Is He Shy Or Not Interested? 26 Ways To Tell The Difference

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Feel like you’ve got something brewing with a guy, but puzzled by his behavior? You might catch yourself wondering, “Is he shy or not interested?” Distinguishing between nervousness and indifference can be frustrating. On the one hand, he’s quiet and reserved, barely making eye contact. On the other, he often doesn’t talk to you or seems to walk away when he sees you. It’s natural to ask, is he nervous or not interested? The good news is that there are subtle clues that can help you tell the difference.

We’ve put together this detailed guide on how to tell if a guy is nervous or not interested to help you do just that. Backed by insights from relationship experts, let’s figure out how to distinguish hidden feelings from a lack of interest.

How To Tell If A Guy Is Nervous Or Not Interested: 26 Ways

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First, if you find yourself losing your mind trying to figure out, “Is he shy or not interested?”, know that it’s not because of a lack of your perceptiveness. Shyness and nervousness can often look like disinterest. For example, someone who avoids eye contact or avoids conversation could be too nervous to engage. But it could also be a polite signal that he’s not into you. Relationship specialists point out that context is everything. Psychologist Wendy Patrick notes, “Shy people socialize just like everyone else. They just communicate differently.” So, a shy guy may express his interest in more subtle ways than someone who is extroverted. However, there will invariably be some signs a shy guy likes you but is trying not to show it.

On the flip side, an uninterested man will often consistently give off negative signals like ignoring you entirely. Patrick explains, “If he has ample opportunity to talk to you and never acts on it, it’s very likely he doesn’t like you in a romantic sense.” Sounds complicated? Let’s simplify it for you by breaking down the shy-but-interested behaviors and exploring how these differ from a lack of interest. By the end, you will have the answer to the question currently keeping you up at night: Is he nervous or not interested?

Summary of YouTube transcript

This video by Kimberly explains five common situations that help you figure out if a shy person likes you or if they are simply not interested. She breaks down scenarios like passing in the hallway, group conversations, texting, entering a room, and starting a conversation. By comparing how a shy but interested person acts versus someone uninterested, you can better read the signals. Watch till the end to understand the key differences and share in the comments which scenario matched your experience. Don’t forget to subscribe and join the giveaway before it ends.

13 ways a guy acts when he likes you but is shy

When a guy likes you but is shy, his feelings may not always be immediately obvious. Instead of bold actions or direct flirtation, he may exhibit more subtle signs a shy guy likes you but is trying not to show it. These behaviors often reflect his nervousness and desire to connect without fully stepping out of his comfort zone. From stealing quick glances to blushing or fidgeting when you’re around, these signs can sometimes be hard to interpret. However, if you know what to look for, you’ll start to recognize the quiet yet meaningful ways he shows his interest. Let’s explore 13 ways a shy guy might act when he has feelings for you, even if he struggles to express them openly.

1. He avoids direct eye contact but sneaks glances

When a guy likes you but is too shy to act on it, he may struggle to meet your eyes directly or maintain prolonged eye contact. Instead,

He’ll steal quick looks when he thinks you’re not watching
You might catch him staring for a moment and then immediately looking away, as if he’s embarrassed
This quiet playing-it-cool tactic is a classic shy move

signs a shy guy likes you — He can’t help look at you, even if sneakily

He won’t hold your gaze boldly, but the fact that he keeps glancing back is a strong sign he’s interested. Yes, even introverted men try to make an extra effort with eye contact when someone is important to them. So if you notice those stolen glances, especially if he quickly looks away, laughing or blushing, chalk it up as a shy signal, not necessarily rejection.

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2. He gives you his full attention and remembers details

Oddly, a shy guy can show how much he likes you by being unusually attentive when you talk. He’ll lean in, nod, and really listen, more than he does with other people. In psychological terms, this is called “focused attention.” Patrick explains, “Shy people often show their interest by giving you their full attention. It’s a clear sign that someone values your company and is genuinely interested in what you have to say.”

So, when a guy is quiet around you but listens to what you have to say and then remembers the little things you mentioned last week, like your favorite movie or a recipe you love, it’s his way of showing he cares. For example, maybe you told him offhand that you love pizza, and the next time he sees you, he casually orders one for you. A small gesture that conveys a lot. His undivided attention and focus are proof of his affection.

