What a guy goes through when a girl makes the first move
So, all this while, you’ve been thinking that women never make the first move? Considering how all of us have been raised to believe and propagate some useless myths about how love works, we don’t blame you. But you couldn’t be more wrong! In this day and age, more women than ever have been taking the first step, but it still isn’t enough to debunk the stereotypes that we’ve managed to preserve. In fact, this idea of the man as the pursuer and the woman as the object of his pursuit is so deep-rooted – thanks to Bollywood – that many women refrain from appearing too ‘out there’. Ah! Good old systematic conditioning! But that’s hardly all.
Men are raised to believe that they have to be the ones approaching. “Why?” you ask? Well, it’s part of the implied terms and conditions they ship in with a penis. Back to the real question. Long story short, most guys – whether they admit it or not – love it when a woman takes the first step. Whether it’s asking for his phone number, being the first one to lean in, or leading the bed game on the first night, women surprise most men by saving the back seat for them. Here are five things that a man goes through when a woman gets the ball (no puns intended, we swear) rolling.