You know something is awry when your date looks at the watch and you look at the sky
Try and clear the misunderstanding with her, sometimes relationships don’t work out. If too upset seek help of a Psychotherapist
He’s gaslighting you. Get out of the relationship.
It’s possible his older ties were more powerful
Seek ways to reach out to him, get help from relative /family
You have worth without him
Ask him for a straight explanation
Talk to him in person
Ask her calmly what she needs from you
One of the marks of maturity is to gain skills to deal with conflicting emotions and process them with your lover.