Zigawo zisanu ndi ziwiri za Ulamuliro Wosalumikizana Nawo Male Psychology

Kodi mukuyesera kuchoka pachibwenzi choyipa kapena ubale wowononganso? Kodi mukuyesera kukankhira munthu kutali kapena kuyesa kuti abwerere kwa inu? Nanga bwanji ngati titakuuzani kuti pali njira imodzi yothetsera mavuto onsewa paubwenzi—lamulo loletsa kulankhulana? Koma kodi njira imodzi ingakuthandizeni bwanji kuthana ndi wina ndikuthandizira kuyanjanitsa? Chabwino, mukangomvetsetsa lamulo losalumikizana ndi munthu wama psychology, zonse zidzamveka ngati tsiku kwa inu. Ndicho chimene ife tiri pano kuti tichite.

Kodi lamulo loti munthu asalumikizane ndi mwamuna limagwira ntchito kwa amuna? Kodi munthu wosalumikizana naye angakusoweni kwambiri? N’chiyani chimachitika m’maganizo mwa mwamuna akamalephera kulankhulana? Ngati mafunso awa akhala akukuganizirani kuyambira pamene mwadina batani loletsa, ndi nthawi yoti mufufuze mozama njira yolankhulirana yothanirana ndi malingaliro ovuta. Ndi nzeru zochokera kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo Dr. Aman Bhonsle (Ph.D., MBA, PGDTA), yemwe ndi katswiri pa uphungu wa ubale ndi Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, tiyeni tidziwe momwe amuna amayankhira akamalephera kulankhulana.

Kumvetsetsa The No-Contact Psychology

Tisanalankhule za zomwe kusalumikizana kumakhudza mwamuna, tiyeni tiwonetsetse kuti tili ndi mfundo imodzi yokhudza zomwe lamulo losalumikizana limaphatikizapo komanso momwe limagwirira ntchito. Lamulo losalumikizana ndi njira yamaganizo yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito kuthana ndi kuchira pambuyo pa kusudzulana kapena kusweka mtima. Chofunika apa ndikuchotsa kulankhulana konse ndi mnzanu wakale ndikusintha kuyang'ana kwambiri pakuchira ndi kukula kwaumwini. Mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti mwa kudzipatula kwa mnzanu wakale, mutha kuthetsa kudalira kwanu kwamalingaliro, komwe, kumathandizanso kubwezeretsanso malingaliro ndikukupatsani malo ndi nthawi yogwirira ntchito pakudzimva kwanu, kudzidalira, komanso kudziona kuti ndinu ofunika.

Katswiri wa zamaganizo Dr. Ramani Durvasula akufotokoza kuti, “Kusakhudzana kumakupatsani mpata woti mudzichotsere ku mavuto a chibwenzi, makamaka ngati anali oopsa.” Kafukufuku akuchirikizanso kuti kudzipatula kwa mnzanu wakale kungachepetse kupsinjika maganizo ndi kusokonezeka maganizo. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wofalitsidwa mu Journal of Neuroscience, kukanidwa ndi chikondi kumayambitsa madera omwewo a ubongo monga ululu wakuthupi, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mtunda wamaganizo ukhale wofunikira kuti munthu achire.

Gawo lopanda kukhudzana mukatha kutha kumakutetezaninso ku zowawa zapamtima komanso kupwetekedwa mtima pokutetezani kuti musamangokhalira kuyanjana. Monga momwe katswiri wa zamaganizo Dr. Guy Winch ananenera, “Mwa kuletsa kulankhulana kulikonse, mumachepetsa zinthu zimene zimakulitsa kuvutika maganizo, mukudzipatsa nthaŵi yodziŵikanso kuti ndinu wofunika ndiponso kuti muyambenso kudziona kuti ndinu wofunika.”

