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Dating experience

8 Rules Of Texting While Dating

Sanjukta Das February 16, 2021
Sanjukta Das February 16, 2021
8 rules of texting while dating

Table of Contents

  • 8 Golden Rules Of Dating Texting
    • 1. Plz do nt type lyk dis
    • 2. No overloading of texts, please..
    • 3. Alcohol + texting=No good
    • 4. No calls without prior notice
    • 5. Response to the text
    • 6. Chemistry is everything
    • 7. No texting serious stuff
    • 8. Is sexting okay?

Did you know it was Swingers who created the law of waiting three days before texting your date? Though it potentially separates the cool ones from the clingy ones, this is one of the rules of dating texting that is outdated in the current dating scenario. Considering how well connected we are now, thanks to technology, this thumb rule of texting while dating is sort of backdated. I mean we all know how many hours we spend looking at our smartphones.

Yes, you read that right. There are rules of dating texting that can actually make or break your relationship. Texting etiquettes are ever-evolving. Texting is the pre-game shenanigan.

Monosyllabic replies don’t always mean disinterest. In the same time, little to no time replies does not necessarily mean they are super interested in you. Dating texting is an upgrading game you need to keep up. If you have been out of the game for a while, chances are you missed out on a few upgradations.


But not to worry. We have got you covered. We have researched far and wide to get you the 8 priceless rules of dating texting, so you know what are the right keys to press.

8 Golden Rules Of Dating Texting

Here are a few rules for texting-while-dating. These rules of dating texting will get you in the game and keep you there.

1. Plz do nt type lyk dis

The Holy Bible of texting rules and a major turnoff.

Considering how fast you are on the keyboard, you can spend a few extra minutes to type out the complete words, instd of lyk dis. Unless you are attempting to crudely execute the Thesaurus and your date’s interest in you, avoid typing abbreviations – spend a few extra minutes to spell out the entire word.

Check for your autocorrected words. Don’t let excited become irritated.

Check if they are meme-friendly. If they do respond with the same enthusiasm with the millennial culture, start incorporating them slowly into your texts to keep things cool. Do not make texting an excuse to misspell words.

Related reading: When should a man text after his first date?

2. No overloading of texts, please..

Picture this:

Hey!
?
What’s up?
Busy?
Where you gone?

No one wants to open their phone to find multiple text messages from the same person. It is suggestive of a clingy character and your date will slowly retreat to ghosting you if you flood their inbox with unread messages.

So, what does no response to a text mean? It could just mean that they have been busy! Certainly, no reason for you to spam them with texts and come across as clingy!

Word of advice: When they don’t text back, wait. Chill. Grab a beer. Slow down, Flo Jo!

“Under no circumstances are you supposed to overload them with your concerned messages” – another rule of texting while dating. You are their date, not their mother. (Or something worse, an insecure partner!)

3. Alcohol + texting=No good

Man texting with glass of beer

Man using mobile phone with glass of beer

So when to text and when not to? In the initial stages of dating, you might feel like talking to your date all the time. Keep in mind, your date still does not know the neurotic, clingy person you really are yet.

So, if you have alcohol in your system, texting long paragraphs with typos is not a sexy thing. Apart from the fact that you might spill some crazy details that might turn them off completely, it also shows how well you can handle alcohol.

Big rule: Do not drunk text.

Likewise, there are no more rules about the man making the first move after a date. 21st century does not dictate women to stay-at-home or only respond when talked to. Text first if you want to talk. But also take care not to initiate the conversation every time. Let your date do it sometimes.

But know when to text a girl. Stick to texting at daytime, rather than after 11 pm, unless you are looking for a booty call.

There is no necessity to text every day. Elite Daily points out, “Talking constantly builds co-dependency” and it’s true. You keep looking for notifications because you are so indulged in gratifying yourself when they text. Not dishing out every aspect of your day means you will have things to talk about on your dates.

Related reading: Thodi si jo pee-li hai: 10 people share what they drunk texted

4. No calls without prior notice

Just because someone is texting you at the moment, does not mean they are free to take calls. There is also no need to respond to a text by calling them. Introverts will dodge calls like deadlines. Even if there is need to clarify something (like explaining which route to take to reach a club), ask them if it’s okay to call them before speed-dialling them.

This is just basic texting etiquette for texting while dating.

5. Response to the text

Text response time etiquette is to be acquired over time. So, how often should you text while dating?

The golden rule to this is: If it takes your date one day to respond to your message, do not respond to it immediately. It just shows you have been sitting by the phone for a day for them to reply, and you don’t want to give them that power over you yet.

Likewise, you should also not take hours to respond to a text unless you are swamped throughout the day. Please don’t let texting anxiety get the better of you.

Also, not all texts need a response. Something like: “I am on my way to the theatre. Meet you there” does not need a response. An emoji might be okay. Might.

Watch this video: These goodnight texts will make his night sweeter instantly!

6. Chemistry is everything

There is a thing called texting chemistry, one where you can feel the chemistry between two people while texting. If you are jumping back and forth between “Good night” and” Good night” that can get too boring too fast. If you lack in chemistry, there are ways to build it up. “I normally text a lot of people on Tinder and get a hang on before proceeding to talk to the person I really want,” says Annie.

If the conversation seems to get stagnant when you’re texting while dating, you can share a bit of your personal stuff and see how they react. Don’t shy away from humourous questions. If they want to click with you, they might share an embarrassing public incident from when they were 10. And that’s a win!

7. No texting serious stuff

This is literally one of the golden rules of texting and dating.

Texting is the pre-game. More of a savvy flirting before being on dates with each other. Serious, personal stuff should not be exchanged on texts. Get the information you need on the actual date. So don’t ever text: “Are you monogamous? Did you see any close person die?”

Also, put the brakes on the sarcasm or other literary devices you want to incorporate in your two worded-texts. They might not like it and will genuinely think of you as a sarcastic person.

Or worse, think you are not funny or smart (sarcasm is the lowest kind of wit). Basically, keep the texts as simple as you can to convey emotions plainly. Measure the water you are dipping your feet in before being the freest self when you’re texting while dating.

8. Is sexting okay?

sexting

Man texting

Before you delve into the sexy world, make sure your date is comfortable with it. If a semi-nude photo is replied with an emoji, dial down on the sexting. Also, another one of our rules of texting when dating is: Don’t send a semi-nude/nude photo without consent at all. Some people take their time to send out nudes or get comfortable with sexting.

But semi nudes are not the only way to set the ground for sexting. You can also blame autocorrect if you are in a dilemma.

This is shaky ground so you must tread carefully. As we all know, it’s better to be safe than sorry. You never know what could be a deal-breaker for someone.

These rules for texting while dating might sound like a lot but trust us, once you get the hang of them, it’s all easy breezy. Remember to still always be yourself while texting. After all, the goal is to put your best texting thumb forward, not someone else’s altogether!

Don’t let questions like “How often should a guy text you? or How often should you text while dating?”, plague you constantly. The beauty of texting while dating lies in the fact that it’s supposed to be easy-going and less effort than old school dating. So, remember that!

Have a few golden rules of texting to add? What do you feel the topmost rule of texting is? Let us know in the comments below.

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