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My best friend and boyfriend have dumped me and are dating each other

Am feeling hurt by my best friends actions and am feeling betrayed by my Ex
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Dear Sir,

My friend said ugly things about me to my boyfriend, he dumped me and now they are dating each other.

I feel angry and I just can’t get over the fact that she played so dirty to get him for herself. I also feel betrayed by my ex as he chose to believe my friend over me after all the support I gave him when his parents died, and all the emotional investment in him for 3 years.

I am confused about whether I in some way allowed this betrayal of trust, and if so, why. I am angry with both of them and myself for where I am today. I just can’t get over the hurt and anger. What should I do?

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Aman Bhonsle says:

Dear young lady,

You’ve just lost out on a relationship and a friendship. The hurt and anger you’re currently feeling are a natural reaction to loss. Ask yourself if apart from the pain of betrayal that you currently feeling, are you also afraid that ‘you may just not be good enough’?

Self-rejection is a universal problem, but this is a rare opportunity for you to change the way you see yourself.

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  1. The best revenge for you is to allow them to be together. They know that this is a relationship built on deceit rather than trust. So when the karma visits them sit back and enjoy. Forgive them but don’t forget what they have done to you. So please don’t be stupid to give them a second chance in life.

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