Mwamuna Akatha Mwadzidzidzi Ubale: Zifukwa 15 Ndi Malangizo 8 Othana nawo

Mwamuna akathetsa chibwenzi mwadzidzidzi, zimakhala ngati wangokugwetserani vuto. Mukuchita mantha ndi chipolopolo ndipo chisoni chotayidwa chikukudyerani misala. Maganizo anu akukangana ndi mafunso opanda mayankho. N’chifukwa chiyani anachoka mwadzidzidzi? Kodi ndinamukhumudwitsa, kumukhumudwitsa kapena kumunyoza? Kodi sindinali bwino kwa iye? Si zachilendo kwa inu kudzifunsa nokha ndi kudzikayikira. 

Zonse zinkaoneka ngati zabwinobwino. Awiri a inu munali misala m’chikondi. Sabata yathayi munayang'ana nkhope yamunthu wanu yomwe ili ndi tulo m'mawa ndipo munamva kuyamikira kukhala naye m'moyo wanu. Munaganiza kuti ndi izi. Iye ndiye amene udzakwatire. Munamudziwitsanso kwa makolo anu ndipo mutangoyamba kuganizira za tsogolo ndi iye, anachoka ndipo ubwenziwo unatha popanda chenjezo.

Zifukwa 15 Zomwe Mwamuna Atha Kuthetsa Ubale Modzidzimutsa 

Mwamuna akathetsa chibwenzi mwadzidzidzi, zingayambitse mavuto ambiri chifukwa simunaganizepo kalikonse. Zimapweteka mtima chifukwa anachoka popanda kukambirana. Simunatsanzikane. Chibwenzi chikatha mwadzidzidzi, mumatsala opanda kutseka. Simukudziwa momwe mungapitirire popanda kutseka . Ngati mukudabwa ndipo muli ndi mafunso okhudza kutha kwa chibwenzicho ndi chomwe chinamupangitsa kusiya chibwenzicho, tikuyankha mafunso anu onse apa.

1. Amamva kuti chemistry ikusowa 

Ndi zachilendo pamene chibwenzi chimayamba mokhudzika ndi moto. Muli ndi njala wina ndi mzake. Awiri a inu munali ndi kugonana kosokoneza maganizo mutangoyamba kumene chibwenzi chanu. Zimayamba pang'onopang'ono kukhala chinthu champhamvu komanso chokhudza mtima. Mumayamba kukondana wina ndi mzake pamene mukuyamba kugawana zofooka za wina ndi mzake. 

Chilakolako chimachepa. Komabe, izi sizikugwirizana ndi chikondi ndi ubwenzi. Umu ndi momwe zimakhalira ndi nthawi yayitali yaubwenzi . Magulu onse awiri omwe ali muubwenzi ayenera kuyesetsa kuthetsa izi ndikuyesetsa kusunga ubale ndi mphamvu. Ngati ubale wanu wautali utatha mwadzidzidzi, ndiye kuti kutaya chikondi kungakhale chimodzi mwa zifukwa zake.

2. Akuganiza kuti simukugwirizana 

Kugwirizana muubwenzi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimamangirira ndi kusunga anthu awiri pamodzi. Kugwirizana kumafanana ndi mgwirizano ndi mtendere. Zina mwa zizindikiro za kusagwirizana muubwenzi ndi izi:

• Wina akufuna kukwatira pomwe wina akufuna kukhalabe pachibwenzi
• Ubale umakhala wotetezeka koma osati wosangalatsa komanso mosemphanitsa
• Palibe kupatsa ndi kutenga
• Umanama kuti uwonekere kukhala wosangalatsa komanso wokongola 
• Simulemekezana makhalidwe, zikhulupiriro, ndi zimene amakonda

Simugwirizana pachilichonse ndipo mwina n’chifukwa chake anaganiza zosiya chibwenzicho popanda kukambirana. Kugwirizana kwabwino kumakulitsa ubale wolimba, wodziyimira pawokha. Koma ngati nonse muli pamasamba osiyanasiyana ndipo palibe chizindikiro cha kunyengerera kuchokera mbali zonse, ndiye kuti kusagwirizana ndiko chifukwa cha kusweka kwa khungu. 

