Extrovert, or dignified, cold, adventurous and spontaneous but selfish
Most rationalists and sane minded people just pooh-pooh the idea of deciding compatibility by looking at star signs. But astrology still holds many in its sway. Many will not venture into marriage, business or a new house until the stars tell them to. However, it is a cool icebreaker when you meet new people or you want to open a dialogue with a new love interest.
While most folks go tizzy headed about star signs or the zodiac, not much is known about what they may be like in bed, and under the covers. It is not so easy to predict who might be kind, giving and generous in love and sex, but there seems to be agreement about compatibility with each zodiac. We are discussing which are the most selfish of the 12-star signs, and while some behaviours can be learned, there are just those who cannot help but be selfish and insensitive. They are just hard-wired to be so.
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Aries (March 21 – April 19)
People of Aries are adventurers and spontaneous in nature, and when it comes to sex this is a vital ingredient – they do not have any patience for caution or romance and are known to be studs of the zodiac
Aries man in bed: Very dominant, sexy and fast. He is an excellent lover, but if you are expecting soft sweet nothings you will be disappointed. He’s demanding and he expects the love of his life to be a bit of an innocent seductress, free-spirited but supportive. He is not a cheater, but if he gets bored, he will find other pleasures that suit him. Aries men can be quite selfish, not because they are mean, but that they are so focused on their ambitions that they tend to forget their partners.
Aries woman in bed: For her, sex is not to be mixed with romance – sex is a purely physical act. The Aries woman has no inhibitions and tends to treat her man as a useful tool. She also is selfish for kinky attention and if you are not up to it, will look for greener pastures.
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Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
A Sagittarian, like Aries, is also spontaneous and adventurous in the bedroom. When they find the right person, they are devoted and loyal to the end, but only if they are sure that it is returned in kind; no unconditional love. They are a bit transactional in that sense.
Sagittarius man in bed: He loves the action between the sheets; Sagittarius can sometimes be selfish when it comes to sex. He is sporty and concocts games in the bedroom and loves loud, raucous women. He is loyal as long his needs are met, but if sexual pleasure is denied to him, he will look elsewhere.
Sagittarius woman in bed: With frequent ups and downs in their moods, these ladies are difficult to understand and love life can be a roller coaster. She is good fun and open to new ideas in bed. A Sagittarius woman is secretive about her sexual emotions and so is selfish with self-expression, leaving the man a little unsure of his success.
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Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns enjoy hiding their feelings and it is difficult to discern whether they are in love or not. They are sticklers for everything to be in its place, and this goes for their partners too. They are calm, to the point of being insensitive and cold.
Capricorn man in bed: He is not exactly selfish, but can be reticent and, he will eagerly wait to finish. Do not expect too much spontaneity from him. He likes to do things at his pace, and only in his own house. He does not air his fantasies and they usually remain in his head.
Capricorn woman in bed: They are actually great in bed, unlike Capricorn men, and love to experiment when it comes to sex. But as typical Capricorns, they are complete control freaks. The Capricorn woman obsessively objectifies men and she will not hide it.
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Leo (July 23 – November 22)
Leo provides a tumultuous time with love and sex. People born under this sign can be quite selfish, even in the bedroom. They are usually interested in more than just sex; predictably they want to love and appreciation, partnership and friendship.
Leo man in bed: He is known as the King of the zodiac and expects to be treated like one. He is very sexy and has a lot of admirers. Being a megalomaniac, he expects complete devotion and adoration from his lover.
Leo woman in bed: She is arrogantly sexy without much effort, and all her partners adore her. Leo women like to play games with men and they like to be dominant, or better yet to say, rule them. The Leo woman is exciting and dangerous in bed; she revels in it.
Though each of the signs mentioned above tends to be selfish in bed, a crafty partner can make sure to have a good time while they are at it.