3. He blushes, fidgets, or acts awkward around you

Nervous energy is a big sign of a shy crush. When he’s near you,

He may literally blush or start fidgeting with something in his hands—a pen, a phone, maybe even his shirt cuff
His movements might get clumsy, and you may notice he’s tripping over words or dropping something because he’s so keyed up
He may get completely tongue-tied, leaving you wondering what it means when a guy is shy around you but not others

Well, notice if his face goes a bit pink or if he starts chuckling nervously at his own jokes. Patrick explains, “A shy guy will be nervous around you, blush when you talk to him, and try to stay near you.” If he’s stuttering or smiling awkwardly, it’s not disinterest. It’s his way of masking how much he’s excited by you. Side note: It’s okay, even a good sign, if he messes up a sentence or spills something near you, he’s just really aware of you, and his nervousness is stemming from his underlying feelings for you.

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4. He smiles a lot around you

Even if he can’t speak up, his smile will give him away. Shy guys often grin whenever they see you, sometimes shyly looking away afterwards. It’s a gentle signal that they’re genuinely happy you’re there. Patrick notes, “If he always smiles as soon as he sees you, consider it among the confirmed signs a shy guy likes you.”

If you’re tired of asking yourself, “Is he shy or not interested?”, pay attention to how he reacts to your presence. If you walk into a room and spot him, watch for a subtle lift in his eyes or a quick grin before he hides it. He might even smile when you greet him. This warm, genuine smile is a giveaway. It’s as if he’s too shy to approach, so he lets his face do the talking. That shy smile is an easy-to-miss cue, but once you see it a couple of times, it’s hard to ignore.

5. He tries to stay near you in groups

Even if he’s quiet, he’ll physically try to be close. Perhaps he shows up at the same parties or study spots as you, always hovering nearby. The key is, he doesn’t want to be far away from your world. You might notice he chooses a seat next to yours, or happens to join the same group project, or finds a reason to pop into your favorite hangout.

shy vs uninterested guy behavior — He gravitates toward you

It can feel almost coincidental, but secretly, he’s fishing for opportunities to be around you. Sometimes he even gets protective. For example, if someone else teases you playfully, you might catch them getting a little uncomfortable or ready to defend. He’s not trying to start a fight, he’s just letting you know that he’s looking out for you. In these subtle clues lies the answer to how to tell if a guy is nervous or not interested.

6. He does little favors for you

Shy guys may not shower you with grand romantic gestures, but they will do small, helpful things. These could be errands or favors delivered in a very low-key way:

Bringing you a coffee in the morning
Helping you with an assignment
Picking up something you forgot

The actions are subtle, but the intent is clear. For example, maybe you mention you lost your pen, and the next day he’s carrying an extra one in case you need it. Or he might shield you under his umbrella when it rains. These tiny gestures often say “I like you” more than a bold declaration. He’s showing care in his own quiet way, effectively, saying “I’m here for you”, without having to shout it out.

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7. He seems distant or aloof at times

Shy guys can appear standoffish or distant, but usually for an emotional reason. He might seem uninterested or even a bit cool, and you’re left wondering why. Why do shy guys act uninterested? Psychologist Dr. Aman Bhonsle explains that this behavior often comes from overwhelming feelings, and adds, “It’s not that they’re not interested; it’s just that their feelings may be so strong that they’re not sure how to handle them.”

In fact, shy people with a crush sometimes create emotional distance because they worry about rejection. So if he pulls back suddenly—say, he’s chatty one day and stone-cold quiet the next— don’t jump to the conclusion that his feelings vanished. Here’s what may be going on:

It might be his anxiety flaring up
He might be scared of doing something embarrassing, so he mentally backs off
However, when he’s interested in you, he will invariably make an effort to re-engage. Be it by smiling or nervously chatting
That’s when it becomes clear that he wasn’t being indifferent or acting uninterested. He was just overwhelmed

8. He blushes when you speak to him

When you actually catch his attention directly, notice his face. A shy guy often turns red when you talk to him, as if he can’t believe you’re addressing him. Even if you’re just asking a routine question, he might,

Have a flushed face
Give a shy laugh
Try to distract himself, maybe by playing with his hair or looking at his shoes
His pupils might dilate
His smile can get nervous

These are all classic male body language signs of attraction stemming from the fact that your attention makes him flustered. Body language expert Vanessa Van Edwards describes these as negative microexpressions of happiness, where the face conveys more than words. In this case, his expressions convey that he cares a lot about you.