Malingaliro Aamuna Nthawi Yopanda Kulumikizana

Ngakhale cholinga choyambirira cha lamulo loti palibe kulumikizana chinali kuthandiza anthu kuti apite patsogolo ndikuchira pakatha kutha, amagwiritsidwanso ntchito njira zosinthira zama psychology kuti abwererane ndi wakale. Ngati mukuganiza kuti, "Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani m'maganizo mwa munthu panthawi yolankhulana?", Zingakhale chifukwa chakuti mukuyembekeza chiyanjanitso. Kapena gawo lina la inu limatero. Kupanda kutero, simukanakhala pano, kuyesa kumvetsetsa momwe lamulo loletsa kulumikizana lingakhudzire wakale wanu. M’malo mwake, mungakhale mukuyang’ana pa kuchiritsa ndi kupitirira, sichoncho?   

Polankhula pankhaniyi, Dr. Bhonsle akuti, “Pamene lamulo loti munthu asalumikizane ndi mnzake likugwira ntchito, mwamuna angakumane ndi mkwiyo, manyazi, ndi mantha, nthawi zina nthawi imodzi. Kutengera nthawi ya tsiku, mwamunayo angamve chilichonse mwa malingaliro awa kapena zonse pamodzi.” Chifukwa chake, ngati mungamvetse bwino nkhaniyi, mungaone kuti akuvutika kwambiri monga momwe mulili. Mukufuna kudziwa zambiri? Tiyeni tiphunzire mozama za psychology ya kuti munthu asalumikizane ndi mnzake.

Zigawo 7 Zofunika Kwambiri za Ulamuliro Wopanda Kulumikizana Nawo Male Psychology

Funso limeneli linandichititsa kusowa tulo nditasiya chibwenzi changa chakale, Caleb. Zinkawoneka ngati sakanatha kusamala kuti tisamalankhule, "Anatiuza Jollene, "Panali pafupifupi mlungu umodzi, ndipo nthawi zambiri ndinkamuwona akuseka kusukulu. Mkhalidwe wake unandipangitsa kumva ngati sindinali wofunika kwambiri kwa iye. Koma machiritso ndikuyesera kuganizira za kukula kwanga.

“Tsiku lina, bwenzi lapamtima la Kalebe linanditumizira mameseji, kundipempha kuti ndimupatsenso mpata wina.” Apa m’pamene ndinazindikira kuti mmene lamulo loti palibe amene angakumane nalo n’losiyana kwambiri ndi amuna.

Ngati muli mu gawo lofananalo mutasudzulana, kumvetsetsa bwino za maganizo a mwamuna pamene simunalumikizane kungathandize. Kumbukirani kuti ngakhale kuti mwamuna aliyense amachita mosiyana akasudzulana , ambiri amakumana ndi malingaliro ofanana nthawi ina. Maganizo amenewa amasonyeza momwe maganizo a mwamuna alili pamene simunalumikizane:

1. Chitonzo kapena mpumulo, malingana ndi yemwe anayambitsa lamulo loletsa kukhudzana

Ngati mwamuna watayidwa ndiyeno kutumizidwa kumalo osalumikizana nawo, zitha kukhumudwitsa kunyada kwake. Dr. Bhonsle anati: “Chigawo choyamba cha kusaonana ndi mwamuna ndicho kukhala wonyozeka.” Iye amadzimva ngati watayidwa, monga chizoloŵezi choipa, monga ngati kuti pali chinachake mwa iye chimene chiri chonyansa ndi chonyansa kwa wakale wake. 

Kumbali ina, ngati iye ndiye amene anayambitsa kusudzulana ndipo akufuna kuthetsa kusudzulana konse, masiku oyamba a gawo losakhudzana angamupangitse kumva wopepuka komanso womasuka. Pakadali pano, amakhala ndi mtendere wamumtima ndi zisankho zake. Iyi ndi imodzi mwa kusiyana kofunikira pakati pa kusudzulana kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi komwe kumalamulira momwe amamvera pambuyo pa kusudzulana komanso momwe amachitira ndi malingaliro amenewo.

