Get down, get kinky
It doesn’t have to be a confession if kink is how you roll. It’s not a sin either if you are trying it just once. What two (or more) consenting adults do in their own private space should never be anybody’s business. So to hell with those who talk about your daddy issues and slut shame you: ‘Love is great, love is fine’ but sex is for pleasure too. So communicate your safe word and get down to it.
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Rome was not built in a day
It took a lot of time for Kajol to steer her partner to BDSM. It took her a lot of time to convince her partner that she’s okay with being tied up. But once they started, her partner slowly became the ‘dom’ she wanted him to be. Soon whips and chains were included in their arsenal to maximise pleasure. When her hands and legs are tied to four bedposts, Kajol doesn’t even need intercourse to reach orgasm.
He’s such a tease
Technically Arjun and Archana never had sex. After breaking up from a long-term relationship Archana embarked on exploring herself. Arjun was a younger guy but not inexperienced. Archana soon found out her need for kink when Arjun introduced it to her. It started with phone sex: the things Arjun said drove Archana up the wall just thinking about those. Then started Arjun’s tease seasons: He was a perfect ‘dom’ and Archana was an obedient ‘sub’. Most pleasurable are the blindfold seasons. Archana could never guess what’s coming next: What part of her body is Arjun going to explore with what part of his. She whimpers and groans with every touch. Though it is not intercourse, this is the most pleasure Archana ever had.
I like my stilettos
Aditi and Vikram are a newly married couple. In Aditi’s own words: “Vikram has a thing for stilettos. He likes seeing me in them, only in them. To spice it up I add net stockings and tiny black lace and mesh cut out babydoll. The other day he bought a collar for himself and submitted his chains to me. He just wants to be my little bitch. If he is a good boy, I give him treats. But if he doesn’t listen to me, he gets the whip. It’s been fun.”
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I’ve been a bad bad girl
It started as fun and games for Moumita. Her boyfriend Kunal would spank her when nobody was looking. Moumita soon realised that that subtle pain arouses her more than anything. So she bought a leather whip for Valentine’s Day and told Kunal that she has been a bad bad girl. With the lash Moumita became more and more aroused. Kunal finally got to see the wild side of his girlfriend in ways he never imagined.
Chains and whips excite me
Nilima, in her own words, “When I entered in Punam’s ‘other’ bedroom on our second date I was thoroughly scared. There were things hanging from the wall that I’ve only seen in videos and not in real life. I quickly said to her, “Punam, I’m not into BDSM”, she assured me that I don’t have to be to be intimate with her. I soon found out that chains and whip excite me, but the thought of me being on the receiving end freaks me out. Punam made me realise that I’m a ‘dom’ rather than a ‘sub’. I finally felt easy when I took charge. Seeing Punam in pink handcuffs and a gag with complete control over her gave me the ultimate satisfaction. Sometimes Punam whispers to me, “I think I’ve unleashed the devil herself.”
Out of the box, out of line
Her Bangkok trip after graduation was a trip to remember for Proma and her friends. Though the first rule of the trip was they are never going to talk about it, but she told me in secret (Don’t tell anyone) Proma was surprised to find that whatever you like is available for a price there: whether you want to be pampered or tortured. She found an S&M centre there where they’ll tie you up and whip you for your pleasure. Till date, whenever I ask her how it was she says, “They did nothing to me the devil won’t for feeling that much pleasure.”
My boyfriend used You Tube tutorials to seduce me and here’s what happened
