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10 reasons why the man in your life may be saying NO to sex

What are the reasons that might prompt a man to say no to sex?
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The general perception that it is men who initiate sex, is not true and more often than usual it may be the woman who needs to make the first move. When an invite for sex does not evoke a favourable response, the lady may feel let down and take it personally. Remember, it is not about you, there may be reasons for him not having responded. Here are the top 10 reasons why your man might be saying NO to sex.

1. Stress

He may be stressed because of a work situation or something that has not been shared with you. An unsolved financial problem, a nagging negative thought or a possible situation that may be evoking fear, is a sure killer for the right mood.


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  1. Great Insight coming from you .As usual very crisp and precised. The pointers stated by you are actually clues for anyone to figure out what can be wrong with your partner. At times your partner is not very expressive and may shy off discussing and bringing up dialogue on sex. Great work .Keep writing…

    1. Thanks Malini for contributing. You are right that the responsibility seems to on wife but when intelligence is used a tool, it catapults the whole situation into a favourable one. So please look at it from that perspective.

  2. The task of a wife is to maintain and take care of a husband. It is not an easy undertaking. Those women, who are unaware of this feature of their role, may find difficulty in fulfilling the task. It is a job for the woman who is aware that the job requires a degree of sagacity, style, and ingenuity. For a woman to be a successful wife, she should win over her husband’s heart and be a source of comfort to him.

    1. You are very right in pointing out that despite one or more than one of the listed reasons, there is always room for betterment, which a caring wife should be aware of.

  3. Well crafted and simply Explained. The input on subject not discussed too much but there is always a need for such insight if one is ready to do a self Analysis and wants to create a great life for self and Partner……

  4. I personally agreed with the all above reasons when sex is pre-planned. If not,… non of above reasons matter for enjoying heavenly emotional pleasure.

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