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3. Anali ndi ziyembekezo zosatheka 

Mwamuna akathetsa chibwenzi mwadzidzidzi, mwina chifukwa chakuti anali atamaliza kukuyembekezerani kuti mukwaniritse zomwe amayembekezera. Mwina munali ngati 'munthu ameneyo' pamene anakumana nanu koyamba. Komabe, pamene chibwenzicho chinkapitirira, anazindikira zofooka zanu ndipo anaganiza kuti ndinu munthu wina wokhala ndi zizolowezi zenizeni komanso kuthekera. Kapena mwina anali chibwenzi chodzikonda chomwe chikufuna mngelo wakumwamba yemwe ndi wangwiro m'njira iliyonse. Izi zili pa iye. Si inu.

Uyenera kukondedwa ndi zilema komanso wopanda zolakwika. Atafunsidwa pa Reddit kuti ziyembekezo zosatheka muubwenzi zimawoneka bwanji, wogwiritsa ntchito wina anayankha kuti, "Kusatheka kwa ine ndi kuyembekezera kukhala ndi munthu wofanana naye nthawi zonse, kuyembekezera kuti agwirizane ndi chilichonse chomwe umanena osakhumudwa ndi iwe, kuyembekezera kuti awerenge zomwe ukuganiza komanso osafunikira kulankhula moona mtima nthawi zonse, komanso kuyembekezera kuti asalakwitse. Si momwe ubale wabwino umagwirira ntchito."

4. Anali ndi vuto laumwini

Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe anamaliza popanda kudziwitsa angakhale chifukwa cha mavuto ake. Mwinamwake iye anali kulimbana ndi imfa ya wokondedwa. Ankafuna kuyang'ana pa machiritso kuchokera ku chochitika ichi asanapange chiyanjano ndi inu. Musadzigonjetse nokha pa izo. Anathetsa chibwenzicho chifukwa chakuti anali ndi zinthu zina zofunika kuziika patsogolo. 

Zifukwa zina ndi izi:

• Anachotsedwa ntchito kapena akufuna kuika maganizo ake pa ntchito yomwe ikucheperachepera
• Iye akulimbana ndi matenda aakulu/zovuta ndipo sakufuna kuti mugwidwe ndi izi 
• Wasiya kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa 

Izi ndi zina mwa zifukwa zomveka zothetsera chibwenzi . Kodi mungachite chiyani munthu akathetsa chibwenzi chifukwa cha zifukwa zake? Muloleni achire kaye. Pokhapokha akachira m'maganizo ndi pomwe adzatha kukupatsani zonse zomwe angathe. Musamukakamize kuti akukondeni kapena kuti apitirizebe kukhala mu chibwenzicho. Mumasuleni. Ngati cholinga chake chinali choti chichitike, adzabweranso.

5. Okondedwa ake sanakuvomerezeni 

Inde, izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Anthu ambiri amathetsa chibwenzi chifukwa chakuti anzawo komanso achibale awo sankagwirizana nawo. Izi zingapangitse munthu kupanikizika kwambiri. Kumbali ina, ali ndi chikondi cha moyo wake ndipo mbali inayo, pali anthu omwe amamukonda kwambiri. Safuna kukhumudwitsa kapena kukhumudwitsa aliyense pakuchita izi. Komabe, akasankha, pamapeto pake amakukhumudwitsani komanso kukukhumudwitsani chifukwa chosakuikani patsogolo. 

Georgina, wolembetsa ku Bonobology wa ku Oklahoma, akugawana nawo, "Ndinali pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali ndi bwenzi langa. Tinali kukonzekera kukwatirana. Atangondidziwitsa kwa makolo ake, chibwenzicho chinatha popanda chenjezo. Ndinakumana naye patatha masiku angapo ndipo ndinapempha kuti nditseke. Iye ananena kuti makolo ake sankandikonda ndipo sanali kuchirikiza ubwenzi umenewu. Anachita mantha chifukwa chakuti ankafuna kuti banja lake lithe. 