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9. He talks to your friends about you

Since approaching you directly is hard for him, he often goes through a third party: your friends.

He might ask your friends casual questions like, “Hey, what’s she doing this weekend?”
Or look for group conversations where you’re present
This way, he learns more about you without having to ask you himself

It’s a sneaky but genuine way of expressing interest. For example, he might suddenly know your pet’s name or your favorite band, even though you never mentioned it to him. There is a good chance he got that from someone else. This behavior shows that even if he can’t tell you, others know he’s into you. It’s a shy tactic to get information and signal interest at once.

10. He changes his appearance to impress you

Wondering, “Is he shy or not interested?”, the answer may be hidden in his appearance. Yes, subtle grooming changes can be a sign a shy guy is interested in you. If he suddenly starts dressing a bit nicer, has a new haircut, or tidies up his look more often, he’s likely doing it to impress you without having to say why.

body language of a shy guy who likes you — He wants to make an impression

For example, if you bump into him and notice he has a new cologne or styled hair, that could be for you. These tweaks to his style are quiet ways of saying, “I want you to notice me.” He may not admit it, but he hopes you’ll see the effort. This is especially true if he does it only on days he knows he’ll see you.

11. He smiles whenever you smile

Pay attention to reciprocity. A shy guy will often mirror your happiness. If you give him even a small smile or wave, he’ll likely light up in response. Sometimes just for a moment before looking away. This is his shy way of engaging. He might quietly smile back and then cover it up with a chuckle or a downcast look. This subtle back-and-forth of smiles is a key indicator of affection. It’s as if he’s saying “Yay, I’m glad you said hi” in silent code.

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12. He shares personal feelings slowly

When you do catch him in a one-on-one chat, notice if he reveals any personal tidbits. Shy guys often have a hard time opening up, but if he does let you in on something meaningful, like a worry or a dream, it’s a big deal. For instance, he may confess he’s usually reserved or talk about how talking to you is nerve-wracking. A guy being vulnerable around a woman like that, a shy guy, that too, is a huge sign that he feels safe around you and wants a deeper connection with you.

13. He prefers one-on-one time with you

Shy guys often bloom in intimate settings. He might seem shy in a crowd, but in a quieter setting, he’ll open up a little. If you notice that he’s happy to have a one-on-one conversation, it’s a sign he feels more comfortable there. He may volunteer to grab a coffee or walk together “alone” under the guise of accompanying you to your doorstep to make sure you get home safe. When a guy is quiet around you in a public setting but opens up when it’s just the two of you, it’s a positive sign.

Shy vs. Not Interested: Decoding A Man’s Behavior

Behavior	Shy But Interested	Not Interested
Eye Contact	Avoids direct gaze but sneaks glances	Rarely looks, no effort
Communication	Nervous but remembers details	Short, curt replies
Presence	Stays near you in groups	Avoids or walks away
Body Language	Blushes, fidgets, smiles nervously	Closed posture, arms crossed
Initiative	Small favors, subtle efforts	Never initiates, cancels plans

13 ways a guy acts when he is not interested in you

When a guy is not interested in you, his behavior will often be marked by a lack of effort, attention, or emotional engagement. Unlike shy guys, who may still show signs of nervousness or subtle affection, a disinterested guy will typically act distant or detached. He might avoid conversations, cancel plans frequently, or only interact with you when absolutely necessary. These behaviors are clear indicators that he doesn’t prioritize you or your connection. Let’s explore these patterns further by looking at 13 ways a guy may act when he’s not interested in you, so you can recognize the signs and understand that it’s time to move on.

