Is My Husband A Narcissist Quiz

Your husband is supposed to be your biggest supporter and the one that you can count on to have your best interest at heart. However, if you’re married to a narcissist, you might experience the exact opposite. Are you made to feel like somehow everything that goes wrong is your fault? Does your husband always seem to get his way? If the answer to either of these questions is a yes, this quiz is for you.

Crafted by Dhriti Bhavsar, seasoned psychologist with a master’s degree in psychology and specialization in counseling, this quiz can help you understand if you are in a relationship with a narcissist. Narcissism is a personality disorder, not simply a negative trait or two. This quiz has been expertly designed to help you understand whether your partner is a narcissist or just selfish, as they are two very different things.

It’s essential to note that Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a complex mental health condition, and this quiz is not a substitute for professional diagnosis. Instead, think of this quiz as a tool to help you understand the issues with your relationship better. If the results prompt concerns, seek the guidance of a mental health professional for a comprehensive evaluation. Living with a narcissist can deeply harm your emotional wellbeing and so it is important that you don’t go through it alone.

Take the ‘Is my husband a narcissist quiz’ and answer the questions honestly. Identifying the problem is the first step to solving it!

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Q1. He never accepts his mistakes and tries to make you feel guilty for your reaction instead

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q2. He denies your experience of the event and makes you doubt your own memory/feelings (Gaslighting)

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q3. He always plays the victim in any given situation and makes either you or other people the offender

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q4. If you criticise him for anything, he starts attacking you in response

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q5. He is okay with hurting others in order to get what he wants and does not feel guilty about using others

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q6. He acts as though he is better than everyone but has a very fragile ego/self-esteem

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q7. He is obsessed with his image in society and never accepts his mistakes in front of anyone

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q8. You are nervous about bringing up certain topics around him and feel like you constantly have to walk on eggshells around him

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q9. He tends to dominate situations/conversations and always wants things to go his way.

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q10. He speaks to you in a demeaning and disrespectful manner and always puts you down. 

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q11. He can be very charming when he wants to be, especially in front of other people. 

1. Often
2. Rarely
3. Not at all

Q12. He makes many promises but his actions rarely match his words. 

4. Often
5. Rarely
6. Not at all

Q13. He is overly competitive and jealous of you and others

7. Often
8. Rarely
9. Not at all

Q14. Despite the flaws in your relationship, he will panic if you suggest separation. 

10. Often
11. Rarely
12. Not at all