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6. Anathetsa chibwenzicho mwadzidzidzi chifukwa chakuti anatopa nanu 

Amuna ena amakonda chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo chodziwana ndi anthu atsopano. Akakhala omasuka ndi wina, amalakwitsa chitonthozo ichi chifukwa chosowa mitundu yosiyanasiyana komanso chidwi. Mwamuna akathetsa chibwenzi mwadzidzidzi, zikhoza kukhala chifukwa chakuti ankakonda kwambiri mahomoni osangalala. 

Uyu ndi mwamuna amene amafuna kuti chikondi ndi kukondana zikhalepo kwamuyaya. Kapena anaganiza kuti kukondana ndi chikondi . Ubale wautali umakula tsiku lililonse, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mudzamva kutopa. Komabe, kutopa sikutanthauza kuima. Muyenera kuyesetsa kuti ubalewo ukhalebe ndi chikondi, kugonana, komanso kufooka.

7. Sanapitirirebe wakale wake wakale

Tiyeni tivomereze. Ambiri aife takumana ndi izi ndipo ambiri aife tachita izi kwa ena. Timalowa mu ubale popanda kuchira kwathunthu kuchokera zakale. Ngati anali ndi zochitika zoipa ndipo sanathe kuchira, ndiye kuti ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe sanasankhe kuti agwire ntchito pa chiyanjano ndipo anamaliza popanda chodzikanira.

Nazi zina mwa zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti sanamukwiyire wakale wake ngakhale atayamba chibwenzi ndi inu:

• Anali kulankhulanabe ndi iye ndi abwenzi / achibale ake 
• Iye ankadziwa zonse zimene zinkachitika pa moyo wake
• Iye anakana kufotokoza momveka bwino za kulekana 
• Iye ankamutsatirabe pamasamba onse ochezera a pa Intaneti
• Anakwiya atazindikira kuti ali pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina watsopano 

8. Zosowa zake sizinali kukwaniritsidwa

Zosowa zosakwaniritsidwa ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe maubwenzi ambiri amafika povuta. Zosowazo zitha kukhala chilichonse kuyambira zakuthupi, zamaganizo, komanso zanzeru. Atafunsidwa pa Reddit choti achite ngati zosowa sizikukwaniritsidwa muubwenzi, wogwiritsa ntchito wina anayankha kuti, "Yang'anani zilankhulo zachikondi ndikupeza chomwe chili chanu. Muwafotokozere momwe muyenera kukondedwa, kaya ndi mawu otsimikizira kapena okhudzana ndi ena.

"Adziwitseni kuti mudzayesetsa kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chake chachikondi , koma iyenso ayenera kukwanitsa kuchita chimodzimodzi kwa inu. Fotokozani kuti ngati sangathe kuchita izi, ndiye kuti chifukwa cha kudziona kuti ndinu wofunika, muthetsa chibwenzicho."

9. Iye ankaganiza kuti sanali wokwanira kwa inu 

Kumbali yakutsogolo, ichi chikhoza kukhala chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe ubale wanu wautali udatha mwadzidzidzi. Mwina ankaona kuti ndiwe wofunika kwambiri ndipo anachita manyazi kuti sangakwanitse kuchita zimene munkayembekezera. Iye adawona ntchito zonse zomwe mumayika muubwenzi ndipo adazindikira kuti sangachite zomwezo kwa inu. 

Wogwiritsa ntchito pa Reddit adagawana nkhani yake yokhudza momwe chibwenzi chake chinasiyanirana ndi iwo ponena kuti akuyenera zabwino. Wogwiritsa ntchitoyo adati, "Wina akanena kuti "Sindikuyenererani/Mukuyenera zabwino", zioneni ngati chizindikiro choyipa ndipo pitirizani. Mwina akukudziwitsani mobisa kuti simukugwirizana ndi inu kapena adzakuchitirani ngati zinthu zopanda pake (ngati sanachitepo kale), kapena ali ndi mavuto aakulu okhudza chitetezo."

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10. Mtsikana wake wakale wakonzeka kuyanjananso 

Izi zidzakhala zovuta kuzimeza koma muyenera kudziwa chomwe chimapangitsa mwamuna kuthetsa chibwenzi popanda kukambirana. Chifukwa chakuti inu munali wobwerera m'mbuyo ndipo tsopano wakale wake wavomereza kumupatsa mwayi wina . Ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zoyipa kwambiri zomwe mungakumane nazo koma sizikugwirizana ndi inu.

