Suffering and Healing, Abuse, Trauma Support and Counselling

Suffering and Healing

People suffer in relationships. They heal too. But suffering and healing does not necessarily happen in that order. Physical abuse and marital rape are extreme forms of suffering that many people endure in their relationships. But suffering also happens when one partner is extremely selfish, narcissistic or is unaware of a partner’s emotional needs. Years of neglect and constant bickering can also result in a kind of suffering and it takes time to heal.

In this section Bonobology shares stories of how people suffered yet, they found the strength to struggle through this phase and then move on. They survived to tell the tale and healed to start a new life.
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How Not To Fall For A Narcissist And Suffer In Silence

A narcissist comes with all kinds of selfish traits. You just need to know how to recognise those

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Partner Sexually Abusing Her Daughter – Child Sexual Abuse and Trauma

Lack of compatibility, spark fizzling out, being cheated upon…among the many things we worry about in romantic relationships, the fear of a partner turning out to be the perpetrator of child sexual abuse rarely makes the list. It’s a possibility so grim that we don’t even want to imagine it as a worst-case scenario of

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11 Signs Your Husband Uses You Financially

If he is spending all the time and gets angry with you if you make a single purchase then it’s a complete red flag. He is being financially abusive

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15 Tips To Forget Your Ex-Girlfriend Completely

Not all relationships end up making it to the happily ever after. Not all the love in the world is meant to last. And that’s okay because love doesn’t just happen once. After a big breakup, it might feel like your life is ending but that’s not true at all. You can move on and

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8 Relationship Problems You Can Face If You Had Toxic Parents

As children, we have certain obligations towards our parents. But what if our parents hang these obligations over our heads for their personal gain? Being parents doesn’t mean that they own our lives. Unloving toxic parents abuse their children emotionally, mentally and sometimes physically. They are delusional about their relationship with their child and use

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8 Signs You Have A Controlling And Manipulative Husband

Manipulative people are like close cousins of narcissists. They exercise emotional control to make others do things they would rather choose not to do. This tendency is at its strongest in intimate relationships like those between romantic partners or married couples. A manipulative husband will slowly but surely, often subtly, take control of every aspect

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Breakup Healing Process – How To Heal After A Breakup

As you’ll realize a week or two after the breakup, healing from a breakup is not a choice, it’s an absolute necessity. In order to live to your full potential again, you must begin your journey of healing the damage that has been caused. If it seems impossible for you right now, let’s talk about the breakup healing process, so you know what to do.

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