Does He Love Me? 25 Signs To Tell You That He Loves You

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Updated On: March 17, 2024
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Is he in love with me? Does he have feelings for me? How do I tell if he loves me? If you’re in love with someone or have been dating him for a while, there’s a huge possibility that these questions are on your mind. In most relationships, there comes a point when you ask yourself, “Does he love me?”

Fortunately, where men are concerned, actions speak louder than words. They don’t always say the three magical words, instead, their feelings shine through in the little things they do for you. Notice the small gestures because those are the true signs he loves you.

How To Tell If A Guy Loves You? 25 Undeniable Signs

Studies suggest men fall in love faster than women. Yet, a lot of men find it difficult to emote or express their love. If you’re dating a shy guy, then you’ll probably have to wait an eternity to get him to confess his love. But if you read between the lines, you’ll be able to see signs he loves you. You will see it when he goes about doing things for you and taking care of you without advertising it or without you asking for it.

Still not sure if your guy does love you or not? Want a clear sign to the question, “Does he love me or not?” Worry not! We are here to help you. Let’s put an end to your “does he love me” dilemma with these 25 undeniable signs:

1. He considers you his top priority

Does he drop the other commitment to be with you when you aren’t feeling well or are in trouble? Does he cancel plans or, maybe, game night to spend more time with you? If so, you can quit asking, “Does he love me?” He prioritizes your needs and happiness, makes time for you, and values your opinion while making a decision. These are all signs that he has fallen for you.

Someone who loves you will make time for you even if he is busy with a lot of things (work, friends, family, etc.). Spending time with you will be his priority because you matter to him. You count.

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2. He listens, pays attention to your needs

If a man is in love with you, he will be paying attention to you. He will listen closely to what you have to say. He will remember the tiniest detail about you – your likes, dislikes, hobbies, dreams, fears, etc. that you share with him and hang on to every word you say.

It’ll come naturally to him because he is in love with you and wants to be a part of your life. He’ll pay attention to your needs. He’ll listen to you instead of interrupting you mid-sentence and making the conversation all about himself. You’ll get the feeling that he really cares about you, that you are important to him.

3. He’s not afraid to show his vulnerable side

If you’re constantly asking yourself, “How do I tell if he loves me?”, observe if he’s comfortable being vulnerable in front of you. Men usually have difficulty expressing emotions. If your guy is opening up to you, it means that he loves you and is comfortable letting his guard down. A man expressing his feelings is one of the major signs he loves you.

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If a man loves you, he’d want you to know him inside out. He won’t be scared to answer your questions and will be willing to share his deepest secrets. He trusts you and wants you in his life, which is why he will not hold himself back when it comes to showing his vulnerable side.

4. He makes you feel good about yourself

“Does he love me?” “How can I be sure of his feelings?” To find an answer to these questions, ask yourself, “How does he make you feel?” If your partner really loves you, then he will never leave you feeling unappreciated in the relationship. Instead, he will always say and do things to make you feel good about yourself.

He will hype you up and always encourage you to be yourself instead of trying to change you. You will feel valued, respected, and secure. He will support you in your endeavors, encourage you to fulfill your dreams, and celebrate your achievements the way he would his own. He will stand by you in public and be your biggest cheerleader in a crowd.

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5. Does he really love me? Notice the little things he does for you

It’s always the little things that matter, isn’t it? The true signs he loves you are hidden in the small, everyday things he does to make you feel comfortable and happy. It’s through the little, quiet moments of care and affection that a man usually expresses that he loves a woman.

He’ll get you your favorite chocolates and take care of you when you’re on your period, make you coffee in the morning, surprise you with your favorite flowers, or check in on you to make sure you’re okay. He wants to see you happy. Your happiness matters the most to him. So, yeah, if the “does he love me” thought is playing on your mind, notice the little things he does for you.

6. He misses you when apart

If your mind is plagued with questions like “how do I tell if he loves me” or “does he have feelings for me”, then notice his behavior when you two are apart. He’ll check in with you, and maybe send a few messages during the day to show that he is missing you and is thinking about you.

He will want to know how your day was or share some fun stuff he saw or read online or a nice song he thinks you’ll enjoy. All of these gestures are signs that he loves you. But, mind you, checking in or texting doesn’t mean that you receive messages every hour demanding to know about your whereabouts (that’s a clear red flag).

