Sex and Passion

Why men like the dominating woman when it comes to sex

Why is it that some men enjoy having a woman play the dominant sexual role?
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Some men just like the pain

Vinod had fantasies around pain and punishment from a very young age. In his teens he bought a riding crop from their trip to Thailand and had to create a complex lie to explain its presence in the house when it was found. When he went to see a Domme in London for the first time she beat him so hard that the bruises lasted a week. He now is sure that he is more masochistic than submissive, so it’s about pain more than humiliation.

Dhruv recalls that a girl he played with at junior school would spank him often during play if he misbehaved in the games. Later in boarding school he recalls if you lost a card game the loser would have his/her knuckles hit hard with the pack of cards. He likes BDSM with its pain balanced with pleasure.

In the post-Fifty Shades of Grey world, people are increasingly talking about BDSM (bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism), dungeons, Subs and Dommes and the mind boggling variety of toys used in these sadomasochistic sexual activities.

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  1. Yes, I totally agree! BDSM is hyped as torturing, giving pain but it is nothing like that. BDSM is very intense and sensual and causes a lot of very strong feelings in people who practice them. Sometimes a massage, however sensual it feels, is just a massage. For others, a rubdown pretty much always leads to sex. It’s kind of similar with BDSM; it’s a matter of personal and sexual preference.

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