2. Gawo la zokambirana: Amayamba kukusowa

Kaya ndiye anayambitsa lamulo loti musalumikizane kapena adaligwiritsa ntchito, patatha masiku angapo, wakale wanu adzayamba kukusowani. Izi zitha kuyambitsa kukambirana pambuyo pa kusudzulana. Pofotokoza za mbali iyi ya maganizo a amuna pambuyo pa kusudzulana, wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit analemba kuti, "Ndinapempha ndipo ndinadzipangitsa kukhala wopanda pake, kotero ndinganene kuti muli ndi mwayi wobwezera wakaleyo mwa kumunyalanyaza kuposa kupempha. Anandida pamapeto pake." Iyi ndi imodzi mwa magawo omwe mwamuna safuna kulankhulana, pomwe:

• Pofuna kukonzanso, mwamuna akhoza kunena chilichonse chomwe mukufuna kumva panthawiyo
• Popeza kuti sangathe kulimbana ndi kusoŵa kwadzidzidzi kwa kulankhulana, angayambe kugwiritsira ntchito machenjerero othedwa nzeru
• Mutha kuwona kusintha kwa madigiri 180 m'malingaliro ake ndikukonzekera kuchita chilichonse chomwe chingakupambanitseninso.

Ngati mukufuna kuona ngati lamulo loti munthu asalumikizane ndi mnzake likugwira ntchito , kukula kwa gawo lake loti agwirizane lidzakhala chizindikiro chabwino. Dr. Bhonsle akuti, "Mu gawo loti munthu asalumikizane ndi mnzake, mwamuna angayambe kukambirana pofuna kubwerera m'moyo wa wakale wake. Angayesenso kumupempha kuti abwerere m'moyo wake mwa kumugulitsa ndi kunena zinthu monga "Ndidzakhala mwamuna wosintha", "Ndidzachita bwino" kapena "Ndidzasintha chifukwa cha iwe". Izi zimapangitsa kuti munthu achite manyazi kwambiri, chifukwa kusintha sikophweka kupeza."

3. Kuopa kusungulumwa ndi kutaya chikondi kumayamba kulowa

Wakale wanu akayamba kusowa kukhalapo kwanu m'moyo wake, malingaliro amenewo amatha kukula mofulumira kukhala mantha otaya chikondi ndikutha kukhala yekha. Wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit analemba kuti, "Pambuyo pa kusudzulana, ndinali nditatopa kwambiri ndi kutumiza mauthenga, kodi tikadali mabwenzi? Kodi mukufuna kukonza mavuto athu? Kodi tikukumana ndi anthu ena tsopano? Kodi udindo wathu ndi wotani? Yankhani chondeeeeeeeea!" Iyi ndi nthawi yeniyeni yosungulumwa, pomwe:

• Lamulo lopanda kulumikizana limakhala ngati cheke chenicheni kwa wakale wanu, ndikumupatsa chithunzithunzi cha momwe moyo wake ungawonekere popanda inu.
• Kuzindikira kumapangitsa kuti lamulo loti osalumikizana ndi munthu si nthano yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kwa masiku angapo.
• Chiwopsezo chadzidzidzi m'mizere ya "Chifukwa chiyani sindili wosakwatiwa? Ndifa ndekha” angagwire

Panthawi imeneyi, malingaliro aamuna pa nthawi yosagwirizana amagwidwa ndi mantha a zosadziwika komanso chikhumbo chokokera kwa omwe amawadziwa bwino. “Manthawo akangoyamba, angachititse munthu kusankha zochita molakwika kwambiri zomwe zingawononge kudzidalira.” Maganizo osoŵa amayamba ndipo mwamuna angayambe kuchita zinthu mothedwa nzeru,” anatero Dr. Bhonsle.

4. Amakwiya ndipo amafufuza njira zothetsera vutoli 

The mwamuna maganizo pa palibe kukhudzana ndi wodzala ndi ululu ndi kupweteka. Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati wakale wanu akukukwiyirani kwambiri komanso kukukwiyirani. Panthawi imeneyi, amafunika njira yothetsera vutoli kuti athetse maganizo olakwika. Amuna ena amayamba kuyang'ananso chibwenzi ndikuyambanso kuganiza mozama kuti achotse malingaliro awo onse osasangalatsa omwe akubwera mkati. Ena, amatha kuthawira kumapeto kwa botolo kapena kuyamba kufotokozera ndikuyika akazi m'gulu linalake. Angayambenso kusonyeza zizindikiro zodetsa nkhaŵa za nkhani zodalirika, kunena zinthu monga “Palibe mkazi wokhulupirika.”

