Are you failing to impress the members of the opposite sex because you lack the gift of the gab? If yes, then do not worry. Words are not the only way by which you can mesmerise someone you like. By learning the art of eye seduction, you can make anyone fall in love with you. Flirting with your eyes is the ages-old technique that holds the trick to melt and woo anyone you desire. Read on!
What are flirty eyes?
Eye flirting body language or eye seduction takes place when you try to flirt with someone using your eyes. You try to catch the attention of another person through your eyes and let the person know that you are romantically interested in them. Using flirty eyes to communicate your feelings to the person you like without actually talking to them is a skill! It’s exciting, safe and there’s no pressure involved. Since you aren’t actually putting your feelings into words, it’s uncomplicated. And if the other person understands that eye seduction is at play, they will reciprocate. Here are some interesting eye contact techniques that will help you if you’re trying to use the art of eye seduction.
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11 subtle ways to flirt with your eyes
Flirty eyes can be your best weapon while trying to catch someone’s attention. Therefore, we must ensure you use these eye seduction techniques to your ultimate advantage. We will teach you 11 different methods that are foolproof!
1. At first, keep your stare as casual as possible
This is very important because you do not want to make the other person uncomfortable. So make sure that you stare at the person who interests you casually, every now and then. If you steal glances and keep checking them out with your eyes in a relaxed manner, then they are bound to notice your presence. Make sure you’re not giving off stalker vibes!
2. Make eye contact with the person for a brief while
Once the person starts noticing you, wait for an opportune moment to make eye contact with him/her. The moment you feel them looking back at you, you can purposely make your eyes meet, at least for a brief while. Remember not to stare at the person for too long. The timing should be just long enough to send the message across to that person that you are interested in him/her.
3. Scan the room and come back to them
After you have ensured that the person is aware of you staring at them. Slide your eyes across the entire room while they are still looking at you and then settle your eyes back on them. This will be your way of letting that person know that they were the only one who was able to catch your attention in the whole room. Use the eye flirting body language to get your message across.
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4. Do not forget to blush or smile while staring at the person
Flirty eyes plus a sly smile is a deadly combination enough to capture anyone’s heart. When you both lock eyes, make sure you give the other person a genuine, flirty smile to make your attraction evident. Appear busy but lock eyes with the person; look away blushing or smiling. If they are interested, they will smile back. This is how you will know that the eye seduction is working.
5. Blink an appropriate amount
You certainly do not want to seem like a creep who doesn’t blink. So make sure you blink an appropriate amount. The more you blink at them, the higher your chances of catching their attention (but don’t over-blink!). If the person also tries to match the pace of your blinking, then rest assured that they are equally attracted to you. However, a slower blinking pace should not be mistaken as a sign of disinterest from the other person.
6. The triangle technique
When both of you seem to be on the same page, you can try to use the triangle technique of eye seduction. Move your eyes from the person’s left eye to the mouth, then to the right eye and at last, back to the left eye to make a triangle. In this way, your attraction towards the person is bound to become apparent. The focus on the lips shows that you’re really attracted to the other person. This is a foolproof way of flirting with your eyes.
7. Stare at the person for a longer duration
You can elongate the duration of your gaze when you are sure that the person is also reciprocating your feelings. By holding the person’s gaze for a long time, you will be able to break the ice between the two of you. However, avoid strangely long gazes, as it can be creepy to the other person.
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8. Act as if you are not the one staring at him/her
Flirting with your eyes might also get uncomfortable for the other person especially if they are with friends or family. if this is the case, then simply reversing the eye contact can help. After letting the person know of your interest in him/her, you can act as if you are not staring at them any more. But keep subtly noticing the person from the corner of your eyes. Do this so that when they attempt to look at you, you can catch their gaze. Make them think that they are the one initiating the eye flirting.
9. Winking; The ideal eye flirting tool
In order to spice things up and make the whole flirting experience a memorable one, you can wink at the person. Do this in a cute yet sexy manner. Couple it with a bright smile and the person will find you irresistible. But make sure you only do this if you know how to wink with ease. A forced wink will be an awkward dealbreaker.
10. Check them out
Only and only if you think the other person is equally interested, check them out. So, start by gazing at their eyes, then move on to their mouth and other parts of the body. Scanning their body with your eyes can be extremely sensual and can set the ball rolling for good times ahead. But it can also be creepy if you do not have their consent.
11. Observe and respond carefully with the help of your eyes
Perhaps you took the initiative to flirt with the other person because you found them to be the right person for you. But that may not be the case for that person. They might not be interested in you. Instead of living under an illusion, you must first observe the way the person responds to your eye flirting technique. If you get a positive response, then you can rejoice for sure. But if the person does not reciprocate and avoids looking into your eyes, then you need to move on and accept defeat. It is essential that you do not make the other person uncomfortable with your eye seduction. It’s best to retract and let them resume their activities and respect their boundaries.
Eye contact in love and relationships is very essential because it is a sign of strong chemistry. Therefore, ensure that you make proper eye contact with the person you like and appear as a confident person to them. Flirting with your eyes should not appear creepy, and should be subtle enough to kick off a fun and exciting relationship with the person you adore.