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My husband has a sexual fetish that makes me feel disrespected

Her husband was a good man, except that he had a strange sexual fetish, which made her feel abused and disrespected. Is there a solution?
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When her honeymoon turned into a horrible dream

“We had sex for the first time a week after the wedding while we were on our honeymoon. I never had sex before marriage and hence it was the first time for me. When we were done, Alok said he wanted to go for a golden shower and took me into the bathroom. I had no clue what that meant. He then made me sit on the commode and urinated all over me. I tried to stand up but for some reason I had no energy. I sat in the bathroom in an utter state of shock. He then took a shower and walked off into the bedroom.”

“I felt humiliated, but I didn’t react at all. It was the first day of my life I was with him alone in another country and I felt lonely. I went quiet following that incident. Later that night we had sex once again and then he took me to the bathroom again. This time I was expecting him to urinate over me but it was worse than that. He wanted me to urinate on him. Another shock for me in the same day. He kept asking me to and I just couldn’t do it. He then got angry and walked off. I couldn’t sleep that night, as something that I have been looking forward to since my engagement had completely gone wrong. Then I knew my sex life won’t be normal, ever. I was so disappointed,” let out Nanda about the dark secret in her bedroom.

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  1. To be frank the whole concept of oral sex appears much fetish to me.. I am quite certain to discuss it with any man willing to marry me!!

  2. like said in the conclusion, either, for once and for all, talk to him about it outside the bedroom, and if it still doesn’t get solved, probably counselling or taking the matter to a close family member is necessary so as to not let the rest of the marriage fall apart.

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