Ngati pali mwayi wofikira (ndiye ngati simunatsekeretse wakale wanu pomwe simunakumane nawo), amatha kutumiza mameseji okwiya kapena maimelo kuti afotokoze kukhumudwa kwake. Kapena amakuimbirani foni usiku kwambiri pomwe amangonena za njira zonse zomwe mwamulakwira. Mlingo wa mkwiyo umadalira munthu aliyense, koma pafupifupi mwamuna aliyense amakumana nawo. Dr. Bhonsle anati: “Kukhala wotsatira lamulo loti musamagwirizane naye kungayambitsenso mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo.” M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, kupsa mtima kungachititse munthu kukhala ndi maganizo olakwika, amene angayambe kukondera. 

“Zimachititsa kuti munthu ayambe kuchita manyazi komanso kukanidwa,” akutero Dr. Bhonsle ponena za kuopsa kwa malingaliro olakwika omwe amuna angagwiritse ntchito, “Akhoza kukhala akudziika m’mavuto. Mkazi wotsatira anganene kuti, “Ndi munthu wokwiya, wokwiya, komanso wokhumudwa”, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu asamakanidwe kwambiri kapena asakumanenso ndi vuto. Popeza kuthana ndi kukanidwa sikophweka, kumakhala kuvutika kwambiri.”

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5. Amavutika maganizo akamaganizira zimene zinamuchitikira

M’pomveka kuti lamulo loti palibe amene angalankhule naye limabweretsa nthawi yolira pamene ukulu wa zimene wataya ukuyamba kumuonekera. Gawo ili la kusalumikizana ndi mwamuna ndilofunika kulimbana ndi kudzimvera chisoni, chisoni, ndi kuvutika maganizo. Iye akuganiza mmene moyo wakhala kwa iye. Amaganizira zomwe zikadakhala ndikukonza zomwe zidasokonekera ndi ubale ndi zinthu zonse zomwe akanatha kuchita mosiyana.

Iyi ikhoza kukhala nthawi yovuta kwambiri pa nthawi ya kusalumikizana kwa mwamuna. Dr. Bhonsle akulangiza kuti malingaliro amenewa akhoza kuchepetsedwa ngati lamulo losalumikizana likugwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera, ndipo akupitiriza kufotokoza kuti, "Mutha kudzipatula kwa wina popanda kumunyoza. Njira yabwino yochitira izi ndikusamusiya munthuyo ndikusowa mumlengalenga. Munganene kuti, "Sindikufunanso kupitiriza kucheza nafe ndipo ndikufuna kupitiriza." Mukakhala olunjika kwambiri, zimakhala zosavuta kuti mwamunayo anyambitenso mabala ake ndikupitiriza. Kaya zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji."

6. Amaona kufunika kosonyeza chikondi chake

Psychology ya munthu pa nthawi yosalumikizana imathanso kupangidwa ndi zomwe adaziwona mozungulira iye akukula. Pazenera lalikulu, nkhani za amuna opsinjika maganizo, zidakwa, ndi osweka mtima zakhala zikukondedwa. Choncho, amuna ena amakhulupirira kuti ndi chinthu chimene ayenera kudutsamo kuti atsimikizire chikondi chawo.  

Chifukwa chake, mukapanda kumulankhula, amafunafuna njira zoti akukopereninso mutatha kusudzulana . Dr. Bhonsle akuti, "Makanema ambiri amasonyeza amuna akudziika okha pamavuto chifukwa cha mkazi. Chifukwa chake, amuna ambiri angayambe kukhulupirira kuti kudutsa pamavuto ndi gawo la njira yokhala mwamuna ngati kuti ndi njira yotsimikizira momwe chikondi chawo chilili chenicheni."

