Is He Playing Me? Quiz

Have you ever had that feeling when you’re texting a guy, and it’s like you’re playing detective with his emojis, trying to crack the code of what he’s really feeling? In today’s world, meeting new people is a breeze, thanks to all those swipes and clicks. But here’s the catch—it’s also become kind of tricky. Nowadays, men often juggle a bunch of connections at once, making figuring out what they’re feeling a true mystery. So, if you’re constantly going through your chats wondering, “Is he serious about me?”, we have just the quiz for you.

The “Is He Playing Me Quiz,” crafted by a relationship counselor, will help you differentiate the toads from Prince Charming. She’s here to guide you through this crazy dating world where it’s sometimes hard to tell if someone’s really into you or just playing the field.

One of the easiest giveaways that suggest he is a player is if he never wants you to meet his friends. He might be afraid they’ll let something slip about how you aren’t the only one. This is an obvious relationship red flag that is easy to spot.

If you are unsure about your partner and whether or not you have a real connection, an easy sign is to see how they make you feel. Ask yourself if he makes you feel like you’re important to him and that he values you.

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So what are you waiting for? The answer to whether he is a player or a keeper is 12 short questions away!

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1. His words don’t match his actions
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
2. He’s hesitant in introducing you to his friends and family
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
3. He hesitates in posting you on social media when he is otherwise okay with posting
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
4. He gives you a lot of attention one day, then ghosts you the next day
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
5. You can’t predict how affectionate or distant he is going to be
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
6. He doesn’t seem interested in taking the relationship further or more serious
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
7. You feel as though you give more than you receive in your relationship
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
8. He is dismissive of you when you raise an issue or concern with him
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
9. He is not interested in communicating through your problems
   1. Often
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely
10. He takes initiative to make plans with you
    1. Often
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely
11. He is comfortable with sharing details about his social life with you\
    1. Often
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely
12. You feel like you are being used or lied to
    1. Often
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely

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