Ananyamula katundu wa ubale wake wakale ndikuulola kuti umange khoma pakati pa inu nonse. Ndikudziwa kuti sizikumveka zotonthoza koma m'malo modzimvera chisoni komanso kudzikayikira, muyenera kuyamikira kuti ubalewu sunapitirire. 

11. Iye ndi khanda 

Amuna osakhwima sadziwa momwe angathanirane ndi moyo. Amaopa kuti zinthu zifike povuta ndipo sadziwa momwe angachitire nazo. Munthu wamkulu sangathetse chibwenzi popanda kulankhula nanu kaye za icho. Maganizo ake amamulamulira m'malo momuuza. Chifukwa chake, kuopa kukangana ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zakuti munali pachibwenzi ndi munthu wosakhwima ndipo ndichifukwa chake adaganiza zosiyani popanda kutseka. Zizindikiro zina ndi izi:

• Sangathe kulamulira maganizo ake kapena kuugwira mtima. Amayembekeza ena kuthana ndi malingaliro ake ndikumupangitsa kumva bwino nthawi zonse
• Wopanda chifundo
• Sakuwona kusalinganika kwamalingaliro mu ubale wake
• Amamva kuti ali ndi ufulu wosiyana nthawi iliyonse yomwe akufuna 
• Satenga udindo kapena kuyankha, kungodzikhululukira
• Sindingatenge kutsutsidwa kulikonse

12. Amaopa kudzipereka 

Mwamuna akathetsa chibwenzi mwadzidzidzi, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zoonekeratu za izo. Kodi mumamupempha kuti adzipereke kwa inu? Kodi mayankho ake ankakayikira? Ngati mwayankha inde ku mafunso onse awiriwa, ndiye kuti kudzipereka ndi mantha ndi zomwe zidamupangitsa kuti achoke. 

Amuna pa Reddit adafunsidwa chifukwa chake amaopa kudzipereka, ndipo m'modzi mwa ogwiritsa ntchito adayankha kuti, "Pakadali pano ndili pachibwenzi cha nthawi yayitali koma ndimaopa ukwati ndi mwamuna wanga komanso mwachizolowezi. Ndikumva ngati anthu amasintha moyo wawo wonse ndipo chifukwa choti mumakonda munthu tsopano sizikutanthauza kuti mudzamva chimodzimodzi za iwo zaka 5 kapena 10 kuchokera pano. Anthu amatha kupatukana ndipo anthu ena amalakalaka "zokumana nazo zatsopano" zokumana ndi anthu atsopano zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi ukwati."

13. Akufuna kusangalala ndi moyo wosakwatiwa

Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zofiira za ubale zomwe anthu ambiri amazipeza nthawi yatha. Mwamuna amene akufuna kusangalala ndi moyo wake wosakwatiwa sadzakhala pachibwenzi ndi inu. Pamene chibwenzi chimatha mwadzidzidzi ndipo bwenzi lanu lakale likugona kale, ndiye kuti simuyenera kutaya nthawi yanu ndikugona pa iye. 

Atafunsidwa pa Reddit chifukwa chake amuna amapereka chifukwa chofuna kusangalala ndi moyo wosakwatira, wogwiritsa ntchito wina anayankha kuti, "Kutha kwa chibwenzi ndi kowawa. Pamene ndinakumana ndi wakale wanga pamene ndinali kulimbana ndi kutha kwa chibwenzi komwe kunabwera mwadzidzidzi, anati tiyeni tipumule ngati simukufuna kutha kwamuyaya. Imeneyo inali njira yosavuta komanso yachibadwa yoti asangalale ndi moyo wosakwatira. Ankafuna kugonana ndi anthu ena. Izi zikutanthauza kuti amayesetsa kusangalala ndi ena pamene ine ndikumuyembekezera kuti abwerere."

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14. Adakunyengani

Izi zikhala zopweteka koma izi zitha kukhala chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zinamupangitsa kuti asiyane nanu mwadzidzidzi. Mwina anali kukunamiza ndipo anali atasiya kusewera ndi mtima wako. Liwongo lake linamufika pamtima ndipo anaganiza zosiyanitsa nanu. Ngati anakunamizadi, karma yachinyengo idzamufika msanga kuposa momwe mukuganizira.