Pofotokoza mmene nthanthi yolakwika imeneyi siigwira ntchito kaŵirikaŵiri, iye anawonjezera kuti: “M’chenicheni n’zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kumangokhalira kunjenjemera osapitirira chifukwa mumakhulupirira kuti zimenezo n’zimene muyenera kudutsamo.

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7. Chiyembekezo cha chiyanjanitso kapena kupita patsogolo

Munthu akangodutsa magawo onse osalumikizana ndi kuthana ndi zovuta zonse zomwe amayambitsa, amadzipeza ali pamphambano yomaliza: kuyanjanitsa kapena kupitilira. Pakadali pano, ngati akadali ndi malingaliro pa inu ndipo wakusowani panthawi yomwe simunakumaneko, wakale wanu adzabweranso, akuyembekeza kuti muyanjanenso. Kumbali ina, nthawi yotalikirana ingamupangitse kuti aone kuti mukuyenda bwino popanda wina ndi mnzake ndipo angafune kusunga lamulo loletsa kulumikizana likugwira ntchito mpaka kalekale chifukwa wasuntha kale kapena akufuna kutero.

Dr. Bhonsle akuti, “Timaleka kugwirizana ndi munthu chifukwa timaona kuti ndi chiwopsezo pa moyo wathu. Ngati mwamuna azindikira kuti wakale wake anali wolamulira, woumirira, wonyenga, kapena anali kunyozedwa muukwati , sangafune kuyang'ana mmbuyo.” Ngati mwakhala mukugwiritsa ntchito maganizo a amuna kuti mubwezeretse chibwenzi chanu chakale, apa ndiye pamene mungadziwe ngati chilakolako chimenecho chidzakwaniritsidwa kapena ayi. Ngati muwona kuti wasankha kuti zinthu zimuyendere bwino popanda inu, ndi chizindikiro choti inunso musiye.

Zotsatira zake: Zomwe Palibe Kulumikizana Kumachita Kwa Mwamuna

Tsopano popeza takupangirani lamulo loti palibe kulumikizana kwa amuna, funso ndilakuti, chotsatira? Kodi nthawi iyi yosagwirizana ndi chiyani? Kodi abweranso atapanda kulumikizana kapena palibe kulumikizana kungamupangitse kupita patsogolo? Chabwino, zingakhale mwina. Zotsatira zake zimadalira mikhalidwe yanu—mkhalidwe waubwenzi, chifukwa chimene munasudzulana, amene anaganiza zothetsa zinthu ndi kuika lamulo loti palibe kukhudzana, ndi mmene inu nonse munalipirira. Kutengera ndi izi, chimodzi mwazinthu ziwiri izi zitha kuchitika:

Chitsanzo choyamba: Akufuna kuti mubwerere

Lamulo loti musalankhulane lingagwire ntchito m'njira zodabwitsa. Lingachititse kuti nonse muzindikire kufunika kwa wina ndi mnzake. Kutenga nthawi kungapangitse kuti malingaliro anu pa wina ndi mnzake awonekere bwino kuposa kale. Kupatula apo, pali mitundu ya kusudzulana komwe kumabweretsa kuyanjananso . Ngati mukudabwa kuti ndi kuchuluka kwa kusudzulana kotani komwe kumabwereranso ndikusunga ubalewo, nayi deta yanu. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti 15% ya anthu adapambanadi chibwenzi chawo chakale, pomwe 14% adabwereranso kuti angosudzulananso, ndipo 70% sanalumikizanenso konse ndi akazi awo akale.

Choncho, n’zotheka kuti angafune kuyambiranso chibwenzicho. Zikatero, kodi choyamba muyenera kuchita chiyani? Khalani owona mtima nokha ndikudzifunsa mafunso ofunika awa:

• Zomwe zinali zazikulu mavuto omwe adayambitsa kupatukana?
• Kodi njira zothetsera mavutowo ndi ziti?
• Kodi ine ndi wakale wanga tingathe kuthana ndi mavutowa moleza mtima?
• Kodi ndili ndi mndandanda wazinthu zosasinthika?
• Kodi timasiyana pazifukwa zathu zazikulu?

