5 Bollywood movies which show that a breakup isn’t such a big deal

Unmesh Uttaraa Nandkumar
kangana smile in queen

Spoiler Alert. The discussion below is full of spoilers about the plots of the films.

Breakups are common

The breakup is made into a major dramatic tearjerker moment in most films, when they happen all the time in all places. Here are a few films that have tried to look at the breakup differently.

Dear Zindagi

‘Let’s break up oh meri jaan! Let’s break up, oh maan ja! Teri meri kabhi nahi ban’ni
O jaane de na!’ as the music plays along, we see Alia Bhatt rock out on the dance floor, moving her head around dancing like there’s no care in the world, after having just told a lover that they weren’t going to work out. Yes, we see that she’s angry with him, but the breakup doesn’t define her for the rest of the film. Dear Zindagi (Gauri Shinde) was refreshing and different in many ways, its depiction of breakups being one of them. In the film, Alia’s character dates three men, who are all distinct, all interested in her, but all of whom she doesn’t feel content with. While her character addresses the breakups, she doesn’t think about them for the entire story. The story is about her, a modern, working, woke Indian girl who is figuring out life while dealing with her past. The breakups are just one part of the puzzle of her life, and they don’t become the catalysts in her story arch. They are just part of life.

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In Queen, Kangana Ranaut walked into everyone’s hearts while playing Rani, the girl whose misogynist boyfriend dumps her before their wedding. The film does make the breakup a catalyst, but that’s all it is. The story transcends and starts looking similar to a mixture of a road movie, a coming-of-age film and a travel film. The fact that Rani got dumped, and yet persisted and went on her own honeymoon alone, makes her persistence and journey the hero. Aided by a flawless performance by Kangana, Queen turns the ‘jilted lover’ narrative on its head. There’s no revenge here; the success and freedom of the lover after moving on is the revenge.

Kangana in queen

Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

Karan Johar is known for over the top dramas that usually have a huge ensemble cast. His latest film as a director, however, had a refreshing feel to it. In Ae Dil Hai Mushkil, the two central characters keep circling each other when it comes to love, but never really make it. That isn’t the breakup that’s important though. There are a few breakups here and there in the film which Ranbir Kapoor and Anushka Sharma’s characters go through; however, the one which is a little hatke is the one between Aishwarya Rai and Ranbir’s characters. There’s real honesty and love in that scene. There’s a sense of maturity that both the characters have. There’s also the scene with Aishwarya’s character’s ex-husband, played by Shah Rukh Khan who makes a cameo and gives out the motto of sorts of the film when talking about still loving his ex-wife, that ‘Ek tarfa pyaar par sirf mera haq hai’ ‘Only I have a right to my one-sided love!’ This dialogue not only captures the whole film’s philosophy, it presents a different way of looking at breakups.

anushka and ranbir in ae dil hai mushkilTamasha

Tamasha is the story of a man who’s broken by the factory settings of modern life. He’s tired of the monotony of the traditional job and it’s about his conflict through that. Ranbir Kapoor plays Ved who meets Tara played by Deepika Padukone, on a holiday. They hit it off and meet up again back in Delhi. They fall in love and their relationship seems to be going at a glacial pace. The boredom gets to Tara and she decides to call it off. Ved is upset, but the breakup isn’t the biggest hurdle his character faces by a stretch. The way the breakup is placed in the entire narrative for both people makes it look like a part and parcel of the new normal of being a youth in urban India. While there could have been countless melodramas made just about the love story, the film chooses to treat the breakup as just one part of the slice of life it’s trying to portray.


Cocktail starring Deepika Padukone, Saif Ali Khan, and Diana Penty is the story of the third wheel. It shows you the story of what happens when the love triangle as it’s called, actually lives together.

As the story moves along, we find how some relationships seem appropriate at some times and yet others feel evergreen. Having seen the other two fall in love, you understand it when Deepika’s character breaks up with Saif’s character in the end. Freeing him up for the happily ever after. You don’t feel sad for them, you actually get every character’s point of view.

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