The things men do that kill romance
Women have divorced their husband for the most ridiculous reasons: because he voted for Donald Trump, left dishes in the sink or because he snores. Then they have also divorced the husband because he lacked the ‘love hormone’, didn’t text back or was too busy to take her out. Most men would dismiss this statement with a mirthless laugh, but that wouldn’t, in any way, alleviate the gravity of the issue. When a woman finally decides to pull herself away (not even legally separate) from her husband, there’s no singular reason for her withdrawal. It’s the small missiles that sever a romantic relationship.
Eye to eye
They don’t call it ‘love at first sight’ for nothing. I know men who got into fights, refused to eat and invoked their inner Devdas to make the girl say ‘yes’; and as soon as she did, things began to change. Today, the same man refuses to eat, poop or have a conversation without looking up from his phone. Really, is a tech-free dinner too much to ask?
You’re never emotionally available
Women hate to waste their precious time and energy on men who are never there for them; and even if your woman is, she’s eventually going to get fed up and drop you like a hot potato. If you don’t appreciate your wife for the lovely lunch she cooks, call her in between work hours just to check if she has eaten or take her out or surprise her once in a while with a gift or a weekend getaway, you’re just going to be that stone-faced, detached dude who keeps building walls around himself. Not happening.