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Why didn’t he tell me about his fiancee before we had sex?

My colleague at work keeps blowing hot and cold in our relationship. We had sex and then he told me he was engaged.
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Dear Jaseena,

I am married and have two children. But I am in love with my colleague. He said he loves me a lot, but then after a few months he started ignoring me. He says that I don’t love him. His phone is always busy. Even if he is online on WhatsApp he doesn’t message me. When that happens I go into depression. I’ve ignored my sons… My best friend suggested to me to forget all.

Two-three months later he came to my house and said that he is sorry and that he is in love with me. We started chats and calls again. But his phone is sometimes busy. When I asked, he said yes, I am always busy. But he comes to my house regularly. One day we crossed all limits and had sex. After that, we didn’t have regular sex. After 2 months he started ignoring me again. He told me a lie too. He is busy on emo chat. When I asked him he said that he was engaged. He showed me a picture of his fiancee. I cried and asked him why he didn’t tell me about it before we had sex! He said nothing. He said again he loves me a lot. But I know that’s a lie. Now he is married. If his mood is good then he talks to me. Sometimes just once a week, sometimes just once a month… I am depressed. What should I do?

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Jaseena Backer says:

Hello,

It is not indicative, if you are still in the marriage or not. You only mentioned two children.

He does not love you: There is no love from the man’s side. He is only taking advantage of the situation. You have given him the impression

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2 Comments

  1. This is such a bad situation. You need to really forget about him and focus on yourself and your children. They need your time and attention, not some stupid man who is playing mind games with you

  2. This a practical and realistic advice. That man, like many other, wants nothing apart from sex, from her. Looting a woman of her emotions and feelings, just for one element called sex, is insane. Woman should be more cautious of such men, and try not to fall into such rat-holes.

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