1. He rarely or never initiates contact

If he’s not interested, he simply won’t reach out to you on his own. You might notice that,

This guy never texts first, but does respond when you initiate a conversation
He won’t randomly send funny memes or check in
Phone calls or DMs will be extremely scarce
Over time, the communication dries up

Limited communication is a clear sign of dwindling interest. He may respond to you, but only after long delays and with very short, curt answers
—Dr. Aman Bhonsle, psychotherapist

If you don’t hear from him for days and it’s always you doing the calling, that’s a major red flag. A guy who’s into you will pick up the phone.

2. He always has an excuse

He might agree to hang out in passing, but then always reschedules or flakes. For instance, he says, “Let’s grab coffee”, but then cancels at the last minute and doesn’t suggest another time. This pattern of making plans and then ghosting on them is a classic move of disinterest.

Dr. Bhonsle states, “If he sets up dates last minute, keeps rescheduling, keeps flaking, he’s not that into you. In healthy dating, a guy who cares will make time. But if his schedule conveniently has something else every time, it’s likely deliberate.” Multiple “rain checks” usually mean he’s not prioritizing you and is trying to avoid commitment.

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3. He flirts with others or talks about other women

Notice if he brings up other women’s names in conversation in front of you. If he casually mentions how a friend is hot, or how he’s going on a date and it’s not with you, take note and stop asking, “Why do shy guys act uninterested?”

This is not a shy guy sending mixed signals in an attempt to keep his feelings under wraps
This is a guy telling you he’s not interested
Instead of directing interest at you, he’s pointing to someone else

All of this strongly suggests you’re out of his romantic picture.

4. His body language is closed off

The signs a shy guy likes you but is trying not to show it that we talked about will be completely absent when a guy is not interested in you. Instead, you will be met with obvious negative body language patterns. Watch how he positions himself when you talk. Some of the telling body language signs of his lack of interest are:

His torso is turned away
His arms are crossed
His eyes often glance at the exit
He might stand with his back half-turned or keep his distance
When you’re speaking, he won’t nod or smile genuinely. Instead, he might look around the room

These actions scream “I’m not invested.” If you feel he’s literally and figuratively turning away from you, his disinterest is likely.

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5. He treats you no differently than others

If a guy is not into you, he will treat you the same way he does other friends or acquaintances. Your presence or absence will have no impact on his mood. His tone, jokes, and body language around you remain unchanged. Dr Bhonsle says, “When a guy is interested in a girl, there’s a slight difference in the way he interacts with her. If that’s lacking, it’s your cue to move on.”

does he like me or is he just being polite — You are just another person he knows

This holds even if he flirts with you or tries to get cozy with you and does the same to every other girl around him, too. If you catch him doing this, it’s a sign there’s no spark for you in particular. If you have been puzzled by his behavior, there is one easy test to put you out of your misery: notice how he talks to other women. If there’s absolutely no special treatment for you, he’s probably just being friendly.

6. He seems indifferent or unmoved by you

Indifference is a big clue. A guy who is not interested in you will act neutral whether you’re around or not. He won’t light up, get jealous, or even seem relieved to see you. If your presence or absence seems to make no difference to his mood, that’s telling. For example, if he’s perfectly calm when you say goodbye and shows zero emotion when you return, he’s likely not invested.

Indifference in a connection is perhaps one of the clearest signs of distance.
—Dr. Aman Bhonsle

Likewise, if you’re hanging out and he plays on his phone or doesn’t focus on you, he’s keeping an emotional distance. When everything about your interactions feels “neutral,” it often means he’s still keeping you at arm’s length in his mind.

7. He only says “hi”, then walks away

This specific behavior can be very confusing. You wave or say hello, and he nods back or mumbles a quick “Hi,” but then immediately turns back or continues what he’s doing. He does nothing more. Many people ask, “What does it mean when a guy says hi to you but never talks to you?” In most cases, it means he’s being polite, but he has no intention of engaging.

