Thanks for signing up. We hope you enjoy being part of this community and interacting with fellow bonobos over stories, discussions , counselling and contests!
Birth Date :
Your Email Address
Why one opts for such a scenario should be considered as well. Is it because they do not want to commit in general, or to that person in particular ? It could be a rebound for either or both? Nothing is really rational in such situations, but the most the people involved can do is know why they're in it and where to draw the line.
It is important for both the parties to be on the same page before, during and after this "relationship" has taken flight. Then, I guess everything should remain in order..
It's also important to land on the same page too
This is complex. Friends with Benefits begins with both the partners pledging that they would not develop any feelings for each other. But as we all are humans, the more we spend time with someone be it physically or emotionally, we tend to get attached. If one of the partners get attached and the other does not it becomes a problem. So we are unsure whether its rational or not but in a relationship like this, it's best to opt out when one realizes that he/she is starting to develop feelings for the other.
Bonobology Communities are group forums where our registered users can post questions/issues and other users can discuss those, offer suggestions, etc.
To start a discussion, please click the 'Start New Discussion' button and choose any of the communities the question is about and post it to that community.
Do we often make the 'mistake' of placing our partner above ourselves when we are in love?
Has it happened with you? You sent a naughty photograph of yours to someone when things were going good. And regretted it when things weren't so good?
Is it love when it is more than friendship but less than love?
So you're finding excuses to call, drunk text or simply bump into your ex due to a compelling urge to sit down and have a 'final discussion. In an age when we're breaking up on social networking sites, how important is a face-to-face closure? Do we always need one?
It feels like everyone is shying away from commitment these days. Why are we getting so commitment-phobic?
Do you want to date your Ex again? You miss her, is that the good reason to get back her again in life?
How would/did you change your bedroom after marriage?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
You think too much!
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
Disclaimer: The information, views, and opinions expressed here are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of Bonobology.
Content Advisory: The website may contain content suitable for mature audiences. User discretion is strictly advised. Wish to share your story with us? Mail us at: firstname.lastname@example.org
Stay updated with the latest at Bonobology by subscribing to our newsletter
And register as a user to unlock more features!