What are the few essentials that you consider when you start dating someone – Where are they from? Where do they live? What do they do for a living? But have you ever thought of considering ‘when is their birthday?’ before saying ‘yes’.
This is an important consideration not just so you can plan a surprise party or arrange a gift but also because it allows you to consider the zodiac sign of the person you’re planning to date. You may ask why? Well, not all humans are alike yet there are certain traits common to people born under the same zodiac sign.
Considering these when going ahead with a relationship can help you avoid the worst. We suggest you read this article if you are crushing, about to say yes, or already dating a Virgo man (born between August 23 to September 22).
The symbol of Virgo is Virgin and signifies spiritual purity and innocence. This does not mean that a Virgo man lacks masculine qualities or is any less of a man compared to other signs. In fact, according to astrologers, Virgo is the sign of the earth that is ruled by Mercury. Thus, people belonging to this zodiac sign are strong headed perfectionists.
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Speaking of perfectionism, Virgos like to do everything on time. They are practical, observant, realistic yet usually logical, helpful, and down to earth. When a Virgo man loves you, he does it with all his heart. That comes with its own set of pros and cons. So, let us dig deep into more of their love traits and see how they are as partners.
What’s A Virgo Man In Love Like?
A Virgo man does not act in haste, he takes things slowly and steadily. But once he decides on the love of his life, it is indeed for a lifetime. He believes in all or nothing scenarios and would want to know you in and out. Not as possessive as scorpions, a rational one-woman man, the Virgo will expect the same from you and sometimes may take things ahead too soon.
To have a detail blueprint, here are some extensive insights of a how does a Virgo man act when he is in love.
1. Be Ready To Be Noticed – Inside Out
Being a perfectionist by nature, when a Virgo man is in love, he would start noticing everything about you. The Virgo man is a stark contrast to all the men who say they don’t really care of the missed-out upper lip hair. From the color of your lipstick to the hidden strip of your bra, Virgos have an eye on each and everything that you wear, do, or say once he is interested in you.
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The good part? He will always know there is something wrong with you, even before you say it. Yayyy!
2. Keep your phone’s battery charged for endless calls
So, have you had male friends and ex-boyfriends who would text you, like your photos on social media and maybe comment on them but the whole idea of calling you was alien to them.
Good news! Virgo males are different when it comes to the calling game. A Virgo man loves to stay connected and when you are away the best way he can feel close to you is through calls. He is someone who would pick up the phone and call to know if you have eaten lunch, gone to the gym, got your nails done, met your friend and probably even peed!
Feel it’s nosy? Hmmm we would say what’s love without some meddling!
3. You get to hear his sassy secrets
Virgo men are known to be introverts and secret keepers. They don’t trust people easily and hence, would count their words when it comes to talking to people. ‘Cautious’ being one of their personality traits, they are less likely to open up to even their friends.
Not to be considered as arrogant or self-centered, this is a zodiac sign that carefully chooses the people who they wish to spill the beans to. So ladies, when a man born under this sign tells you his dirty little secret, there is no doubt that he is head-over-heels in love with you.
So, the next time when only you know something that a Virgo man is hiding from others, count yourself as the one for him!
4. Brain over beauty
No matter how clear your skin, bootylicious your butts or curved your waistline, everything apart, your intellect tops a Virgo man’s checklist of desirable traits.
We are not saying that you need to be working at NASA to impress this man. But being the zodiac that is ruled by the mercury, a Virgo man is stimulated by intelligence more than anything else.
He looks for someone who has an opinion of their own and surprises him with their wit. To put it simply, he wants someone to connect with on a deeper level.
5. He Gets ROMANTIC!
Virgos by nature are not considered to be romantic but things turn upside down when they find the special one. These men, by instinct, start doing romantic stuff to please their partners or those they are romantically inclined toward. These romantic gestures include buying you your favorite flowers, wearing the color you like, gifting without any occasion or reason and so on.
The best part? You will never complain about him forgetting your birthday or anniversary (you can also have as many anniversaries with him as you like – the first date anniversary, first kiss anniversary, first make-out anniversary, and the like.)
6. No unpleasant physical contact
You heard us right, unlike many men (no offense please), Virgo men are a little conservative when it comes to physical contact. At the initial dating stage, this guy will never come too close or make advances that leave you feeling uncomfortable.
