Uma uphendule ngokuvuma kunoma yimiphi imibuzo emithathu engenhla, kungenzeka ukuthi unobufakazi bokukhohlisa komlingani wakho . Ukunaka kakhulu ulimi lomzimba wakhe (njengezwi eliqhuma ngokuzumayo noma elizwakala liphezulu) kuyinye yezeluleko zokuthi ungabona kanjani ukuthi umlingani wakho uqamba amanga ngokukopela.
7. 'Unobungane kakhulu' nabanye abantu besifazane
Uma umthola njalo edlala nabangani bakhe besifazane (ngisho noma usumtshelile ukuthi kukwenza uzizwe ungakhululekile), khona-ke akawenzi umzamo odingekayo wokwenza ubuhlobo benu busebenze. Lokhu kuziphatha kungenye yezimpawu zokuthi akakuhloniphi . Kungenye futhi yezibonakaliso zomuntu ongase aphinde aklolode.
"Ngiyakuzonda lapho umyeni wami ezama ukwenza izinto ezintsha nowesifazane. Isidingo sakhe esikhulu sokuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle sinamahloni kodwa ukubiza ngokuthi ukudlala ngothando okungenangozi. Ingabe lokho kungase kubhekwe njengokukopela?" Kubuza uBela Biel, umhlobisi. UMaansi, ongumeluleki waseMumbai, uthi, “Lapha yilapho kucatshangelwa khona imingcele.
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8. Udlala ikhadi lesisulu
Naphezu kwesimo sakho sengqondo esibuthakathaka, qaphela isimo sakhe sengqondo namazwi akhe lapho umbhekana naye ngokukopela kwakhe. Umthwalo wemfanelo ebudlelwaneni umayelana nokubonisa ukuziphendulela. Mhlawumbe nawe wenze amaphutha athile kodwa uma ekusola wena nawe KUPHELA, futhi engazimisele ukuvuma indima ayidlalile, uzokopela futhi futhi akuthethelele ngendlela efanayo.
UJoie uthi, "Ezimweni ezinjalo, umuntu udinga ukwelulekwa ngokochwepheshe ukuze kumsize aphume kulokhu kuphika. Uzozama ukususa icala futhi adlale ikhadi lesisulu. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ukhiphe wonke amathuba okuba yisisulu. Ukuziphendulela kuza ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ngeke kuphoqwe umuntu."
9. Uyakucasula
Ingabe ukubiza ngokuthi “owesifazane ohlanyayo” njalo uma uveza ukungazethembi kwakho? Ukukubiza ngokuthi uzwela kakhulu/ukwesaba kuyindlela ejwayelekile yokusola . Abakhohlisi bavame ukusebenzisa amasu anjalo okukhanyisa igesi ukuze bakwenze ungabaze iqiniso lakho futhi balulaze imizwa yakho. Ngakho-ke, uma engakunikeza isiqinisekiso esidingekayo futhi ekulawula, impendulo eqotho yokuthi “Ingabe uzophinde aklolode uma ngimbuyisela emuva?” inguyebo.
10. Izinto ezibhebhethekisa isigameko sokukopela azikalungiswa
Ngokombono kaJoie, ukuthi “Uma usungumkhohlisi, uhlala ungumkhohlisi” akulona iqiniso ngempela. Uthi, “Ukukopela kuwumphumela nje wezimo ezingezinhle. Uma izimo zishintsha ekugcineni, ngeke kusaholela ekungathembekini. Kodwa uma izinto ezibangela ukukopela kwasekuqaleni zihlala zinjalo, isenzo sokukopela singaphindwa.” Njengoba esho, umuntu ofuna ukwesekwa ngokomzwelo angaba olunye lwezinhlobo zabakhohlisi.
Mhlawumbe ukhohlise ngoba ubungatholakali ngokomzwelo. Noma mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi akakwazanga ukuveza izidingo zakhe ezingafezeki ngendlela evulekile, eqotho, nesobala. Uma lezi zinkinga zisekhona, khona-ke angase agcine ekutholeni ukuphunyuka ekungathembekeni futhi, esikhundleni sokulungisa izinto ngendlela enempilo. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ubambe isiphetho sakho sokuthengiselana futhi wenze imizamo futhi. Ubudlelwano obunempilo budinga ukusebenza kweqembu.
