Q: I’m a 26-year-old man; and live in a joint family with my parents, my sister, my brother, and his wife. My sister-in-law and I had been friends before my brother married her six years ago. They do not have any children. The third year into their marriage, she confided in me about the lack of sexual life between them. There was a lot of sexual tension between us, and from the next month, we have been in a secret intimate relationship. I do not want to keep living this secret life as I know it’s wrong, and because I am cheating my brother. I want to settle down and as much as I may love my brother’s wife, I know even if the reality is ever known to all, marrying her will be impossible. I am in a complete mess. Please advice!
I would highly recommend that you get a grip on the reality of the situation. From your description, you seem to be grappling with the facts of the situation, but not grasping them close and