Let’s face it when we see a man we do take a second look at him if we like his physical features. And after the second look, there is a level of attraction if certain things about his physical appearance and behaviour feel really appealing to a woman.
A study has shown that women are more attracted to rich men. As tennis star Roger Federer once said, “Success makes a man good looking,” there is no doubt riches embellish a person’s looks and personality but there are a few things that women instantly notice about men. They say for a man if it’s a good-looking woman around he is instantly enthralled and attracted by her charm. But for a woman, it’s more than just one thing that appeals instantly.
10 Things That Attract A Woman To A Man Instantly
Women could be more perceptive than men. That’s why they just don’t look at the dimples or the brown hair. They could look at a whole lot of things at one go without the man even realizing that.
1. Facial feature
This is the first thing a woman notices about a man. The perfect jawline and sharp features and the skin tone. A neat haircut, that perfectly trimmed beard, a clean-shaven look or a well-groomed bushy moustache have the ability to add that additional oomph to any man.
A man does not have to be drop-dead gorgeous like a ramp model to get the attention of a woman but his facial features and how he has accentuated those or groomed himself do matter.
Inevitable put off: A long hair sticking out of the eyebrow or a few from the nose. Ugh! You could have the perfect features but if you haven’t taken care of this then you are not getting the second look for sure.
2. Dressing sense
The way a man wears his clothes speaks volumes about a person and can make a huge difference in his personality. After all the saying ‘Clothes make the man’ is not just like that. Women do notice if you take care to dress up. Throwing a formal shirt on a trouser is okay but then that well-cut trouser and the perfectly complementing tie go a long way in deciding what she really thinks of you.
Inevitable put off: Too tight clothes. Yes, many men make the mistake of thinking that muscle show under tight clothes could make him drool-worthy. Wrong perception. It could be an instant put off.
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Who can resist the appeal of deep-set eyes that mesmerizes one by that sparkle in it? How a man looks with his eyes goes a long way to show a woman what he is really inside. It’s said that the eyes are the gateway into a human being’s personality. It’s not only about the colour of your pupils – it could be an attractive brown or even a deep grey – that makes a woman skip a heartbeat. It’s also about the way you look with those eyes.
Inevitable put off: I am sure you have heard a woman saying, “He’s got bad eyes.” By that, she means the eyes that keep moving from her face to her chest or keep roving around. A woman will not give a man a second look if his eyes are doing this.
The complete frame of a man distinctly makes him stand out in the crowd. A tall well-built man with a perfect physique and the right posture is a treat to a woman’s eyes. Some men appear taller or more imposing by the dint of correct posture. This really matters in the way a woman perceives you.
Inevitable put off: A hunch. It does look horrible or a swagger which you got from your Western movies watching days and couldn’t get rid of.
Oh! boy, this is an irresistible charm that can give serious infatuation to any woman. If one has that sweet, next-door look with a chocolaty kind of beguiling smile a woman will definitely go “Aww”. You may not have that killer look but sometimes a smile goes a long way in deciding how appealing you are to a woman. Keep that in mind.
Inevitable put off: Yellow teeth below that smile. Nicotine stained teeth. Or that smirkish smile that’s more creepy than cute.
Smelling right is important for both men and women. Although some Paris perfumeries have popular brands with heightened sweat smell, it’s definitely not something that appeals to most women. They do find a man’s strong perfume rather intoxicating.
Inevitable put off: Yes we know being sweaty is perceived as macho by many men but guys don’t get the wrong idea that women like to sniff your smelly armpits. It’s the worst put off for a woman and the worst myth a man could be living with.
As it’s said that how you talk to the waiter at the restaurant is a dead giveaway of what kind of manners you have. You could have the looks and riches but if you don’t have the right manners all the impressions you have managed till point 6 will go down the drain. Women do look at your manners very carefully. Mind it! Really carefully.
Inevitable put off: Going to a fancy restaurant and you walk ahead and don’t hold the door for her. This is an absolute put off. You talk with your mouth full. Eeks!
8. Conversing skill
When a man has the ability to present himself verbally, showing his great linguistic skill, it instantly adds that extra appeal that thoroughly catches her attention. But while conversing, the right men show the right amount of interest in the woman they have just met. Women just love this.
Inevitable put off: Talking too much about yourself. Yes we know we live in an age of self-advertising but stop being blatant about it.
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9. Sense of humour
Women really like men who can make them laugh and they can laugh at themselves as well. The ability to laugh at oneself is a great quality that men, who are really secure about themselves, only have. Women do notice that about them and like it immensely too. Having a sense of humour is a must.
Inevitable put off: Making a woman laugh does not mean cracking crass jokes. Please don’t get it wrong.
This could be listed last but this should not be taken lightly. What kind of shoes a man wears and how well maintained it is, is something a woman notices. Shoes do tell a lot about a man’s personality apart from the clothes and eyes.
Inevitable put off: Shoes that have not had the touch of polish for ages, mud-stained soles and ill-kept sneakers.
So now you know from a woman’s point of view how a man is perceived. Are you doing the right things to get the attention of women?