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Erotic Things You Might Want To Say To Your Partner
You may want to say erotic things to your partner but dirty talk is one of those tricky areas that everyone struggles with at some point or the other. Even though you may have an elaborate list of things you want to do your partner in bed or want them to do to you, there …
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BDSM 101: How a couple’s power equation can change in a BDSM relationship
This is an ongoing series exploring the BDSM community and the rules of interaction that are to be followed when looking for kinky sex. We’ve talked about code words for BDSM interaction elsewhere. And the importance of consent in a relationship. You can also look for workshops that help you explore your tendencies. Or the role of non-sexual …
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BDSM 101: Importance of Start, Stop and Wait codes in BDSM
(As told to Aparajita Dutta) First in a series of Understanding BDSM: Codes and their Significances “Let’s have lunch together,” Srikanth looked at Apurva, his eyes trying to gauge her feelings on the matter. “Sure.’ A date was finalised. In the splendour of a 5-star restaurant, Srikanth and Apurva sat across each other. Both of them …
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Tips to embrace your kinky side without being labelled a ‘pervert’
How do you go about talking about the things that turn you on? It’s not easy discussing sex. Many of us were brought up not to talk about sex at all. How do you explore your kinks and how do you get to feel comfortable with your fetishes in a world that still judges kinky …
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Why men like the dominating woman when it comes to sex
Some men just like the pain Vinod had fantasies around pain and punishment from a very young age. In his teens he bought a riding crop from their trip to Thailand and had to create a complex lie to explain its presence in the house when it was found. When he went to see a …
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BDSM 101: Workshops to explore your sexuality
This is an ongoing series exploring the BDSM community and the rules of interaction that are to be followed when looking for kinky sex. We’ve talked about code words for BDSM interaction elsewhere. And the importance of consent in a relationship. “I’m glad we bonded,” Apurva remarked coquettishly while trying to lie still on the bed. She …