He’ll greet you out of courtesy, but then effectively shrug and move on
He won’t ask follow-up questions or make small talk
If he were interested, he’d likely linger or try a conversation starter
This abrupt “hi-and-go” is a subtle way of signaling disinterest
Think of it as polite boundary-setting. He’s not rude, just keeping things minimal

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8. He literally walks away when he sees you

Sometimes his disinterest can manifest in very literal ways, and you may notice that he physically avoids you. For example,

Crossing the street upon seeing you
Ducking behind someone
Turning a different way when you approach
Looking away to avoid eye contact

Now, the signs a guy is not interested in you couldn’t get any clearer. This tendency is often intentional avoidance. If you have been asking, “What does it mean when a guy walks away when he sees you?”, the blunt answer is: he doesn’t want to interact. He’ll do anything to dodge a conversation. This behavior is about self-protection on his side. Rather than being in an awkward situation, he’d rather flee. It’s not a good sign for you. It likely means he has no interest in dealing with you in any situation.

9. He keeps conversations surface-level

A very telling sign is that everything he talks about is superficial.

He avoids sharing anything personal or engaging in deep conversations with you
If he doesn’t ask about your life, never remembers details you’ve shared, and keeps chitchat to a minimum, that’s a clue he’s disengaged
He might answer your questions with one-word replies or quickly change topics when things get too “deep”
He basically treats chatting with you the same as talking to a stranger

That’s not what happens when someone likes you. In that case, he would look for opportunities to talk to you, really talk to you.

10. He flakes out on plans or makes you chase him

does he flakes out on plans — He keeps canceling on you

When he’s not into you, he won’t put in the effort to spend time with you.

You might invite him out, but he constantly claims he’s busy and then never suggests another date
He goes radio silent after plans are canceled
A disinterested man uses busyness or excuses as a shield
He might accept a casual hangout at first, but then become unbelievably “occupied” when it’s time to confirm

If you find yourself doing all the work to organize, and he never steps up, it’s one of the strongest red flags in the talking stage or early stages of a developing connection.

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11. He doesn’t engage with you directly in person

This is kind of related to the “says hi, then leaves,” but broader.

When you’re in the same room or walking together, he stays strangely quiet or distracted
He might talk to everyone else around, but barely say a word to you
He may avoid one-on-one situations altogether
If you try to pull him aside to talk, he finds a way out or shifts away

This kind of behavior is different from shyness. He’s actively refusing to engage with you specifically.

12. He sticks to group chats or social media

Along similar lines, watch his preferred mode of communication.

An uninterested guy might only interact via group messages or social media posts, not privately
He may like your Instagram photo or comment in a group chat, but you’ll notice he never pings you directly
Or if he does message you online, it’s brief and never turns into a real conversation

Basically, he’s keeping it impersonal. If he’s not willing to pick up the phone or have a solo chat, it’s often because he’s not truly interested.

13. He flirts with other girls openly

Perhaps the most obvious sign a guy is not interested in you is that he openly flirts with or seems attracted to other women while you’re there.

He laughs at their jokes
Compliments them
Tries to get their attention
Even worse, he might treat you like just another “friend”

If you see him giving sweet looks or texts to someone else, that should tell you everything. When a guy likes you, he won’t be oblivious to other options. Instead, he’ll make it clear you’re the only one. So if he’s clearly interested in someone else while acting completely neutral toward you, it’s time to move on.

Quick Quiz: Is He Shy Or Not Interested?

If you’ve gone through the signs and still feel unsure, this short quiz might help clear things up. Answer a few simple yes-or-no questions, and you’ll get a better sense of whether his behavior points to shyness or genuine disinterest:

Does he sneak glances when he thinks you’re not looking?
Does he remember small details you shared earlier?
Does he blush or act nervous around you but not others?
Does he hang around the same places as you without approaching?
Does he do little favors like bringing you coffee or sharing notes?
Does he smile back when you smile, even if shyly?
Does he open up more in one-on-one settings?
Does he try to look his best when he knows he’ll see you?
Does he ask your friends about you instead of asking you directly?
Does he seem distant sometimes, but then make small efforts to reconnect?

If you answered mostly Yes, chances are he’s shy but interested. If it’s mostly No, he’s probably not interested.

