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My girlfriend of seven years is marrying someone else and I’m feeling used and discarded

My girlfriend didn't even fight for me and I am depressed
worried man standing near wall

Hello Ma’am,

I have been in a relationship with a girl for the past 7 years. It was a long distance relationship. I was in so love with her. She used to say, I am doing my higher studies because you give me strength to do it. We are from different religions. She used to say we will stay in a relationship as long as we can…

I trusted that at some point of time she would tell her parents about our relationship. But she didn’t… and after completing her higher studies, within few months, her marriage got fixed. She did nothing for our relationship. Didn’t say a single word about our relationship to her parents. She is going to get married next month. I feel depressed. I feel like a toy that was used, thrown away… What do I do?

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Snigdha Mishra says:

Dear Aadi,

It’s okay to feel depressed and sad because when bad things happen we feel bad.

Maybe it was time: You’ve mentioned that you’d decided that you’ll be together till you can. Maybe this was it? This was the time she thought she could be with you.

I understand that since you were together for

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  1. May be you can talk to her… But may be she does not have that much feelings for you that she strive for it.. It is okay.. Your biggest identity is you.. Identity and support.

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