Mukaganizira mozama za mafunso ali pamwambawa, tsatirani izi:

• Kambiranani ndi wakale wanu zomwe nonse mwaphunzira pakugawanika
• Sungani zotsekedwa zanu mu loop m'malo mozisunga chinsinsi
• Dziyerekeze kuti ndinu munthu wina (kodi mungamuuze bwenzi lanu kuti abwerere?)
• Pita mumpikisano woyeserera kuyesa kupambana kwakuyanjanitsidwa ndi wakale wanu
• Tengani zinthu mochedwa KWAMBIRI
• Osabweretsa nkhani zakale; ganizirani za chikondi ichi ngati slate yoyera

Chitsanzo 2: Akufuna kupitilira

Mnzanga Sarah anandiuza kuti, "Ndinasiya kulankhulana ndipo iye anayankha, koma yankho lake linandigwira mtima. Nthawi zonse pamakhala kuthekera kwakuti nthawi yotalikirana ikhoza kupangitsa wakale wanu kuwona zifukwa zonse zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala bwino popanda wina ndi mnzake, ndipo sangakhale ndi chikhumbo choyambitsanso chibwenzi.

Izi zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri ngati mukanakhala kuti lamulo loti musalumikizane libwezeretse chibwenzi chanu chakale, ndipo mumayamba kukayikira kufunika kwanu, ndikudabwa chifukwa chake simunali woyenera kwa iye. Pa izi, mlangizi Ridhi Golechha adauza kale Bonobology kuti, "Chimodzi mwa machitidwe ofala kwambiri odziwononga ndikudziimba mlandu pa chilichonse. Kuti muthane ndi kutha kwa chibwenzi, yesetsani kudzikhululukira nokha komanso kudzimvera chisoni. Mukadzikhululukira kwambiri, mumakhala ndi mtendere wamumtima. Muyenera kuyang'ana mbali ziwiri za ndalama, komwe mumavomereza kulakwitsa kwanu pamodzi ndi kufunika koti mupitirire patsogolo.

"Palibe cholakwika ndi inu ngati mukulimbana ndi munthu wina. Popanda kudzida nokha, lolani maganizo anu kuti abwere ndi kupita ngati mitambo. Chotsani khalidwe lodziweruza nokha. Dziwitsani kuti ndinu ndani. Dzikondweretseni nokha chifukwa cha munthu amene muli." Nawa maupangiri amomwe mungalimbanire ndi wakale wanu kupita patsogolo pambuyo pa gawo losalumikizana:

• Njira imodzi yochiritsira ndiyo kutuluka mu siteji yokana ndikuwona zinthu momwe zilili
• Lembani zowona za momwe ubalewu wasinthira ma equation anu
• Pewani kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo/mowa/ndudu kuti muchepetse vuto lanu
• Kusinkhasinkha ndi kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kungakuthandizeni pezani moyo wanu pamodzi mukatha kutha
• Sankhani njira zothana ndi thanzi labwino monga kuchita bwino pantchito yanu / kupanga zosangalatsa zatsopano
• Pezani thandizo la akatswiri ndikudalira anthu odalirika kuti akuthandizeni
• Phunzirani phunziro loti kudzilemekeza kuyenera kukhala kwamphamvu kuposa malingaliro anu
• Kuchiritsa kudzachitika mwachibadwa, mu nthawi yake yokoma; osakakamiza kalikonse

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Potsirizira pake, lamulo lopanda kukhudzana ndi maganizo a mwamuna akhoza kukhala msonkhano wovuta wa malingaliro omwe ngakhale mwamuna adzakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kumvetsa. Kupanda kutseka ndi komwe kumafika kwa ambiri chifukwa zimavutitsa kusadziwa zifukwa zomwe zayimitsa kukhudzana mwadzidzidzi. Tsopano popeza muli ndi lingaliro labwino la momwe abambo amayankhira osalumikizana nawo, mwachiyembekezo, mwasiya mafunso aliwonse omwe anali m'maganizo mwanu.

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