Munthu akakusiyani mwadzidzidzi, zingakhale chifukwa chakuti anali wosakhulupirika. Iye ankaona kuti ndi bwino kuti musamavutike kwambiri mukadzamva za kusakhulupirika kwake. Iyi ndi njira yake yothetsera mavuto omwe adayambitsa. Anadula maubwenzi ndi inu kuti musamamukonde kwambiri. 

15. Adagwa m’chikondi 

Munakumana, munakondana, ndipo zonse zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri. Koma pang'onopang'ono chikondi chimachepa. Ubwenzi uliwonse umafika pagawoli pomwe okwatiranawo ayenera kupanga chisankho chomanganso chikondicho. Ndi malo omvetsetsana komwe muyenera kudziwa chifukwa chake muli ndi munthuyu. Mwina mwamuna amene munkacheza naye sanaone zimenezo ndipo anapitiriza kuona zokhumudwitsa ndi kusagwirizana. Izi zikanamupangitsa kusiya kukondana nanu.

Wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit akugawana zomwe adakumana nazo atasiya chikondi. Zimandipangitsa kuganiza. Wogwiritsa ntchitoyo adati, "M'zochitika zonsezi, ndinawaposa. Ndi gawo lomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kwa ine. Kunali kutaya chikondi pang'onopang'ono. Zinayamba tsiku lomwe ndinayamba kupeza zinthu zazing'ono zokhumudwitsa ndipo pang'onopang'ono zinthu zinangowonongeka nthawi zonse. Ndipo chomwe chimayamba ndi nthabwala yoyambira kukukhumudwitsani chimatha ndi kuzindikira kuti muyenera kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyana kwambiri a tsogolo lomwe mukufuna, komanso kuti simukusangalalanso ndi kugonana nawo. Ndipo m'zochitika zonsezi zinali pa ine ndekha."

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Kusweka kwa khungu kwachitika. Wapita. Iye sadzabwerera. Zoyenera kuchita munthu akathetsa chibwenzi? Mumanyamula korona wanu ngati wachifumu, ndikumuvala mwaulemu. Werengani njira izi za momwe mungasamalire nthawi zovuta izi:

1. Vomerezani kuti simukhala ndi kutseka 

Kuvutika maganizo chifukwa chothetsa chibwenzi popanda kutseka kungakhale kovuta. Dziwani kuti kusankha kwake kuchoka kungakhale chifukwa cha zifukwa zambiri. Sizikugwirizana nanu, ndipo ngakhale zitatero, ndi maganizo ndi malingaliro ake. Kulephera kwake kukutsutsani ndikufotokozerani za kutha kwa chibwenzi sikukugwirizana nanu. Mudzakhala ndi nkhawa mukatha kutha koma mosamala, mudzathetsa.

Pamene mwamunayo sanavutike kukufotokozerani, simuyenera kudandaula za kutseka. Musadikire kuti muzindikire kuti ndinu ndani malinga ndi momwe iye amaonera ubale wanu ndi zinthu zomwe zidapangitsa kuti muthe. Kusowa mathero abwino ndiko kumathera pakokha. Landirani ndikuchokapo. 

2. Dziwani mmene mukumvera

Zindikirani malingaliro anu oponderezedwa polemba. Ndinu wokwiya, wopwetekedwa mtima, ndipo umadzimva kuti waperekedwa. Lirani momveka. Musayese kusesa malingaliro awa pansi pa kapu. Mukawatsekera m'mabotolo, kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri kuti muyang'ane nawo ndikuwongolera. Kuvomereza mwamalingaliro ndi imodzi mwa njira zokhalira ndi malingaliro. Zingakhale zovuta koma sizingatheke. Ndipo nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti malingaliro anu ndi zizindikiro. Iwo sali olamulira mwankhanza. Musawalole kuti akupangitseni kuchita zinthu zomwe simukanachita. 

