10 Signs You Are Moving From Friends to Lovers

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Signs you are becoming friends to lovers

It does not take long to become friends to lovers. It’s just that you may not know that it has happened.

You might be in a relationship without even knowing it!

If you could have a dollar for every time you shook your head and told a curious pal, “Oh, we’re just friends”, would you be a millionaire? If the answer’s ‘Yes’, you might be in a relationship without knowing it! Don’t we all know a lot of couples who, at some point, used to be ‘just friends’? That’s because a vast number of relationships are born out of friendship! But make no mistake. We are, in no way, advocates of Mohnish Behl’s infamous dialogue in Maine Pyar Kiya – “Ek ladka aur ladki kabhi dost nahin ho sakte, Prem”. We find it as stupid as it is toxic. But just in case you and your partner have a fair chance of hitting it off, we wouldn’t want you to regret not having done anything about it after 10 years. You just need to pay heed to the signs that you have become friends to lovers.

That said, here’s the tricky bit: thousands of friendships don’t become relationships because the other person does not feel the same way. The worst part? Sometimes the friendship suffers and dies. Now, we want compatible friendships to turn into relationships without the fear of the two falling out. And if you’re wondering how to go about it, we’ve got you covered! So why don’t you let us tell you the 10 signs that you’re becoming lovers while you focus on checking those boxes?

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10 Signs you are moving from friends to lovers

The signs are always there that you are becoming friends to lovers. You just need to notice those and understand how your relationship is changing.

1. Harmless flirting

This is a subtle one and often goes unnoticed. Most friendships that are on their way to becoming relationships feature harmless flirting. Why harmless, you wonder? Well, it’s not anything serious if it’s between friends, right? You might have to be a little aware to spot this one. Often regarded as mere banter, flirting among friends is one of the stealthier signs!

man flirting. Signs you are becoming friends to lovers

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2. Awkward group conversations

You’d think that group conversations should feature all or most of the people interacting with each other, right? Not with lovebirds, they aren’t. The two, while being a part of the group on paper, usually engage with each other extensively. Sometimes this makes the rest of the group feel like one big third wheel and therefore awkward. This happens when friends are on the way to become lovers.

3. Never enough

The daily dose of interaction just doesn’t cut it, does it? If you two are texting each other at all possible opportunities, that’s a sign! In severe cases, the suspects tend to have parallel conversations across multiple social media platforms! They can’t get enough of each other and are not realising they are becoming friends to lovers.

4. Names for each other 

If you’ve ever heard a friend of yours call another friend babe or baby, you know you’ve squinted at the scent of something fishy! And it isn’t just about affectionate pet names. If you have names to pull each other’s legs, and no one else is aware of them, you’re not off the hook yet!

5. Body language

Few things are as indicative of a potential jodi as body language. During interactions, make a stealthy analysis! If your partner’s torso and feet usually face you, they might be into you, too! A lot of accidental touches exchanged between the two of you are another strong sign!

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6. You put them before anyone else

Your friend tops your priority list and you’re not willing to give that position away anytime soon! You change plans for them, put aside work to listen to their problems, and seen zone other people to have those 3 A.M. rants.

7. You get jealous

This is an absolute sign that you are becoming friends to lovers. This isn’t one of the subtle signs, it is THE sign. If not anyone else, you’ll be extremely aware of it! Does seeing them dating someone make you feel jealous? Do you find the person utterly undeserving of your friend? Jealousy might be a definitive sign that you’re into your friend!

Signs you are becoming friends to lovers

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8. You feel lusty

As long as you don’t act inappropriately on it, having the hots for your friend doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Do you guys joke about being cool with making out or sleeping with each other? Even if you secretly find them irresistible, come clean to yourself. Trust us, life’s easier that way!

9. You talk about them 24/7

Maybe that’s an exaggeration, but if you two manage to make references to each other in every other conversation, you might’ve been bitten by the lovebug! Give it time, and people will point it out to you that you are becoming friends to lovers, even before you realise yourself.

10. Friends ship you

 While we’ve all had friends who’ve wanted to pair us up with other people, and closet lovers are no different! After a while, they’ll take every shot they can at convincing you that the two of you are so obviously into each other. Friends can sniff what’s going on from miles away, and they will make it a point to address the elephant in the room!

Two friends falling in love with each other – it doesn’t get more adorable. So, the next time you’re around your pal, keep an eye out for these signs. And if you’ve been checking all those boxes, you know what to do!

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