It might sometimes be misread as a lack of interest or attraction. But chill, he is just giving you your space to be comfortable with him, and in turn, taking his time to observe and cherish your inner self. Truth to be told, though romantic at heart when it comes to taking initiative on the intimacy front, things don’t change much even when the relationship progresses.
These men like to keep it simple and are not too welcoming when it comes to trying different things. Not to disappoint you, they are deep lovers and tend to make simple things fun and fulfilling.
7. Perfect to a fault
Speaking of Virgos and perfectionism, this attribute has a flip side too. Not only do Virgos believe in being perfect themselves but also want everything and everyone around them to be perfect. Be it your relationship, your restaurant etiquette, your dressing style, or your personality.
Let’s assume that you guys are at a restaurant and the waiter forgot to get your freebie. Saying ‘please get my free coffee’ is a complete no-no when you are with a Virgo. For him, using the word ‘complimentary’ instead of free is IMPORTANT!
Though his perfectionism may be a positive trait at the beginning of the relationship, his intentions to mold you to meet his high standards can get exhausting eventually.
The pressure can leave you feeling like he’s trying to turn you into someone you’re not. So even with a great trait, dating a Virgo man can sometimes get on your nerves.
8. Loyalty and commitment
Virgo men are not into casual flings, one-night stands or hookups. Instead, they want a serious heart-to-heart relationship. When a Virgo guy dedicates himself to someone, he doesn’t plan on wasting his time or energy on something meaningless and without a future.
He is not the one who would secretly stalk or text other potential interests. Instead, he is someone who would label your relationship and be proud to call you his in front of others.
Believe us when we say, you won’t even find him staring at other women while he is with you.
9. Honesty and devotion
Virgos take a lot of time to get to know someone, work on them to make them perfect and turn out to be hopelessly romantic. That’s why a potential love interest must check all the boxes on their list of desired traits for them to become invested. The good news is, once they do, they will be completely honest and devoted to you.
A Virgo man is not the type of man to play on-and-off games, create unnecessary drama, or make you jealous to testify your love.
They are often horse-head lovers who prefer leisure time with the partner to juvenile mind games.
10. He calls you for a family dinner
Not all men are comfortable with the idea of introducing a partner to their family. Well, at least, not until they’re sure of where the relationship is headed. But Virgos, here too, are exceptions. When a Virgo is into you, he would not shy away to show you off. Instead, he would want you to be a part of the lives of his near and dear ones too.
So, the next time he asks you to come for a Christmas dinner, grab your most demure dress and your best gifts to take because the chances are that it is the time for some wedding bells!
11. A thorough gentleman
A Virgo is a thorough gentleman with old-fashioned values and will assume a traditional male role. At the same time, he won’t stay with someone who can’t stand on their own two feet or have an opinion of their own. He’ll be a shoulder to lean on, but not a kerchief to a cry baby.
He’s not a pushover and certainly won’t tolerate someone who sulks or gets moody when things don’t go their way.
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If he chooses you to be his partner, believe us you can count yourself incredibly lucky.
The Bottom Line Is…
Virgo men are handsome athletic chaps who wake up at 5 every morning to go to gym. They stand out in a room full of people for their style and perfect turn out. Hardworking without compromising on the outcome, these men love accepting and completing challenges. When it comes to choosing a partner, they are noticeably clear – both in their heart and their head. Eternal love, that’s what Virgos ultimately long for. And uncomplicated relationships too.
They won’t find you on Tinder only to have a one-night stand and then bid goodbye. They would prefer to spot you in the bright sunlight, get to know you inside out, and then, ask you out on a ‘magical first date’.
Hard working, intelligent, perfectionist, conservative, problem-solver and dominating.
They can’t wait for too long. If they have to wait, they lose interest. So once they put their mind onto something, they want it right then and there, be it a thing, a travel plan or a person.
Invasive or noisy people. Virgos hate such people. They do not like unnecessary curiosity in their affairs and they don’t like people who talk too loudly. They don’t like show-offs, trying to be center of attention and unwanted drama.
Facts and evidences. Assumptions are a complete NO- NO to them. You can be sure they won’t judge you on an assumption but they will confront you.
They like nature, healthy food, punctuality, orderliness and animals.
They hate sloppiness, squalor and chaos. They hate being weak or loosing. Also, they hate drama and prefer to solve things in a calm way.
Vibes! For Virgos, the looks and personality are overshadowed when it comes to good vibes. They can hate a person because they don’t get positive vibes from them. The person might never know that.