Guy Is Shy Vs Not Interested: How To Respond

Once you’ve figured out whether his behavior leans toward shyness or disinterest, the question becomes: how should you respond? It’s easy to get caught up overthinking every look or silence, but the truth is more straightforward. If his signals show he’s shy yet trying, a little encouragement from your side can make things easier for him. On the other hand, if he shows no effort at all, you owe it to yourself to step away.

If he’s shy but interested

When you sense that his nerves are the only thing holding him back, your role isn’t to chase or even play hard to get in order to get his attention, but to give him a little room to feel comfortable. Shy men often need gentle reassurance that their interest isn’t unwelcome. A kind smile, a small chat starter, or a relaxed moment together can lower the pressure and let him feel safe enough to open up.

Smile back: A warm smile shows you’re open to his presence and gives him the confidence to stay engaged. Psychologist Dr. Wendy Patrick says, “Shy people communicate differently, but a simple signal of acceptance can encourage them to take a step forward.”
Start light conversations: Bring up easy topics like a funny meme, a recent movie, or something happening around you. Shy men often struggle to start conversations, but when you break the ice, it helps them open up slowly without pressure
Create one-on-one chances: Suggest relaxed settings where he doesn’t feel watched. A low-key coffee date that feels more like two people hanging out, walking to class, or running a small errand together. Dr. Bhonsle explains, “Shy individuals feel safest when the spotlight is off them, and intimacy comes in quieter, one-on-one moments.”
Acknowledge small efforts: If he remembers details you mentioned or offers little favors, show genuine appreciation. It reinforces that his efforts, however small, are noticed and valued. For shy men, that validation goes a long way in building confidence
Ease his nerves: Don’t pressure him into bold declarations. A few kind words or an easy laugh at his jokes can reassure him that you’re comfortable with his awkwardness. Over time, those small reassurances help him trust the connection

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If he’s not interested

If his behavior shows no signs of effort or genuine care, the best step is to protect your own peace. It’s tempting to keep making excuses for his distance, but indifference is its own clear answer. You don’t need to push or keep hoping. It only drags you into frustration. Sometimes the healthiest move is to accept it, let go of your feelings, and walk away.

Notice his patterns: Pay attention to consistency. If he never initiates, cancels repeatedly, or keeps things surface-level, that’s your answer. Dr. Bhonsle says, “Limited communication is one of the clearest markers of dwindling interest.”
Stop overinvesting: If you’re always the one reaching out or planning, step back. Love should feel mutual, not like you’re pulling someone along. The more you give without return, the more drained you’ll feel
Value mutual effort: Focus on connections where the other person shows they want to be there. A healthy relationship is built on reciprocity, and you deserve someone who actively invests in you
Separate politeness from attraction: Don’t confuse a quick “hi,” a smile, or friendly small talk with genuine interest. Courtesy is part of social behavior. It doesn’t always carry romantic meaning
Prioritize yourself: It may sting to realize someone isn’t into you, but walking away frees up emotional space for a healthier bond. Remind yourself that clarity, even when it hurts, is better than dragging out uncertainty

Key Pointers

Nervous guys often show subtle signs like blushing, sneaking glances, and doing quiet favors instead of flirting boldly
Shyness can look like aloofness, but real interest shows in remembering details, wanting one-on-one chats, and smiling when you smile
Truly disinterested guys rarely initiate, keep conversations surface-level, and may openly flirt with others or physically avoid you
Key difference: Shy men pull back out of anxiety, while uninterested men consistently show indifference and minimal effort
If he’s shy but interested, encourage him gently with smiles, light conversations, and low-pressure one-on-one moments
If he’s not interested, respect his decision and move on to protect your peace and energy

Final Thoughts

As you can see, “Is he shy or not interested?”, is not quite the complex conundrum you thought it to be. The behavior of a guy in these two different situations is extremely telling. A shy man’s quivering voice, quick smiles, or secret looks all mean he cares but is nervous. An uninterested man, on the other hand, will give you the cold shoulder consistently. So, now, it’s time to ask yourself the tough question: which category does his behavior fit? If he’s sending out shy signals, maybe he needs a little encouragement from you. If he’s showing signs of disinterest, it might be time to accept the truth.

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