It’s not you, it’s me… Take this relationship quiz to find out if you are the toxic partner! We will provide you with an honest mirror. Are you overly critical of your partner? Do you keep a score of their mistakes, like it’s a Liverpool match? Do you blame your partner for everything? Are you addicted to the drama?
Sometimes we only think about things from our own perspective and don’t realize how our partners might feel about it. Something that is not too big of a deal to you might be absolutely unacceptable to your partner. This is why sometimes we can be toxic without even realizing it.
Before taking this short and accurate quiz about your relationship, here are some handy tips:
- Keep complimenting your lover, everybody loves ‘love’
- A cute text/call is can mean more than you think it is
- Surprise your partner, in the bedroom and outside
- Argue if you want to, but always respectfully
- Patiently listen to their side of the story and only then tell yours
- Ask your partner to tell you when you cross the line
Finally, if the result of the ‘Am I the problem in my relationship’ quiz is a ‘Yes’, this test could be a good start for some self-introspection. Mending your relationship with yourself will help you significantly in mending your relationship with your partner. You can also work with a therapist and come up with a doable roadmap on how to go about it. Our counselors from Bonobology’s panel are just a click away.