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6 Signs You Are in a One-Sided Relationship

Are you in a one-sided relationship and you don't even realise that. Check out the signs
In One sided relationships you always end up hurting yourself only

Falling in love is a lovely experience, but not when it is a one-sided relationship it can only bring sadness.

One-sided love at the beginning has hope, excitement and a longing to see the other person respond to your feelings. As time passes by, this hope turns into anxiety and finally a heart-break as the hope turns into hopelessness.

How to overcome a one-sided relationship failure?

Before you actually hit the rock bottom in this doomed relationship that is consuming you, it is a good idea to introspect and look for signs that suggest that this is clearly one-sided love and more than anything else you should be thinking of how to get over this unrequited love.

Here are 6 signs of a one-sided relationship that you should pay heed to

1. No reciprocation to your signals

In any healthy relationship, your feelings are supposed to be reciprocated by actions and signals. When you find yourself falling in love with someone, you are bound to give them signals that hints them about your feelings. Such signals may include, letting them close to you, excessively caring for them, etc.

Men tend to open up physically and showcase their grandeur. And, women highlight their features by playing with their hair or looking at them affectionately.

When the fire of love is lit on both sides, in most cases, the other party picks up these signals and responds to them positively. However, when it is only you having feelings, irrespective of how many signals you give them, you will not see any reciprocation. In such a case, it is best to talk your heart and mind out of the relationship as quickly as possible before you get too involved. Our relationship advice for one-sided love is just to move on.

2. You’ll do anything for them even if you don’t want to

In a one-sided relationship rarely do you experience true happiness
A one-sided relationship is painful  Image source

Only because you are in a one-sided relationship, you’ll often find yourself doing things that please them at the cost of your discomfort. While it is absolutely fine to do this when the love is returned, it becomes harmful to your inner soul to do so when you don’t see the same effort from the other side. Picking them up from their office after a long day at work, meeting them at their convenient timing and place, doing their household chores, grocery shopping for them and offering your empathy when they need it, are just some of the things that are done when your love is one-sided. You need to ask yourself the question if it is worth doing these things and later getting hurt when you figure out that they do not have the same feelings for you. Don’t be their butler and cause your emotions anymore harm.

3. You are the one who sends WhatsApp first

When it is only you who initiates any contact through SMS, phone calls or WhatsApp, it is obvious that the other party is not as inclined as you are to engage in a conversation with you. While you yearn to talk to them or be in their company, you’ll rarely see the equal level of longing from them. Should you notice this as a pattern in any dialogue you have with him/her, it is a sign that you are in a one-sided relationship.

In many cases it is almost like an OCD to send him/her a WhatsApp and keep looking at your phone even in the middle of the night to check if they have responded.

4. You are always anxious and stressed

Due to the above mentioned sign in point 3, you’ll always be anxious and stressed. Not only that, but because you want to please them at any cost, you’ll have a self doubt which will only add to your stress levels. You want to be perfect and ensure that you don’t say or do anything that will end the relationship which only you have in your mind. The other party is least bothered. You do not see any such symptom of anxiety or stress in their behaviour with you. It is only smart to realize this sooner than later and save yourself from health issues such as insomnia, depression and physical fatigue later on.

5. Only you are talking about the future

A One sided relationship makes you to do things which you even can’t do for yourself
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While you are making plans for the future with them, you’ll see them laugh, ignore or even worse mock about your future plans together. In any conversation you have with him/her, it is only you who talks about the doing things together in the future. Discussions on having to make financial plans to planning your next birthday together, all appear to them just like any other passing piece of information. They rarely talk to you about their life.

6. You’ve been indefinitely waiting for him/her to factor you in

After all the efforts that you have put into this relationship, your wait to hear and see the equal or more amount of love from them seems endless. It is a sign that you have reached the stage of hopelessness in this love affair. He/she does not factor you in any of the decisions they make. You are beginning to think that it is indefinitely going to last like this is yet another sign of being in a one-sided love relationship.

When you fall in love, everything becomes magnificent. You feel an inner joy. But when you are in a one-sided relationship you begin to realize that you have not felt happy in quite some time. In such cases it is advised to look for some of these signals. Step out of the relationship before you start feeling depressed and exploited. This is our relationship advice so that you do not suffer for your unrequited love failure.

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