3. Tsatirani dongosolo lanu lothandizira

Wina akakusiyani mwadzidzidzi, abwenzi ndi achibale atha kukhala njira yanu yothandizira nthawi ngati mutawalola. Akhoza kukupatsani malangizo. Iwo adzakusokonezani inunso ku masautso anu. Osadzipatula. Anzanu atha kukutengerani kokagula kapena mutha kupita nawo limodzi kuti mukhazikitse malingaliro anu. Pitani mukakumane ndi banja lanu. Idyani zakudya zophikidwa kunyumba ndikungosangalala ndi anthu anu. 

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4. Funsani katswiri wa zamaganizo 

Katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena uphungu adzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa bwino nokha. Adzakuthandizani kuti mutuluke mumavuto anu. Ngati mukufuna thandizo la akatswiri, gulu la alangizi odziwa bwino ntchito la Bonobology lili pafupi nanu.

5. Osapanga zisankho zazikulu zilizonse 

Zisankho zazikulu ndi izi:

• Kugwiritsa ntchito ndi kugwiritsa ntchito molakwika mankhwala / mowa
• Kusamukira ku mzinda wina
• Kusiya ntchito
• Kudzivulaza 
• Kubwereranso ndi mnzake wakale kuti mungodzaza kusungulumwa

Palibe chilichonse mwa izi chomwe chiyenera kuonedwa mopepuka. Ngati muli ndi malingaliro ofuna kudzivulaza kapena kusiya ntchito chifukwa cha kusudzulana kwanu , muyenera kupeza thandizo nthawi yomweyo. Mayesero amenewa angakupatseni mpumulo kwakanthawi koma angakuwonongeni kwambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire pakadali pano.

6. Pewani kulankhula ndi wakale wanu kapena kuwapempha kuti abwerere 

Musalankhule ndi wakale wanu. Anathetsa chibwenzi chawo cha nthawi yayitali mwadzidzidzi komanso mwadzidzidzi. Palibe chifukwa chomveka, palibe chifukwa chofotokozera, komanso palibe zifukwa zochitira khalidwe lawo. Musadzipangitse kuoneka ngati osowa mtendere ndipo muchite zinthu mwanzeru chifukwa cha malingaliro anu oponderezedwa. Dzipatuleni kwa iwo. Muyenera kukhala ndi munthu amene akufuna kukhala nanu. Yambani ubale ndi munthu amene angakusangalatseni monga momwe inu mumachitira ndi iwo. Musataye mphamvu zanu powapempha kuti akhalebe m'moyo wanu.

7. Yesani kudzisamalira

Njira ya machiritso ndi yovuta. Gwirani ntchito m'malingaliro anu ndikudzisamalira nokha. Dzikondeni ndi kudzikonda nokha. Muyenera kukhala patsogolo panu. Nawa maupangiri omwe mungatsatire podzisamalira:

• Muziganizira kwambiri zimene mumachita bwino 
• Yang'ananinso zokonda zakale kapena yesani zatsopano
• Khalani ndi zolinga za tsiku ndi tsiku 
• Kumanani ndi anzanu ndi abale anu pafupipafupi
• Idyani wathanzi 
• Muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse 
• Pezani njira zopumula monga yoga, kusinkhasinkha, kapena kuyenda panyanja 

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8. Bwererani kunja uko 

Mukachira m'maganizo, mutha kuyesa kubwerera ku dziwe lochezera. Musalole kuti chibwenzi chimodzi chikulepheretseni kukumana ndi anthu odabwitsa. Mwina mnzanu wa mumtima mwanu ali kunja akukuyembekezerani. Mudzazindikira mphamvu za mnzanu wa mumtima mwanu mukakumana naye. Yesani chibwenzi cha pa intaneti kapena pemphani mnzanu aliyense kuti akukonzeni ndi munthu wina. Mukondenso. Musasinthe moyo wanu wonse kuti ugwirizane ndi iwo.

Chikondi ndi nkhani yozama kwambiri. Kutha kwa banja kungakhale kovutitsa kwambiri. Osafuna kutengeka mtima chifukwa chakuti mwamuna mmodzi analephera kukumvetsani ndi kukukondani. Nthawi zonse ndikwabwino kukhala ndi chikondi ndi kutaya kuposa kusakonda konse, sichoncho? Ganizirani kutha uku ngati chiyambi cha chinthu china. Mudzakhala ndi zinthu zatsopano ndipo zatsopanozo zidzakhala zokongola mwa njira yawoyawo.

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