My husband has dirty chats with several women and I can’t bear it

My husband says that he is not chatting with other women anymore but I am finding it difficult to trust him
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Hello Snigdha,

I have caught my husband having dirty chats with women several times. For him this is fun but for me it’s unbearable.

He doesn’t change his behaviour. Almost a year back I discovered he was chatting with a woman 24/7. Those chats were not just dirty and explicit but he also said to the woman that ‘she was his real wife and not me’.  I was completely shattered but tried to manage. I took advice from some wise people I knew. I tried to detach myself. But when you’re staying together, it’s not possible. Though he tells me that he is not chatting with that woman any more, how does one believe a cheater? Please help me.

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Snigdha Mishra says:

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  1. I couldn’t agree more with Snigdha Ji. Communication is the key. If you keep thinking about all this, you might go under depression. Let it out, share and discuss.

  2. Madam, I feel it becomes a habit for the male partner and not really any amount of talking or discussion help to build the trust. I know it myself. Also the male partner tries to find out such women who can go to any length to start and continue such behaviour.
    J Jayanti

    1. Correct they feel shy to talk to their wives but are comfortable with others wives and widows or single women. Cowards. These days such women are plenty on hook up sights. I am going through same problem.

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