Foreplay for men, is often written off as a quick session before indulging in the main course of intercourse. For women, foreplay is the dessert. It is not only a prerequisite for a woman but a necessary step to proceed before the final act. Considering men can get turned on with the snap of a finger, women need a much longer time to feel sexually stimulated. Unless you don’t want your women to feel sexually pleasured to their last breath, improvement in kinky foreplay is important. There are ways you can do better foreplay. Just read on.
5 Tips For Better Foreplay That Men Can Use
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Foreplay is all about building up the sexual momentum. Foreplay steps can be followed one by one as you move from one erogenous zone to another to pleasure your girl. Foreplay for men should be important and you should think about the pleasure of the woman. Foreplay is enjoyable for men too you just need to know how to go with the flow.
1. Set the pre-sex mood
No, it doesn’t always necessarily have to be wine and music to set the mood. Light touches here, occasional whispers in a sultry voice, giving her the “let me ravage you” look can work wonders. Sexting always covers that extra mile, making her feel wanted. You could also play some sex games to set the tone right. I am sure we have already hooked you to our tips for better foreplay.
2. Ask her what she wants
Know her sexual kinks, what turns her on. Is it the biting that makes her go crazy, or is light hair-pulling she is into or slow pelvic movement (some women are into it!). You can initiate a bit of dirty talking and see if she is into that. You will be amazed to know the sexual secrets that spill out through this technique. It gets her going really hard! This is the second step to great foreplay. Do you know there are many things women wish their men knew but cannot express easily?
3. Don’t over impose
Don’t go rubbing too hard right at the beginning. No one wants to feel like dough. That is one major turnoff. Some women like it rough but don’t do that from the very beginning. Her body would respond to each touch and if you hear her body you will know what it wants at what point. Go slow in places like the clitoris and see the great results. You will make her go mad with pleasure. Have you thought about watching porn together? The soft erotic ones? It can be good for your relationship.
4. Equal attention to all body parts
Don’t just start off with a kiss and move to the breasts and then hop off to the nether regions. Women have many erogenous zones and it is up to you men to figure out which one/ones make her squirm and moan. Focussing only on one part (for men, it’s mostly the breasts) might make her lose interest. Kiss, bite the neck, and perform ear cunnilingus with massaging her breasts; explore other parts of her body. It not only gets you super excited but makes her last longer for that massive ‘O’. Pick up on her moans, linger for a while, explore other parts, and then come back there again. You will get rewarded for your god-like dedication to those erogenous parts. Our tips for better foreplay will work wonders. Just follow it.
Do you know her erroneous zones? You should!
5. Oral-stimulation
Unlike men, penetration sex might not always lead to a mind-blowing orgasm. Oral is THE most important part of foreplay. Stick your tongue in and the Figure 8 technique can leave her begging for more. Gentle sucking with finger movements can work wonders. These foreplay steps can be followed one after another. Here are five reasons why men love oral sex if you need some inspiration.
Try 69, Tantric positioning, and a number of ways to give memorable oral to your lady. Take time to do foreplay better and see your lady relishing it in bed. Great foreplay is the secret to great sex. By now we are sure you have become an expert in foreplay. Way to go!!
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Well all these! Absolutely!! However, I hope there are a few days the guy gets to chill and the girl does the hard work!
Thanks for sharing!
Best,
Kritagya Daarshanik (Haywire Chronology)