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11. Wakhulela emndenini ongasebenzi kahle
Mhlawumbe wabona abazali bakhe oyedwa noma bobabili bekopela izikhathi eziningi ngenkathi ekhula. Noma mhlawumbe wakhulela endaweni okwakuyinto evamile ukufihla iqiniso kuyo. Ukungathembeki kwakhe kungase kuhlobene kakhulu nokuhlukunyezwa kwakhe kwasebuntwaneni. Olunye lwezimpawu azophinde akhohlise ngalo ukushoda komzamo wangempela wokulungisa lawo manxeba ajulile.
Izikhombi Ezibalulekile
- Uma umlingani wakho akhohlise ebuhlotsheni bakhe bangaphambilini, kuyifulegi elibomvu
- Ukukhanyisa igesi kungenye yezimpawu ezijwayelekile zabakopela abangama-serial
- Ulimi lomzimba olukhohlisayo kanye nemvelo eyimfihlo ezinye izimpawu eziyisixwayiso
- Kuwuphawu oluhle uma enza elinye ibanga ukuze akwenze uzizwe uthandwa
- Awudingi iqhawe lobudlelwano, udinga nje umuntu onecala futhi axolise ngokwanele ukuthi alungise futhi angashintshi
- Hlala wethemba umuzwa wakho wamathumbu futhi ufune usizo lochwepheshe, noma ukulungisa ibhondi yakho noma ukunakekelwa kwakho
Okokugcina, isikhathi ngokushesha ngemva kokuqanjwa kweqiniso lokukopela sizoba isiqephu esinzima kubabhangqwana. Inganquma inkambo yesikhathi esizayo yobudlelwano. Ngakho, umbhangqwana udinga ukuwunqamula ngokucophelela. Kodwa njengenjwayelo, bobabili kufanele babe nenhloso efanayo - ukwakha kabusha ukwethembana nakuba wesaba ukuthi uzophinde akhohlise. Kodwa sekuyisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili futhi siqinisekise ukuthi okwenzeka ngaphambilini, ngeke kuphinde kwenzeke.
Ngokuphathelene nendlela yokunqoba umuzwa omubi wokukhashelwa nokuthi ungaxhumana kanjani nendoda ekhohlisayo ekuphathe kabi, uNandita weluleka, “Ngezinye izikhathi, ukungathembeki kwendoda noma owesifazane oshadile kubangela izinkinga umbhangqwana ongakwazi ukuzixazulula wodwa. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kuyasiza ukufuna isiqondiso kumuntu onolwazi oluthe xaxa, ovuthiwe, futhi ongahluleli. Kungaba yilungu lomndeni, umngane, noma umeluleki ochwepheshe.” Uma ufuna ukwesekwa, abeluleki bethu abavela kuphaneli yeBonobology baseduze nje ngokuchofoza.
Imibuzo Evame Ukubuzwa
Abantu bayakopela ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Kungaba ukungahambisani, ukukhangwa omunye umuntu, nokunganeliseki ngobudlelwano bamanje, noma ngoba umuntu ungumqambimanga oyimpoqo futhi ungumkhohlisi.
Kungaba nzima ukuthethelela ukuziphatha kwakhe kwangaphambilini kodwa uma ezisola ngempela futhi ezimisele ukwenza umzamo wokwakha kabusha ukwethembana, futhi ezimisele ukungakuvumeli uhambe, ungamnika elinye ithuba. Kodwa uma indoda ikopela izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa, khona-ke kunezindlela ezijulile ezisebenzayo. Qaphela izimpawu zobuhlobo obunjalo endodeni.
Ukubhekana nokukhashelwa kunzima kakhulu. Kuphakathi kokushiya ubudlelwano, noma nikeza umlingani wakho ithuba lesibili ngemva kokukala izici ezimbalwa - Ingabe unomkhuba wokukulimaza? Ingabe akhona amathuba okuthi angaphinde akhohlise? Uke waba nezingxoxo mayelana nezidingo ezingafezeki ebudlelwaneni?
Uma ephendukile futhi efunga ukuthi ngeke aphinde aphambuke, uma ebonisa izimpawu zokuzisola futhi elungisa ngokungaguquki isikhathi eside, futhi uqiniseka ukuthi kwakuyiphutha langempela, khona-ke ungase ucabange ukumbuyisela futhi.
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Umnikelo wakho awuyona iminikelo yokusiza . Kuzovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolusesikhathini njengoba sifuna ukusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.
