A bedroom is a place of love, romance, and intimacy. But are you getting the most out of it? With a few tips from the ancient art of feng shui, you can attract a new relationship or heal your present relationship.
1. Clear the clutter
Do you have unwanted and unused things stocked in your bedroom? It’s time to clear the clutter. In feng shui, clutter represents stagnation, blockage and negative energy. So if you have old clothes, shoes, furniture or anything that is not is being used, it is time to remove them. The energy from the clutter would not let you focus on love. Free your bedroom from clutter. Transform your bedroom into a place of nurturing sensuality and healing beauty. Let the energy bring in love.
2. It’s all about pairs
Feng shui is all about balancing the masculine and feminine energies, yin and yang. So set the scene by placing pairs, which remind you of love, affection. You can place two flower vases having equal size flowers, a picture of two lovers, lovebirds, two elephants making a heart with their trunk. You can also have two chairs facing the sunset, or a picture of you with your lover. Remember to make it romantic!
3. Make some room
If you are single then you must make space for your partner. If you do not have enough space in your bedroom, that indicates lack of space in your life too. Start by giving space in your wardrobe. Hanging a few extra empty hangers will help, for a start. Most importantly, make sure you have a bed big enough to accommodate two people. Place an extra pillow and a bedside lamp for your partner. Clear out some space in your bathroom, kitchen, and fridge and make room for your partner to fill in. The whole room should say that ‘a made for each other’ pair lives here.
4. The scent of love
Aroma scents are a very powerful medium to channel the flow of chi, energy. Certain positive fragrances directly uplift your mood and emotions and bring out the best in you. You need to set the scene for love to attract love. Choose floral fragrances such as rose, jasmine, and lavender for a romantic feel. You can burn aroma oils in aroma burners, oil anointed candles, or any form of infusion. You can also place the flower in a pot where it can spread its fragrance in the air.
5. Let’s pop some colours
Colours play a significant role in vibrating energy too. So paint your walls, change your bed sheets, curtains, pillow covers, new furniture, artwork, tablecloth, lamp shade and much more. Just make sure you have enough dominion of the right colours that vibrate love and give your room a nice romantic glow. My feng shui pick would be skin tone shades, colours ranging from pink to chocolate. They are the most sensual colours that add romance and intimacy and spark sensuality. Adding red also is a great choice, as it represents the element of fire, which will ignite your love life and sensuality.
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