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7. He wants to know everything about you

If a man loves you, he will want to be a part of your life. He will want to know everything about you, every detail about your life – your favorite food, first crush, first heartbreak, who your closest friends or family members are, your hobbies and interests, and so on.

When a man falls in love with you, he wants to know you inside out. He wants to know what makes you the person you are. He wants to know about your dreams and ambitions, your hopes and fears. He will want you to meet people who are important to you and will make an effort in the relationship to get to know you like the back of his hand.

8. He has seen your worst side but still chooses to stay

We all have a side to ourselves that we think is not lovable and, therefore, aren’t comfortable sharing with everyone. There’s probably a side of you that no one else has seen except those closest to you. If he has seen your worst side, has not used it as an excuse to make you feel worse about yourself, and has chosen to stay, that’s a major sign he loves you.

He knows no one is perfect and that these annoying habits can get frustrating at times. But he’ll make sure you’re not afraid or hesitant to be yourself around him.

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9. What are the signs he loves me? Notice the way he looks at you

This is a sure-shot way to know if your partner loves you. Eye contact is one of the most powerful ways of showing love and affection, whether it’s in conversation or physical intimacy between partners. If a man looks you in the eye while talking to you or getting intimate, it’s a true sign that he loves you.

The way your man looks at you will make you feel loved. Whether you’re sitting across the table or dancing your heart out at a party, your partner won’t be able to stop looking at you. Does he steal a gaze while doing something or talking to his friends? Does he stop what he’s doing to take a look at you? Well, that’s a clear indicator he loves you.

10. He’s always there when you need him

Wondering whether he has feelings for you? Notice how he responds when you need him. Does he drop everything to be with you during a difficult time? Is he there to take care of you when you’re sick or support you when your family is in trouble?

It’s easy to declare love when the going is smooth but true love means standing by and supporting each other while navigating the rough patches in life. Does he show up every time you need his help? If the answer is yes, know that he loves you and is willing to do anything for you. Nothing is more important than you. Everything else can wait.

11. He plans for a future with you in it

A straight answer to the question, “Does he love me?”, is that his plans for the future involve you. This in no way means he is going to get down on one knee and pop the question to you then and there. Neither is it your clue to do it. It just means he is very much into you and is not playing games. It could be him planning the next vacation with you. Or just daydreaming about moving in with you. Maybe he talks about how to divide the housework when you are together. The bottom line is, you are there in his vision of the future.

12. He starts talking like you or adopting your style

You know you have made your man fall deeply in love with you when he starts to imitate your behavioral patterns. He starts calling himself the same cute names that you call him. Or he baby-talks to you the way you sometimes do. He makes coffee the way you do. If a guy does love you or is even attracted to you, he will imitate your way of speaking and body language. There is a scientific reason for this, called mirroring, which happens at a subconscious level.

13. He puts in the effort to make things work

All relationships have conflicts and hit a rough patch at some point. But what makes a relationship last and not come to a halt at the first speed bump is the willingness of the couple to try and make things work. If a man talks about what is bothering him, tries to find possible solutions, and proactively works toward making the situation better, instead of stonewalling their partner, then that is a sign he loves a woman.  

14. He is willing to do things he doesn’t like just to make you happy

While you and your guy might share a lot of common interests, there are bound to be things that he doesn’t enjoy as much as you do. Maybe you like to stay in and watch Korean dramas during the weekends. And the mere mention of drama makes him want to head for the hills. But he is there sitting next to you, watching it with you. Girl, he is a keeper.

If a man is willing to do things he doesn’t like just to spend quality time with you, then it doesn’t mean he just likes you. No, that guy is completely and deeply in love with you.

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If your partner really loves you, he will always hype you up

15. He is protective of you

There is a thin line between being possessive and being protective. You possess an object, but you protect the person you love.  If he’s out there picking up fights with every guy who dares to look at you or talk to you, then that’s being possessive. He is upset about people coveting what he feels belongs to him. This is a major red flag.

However, someone who loves you will not treat you like a possession. If your guy makes a point to make sure you are not on the traffic side while walking on the road. Or stands between you and a rowdy bunch at the club like a wall, then it means he is concerned about your well-being and that’s a sign he loves a woman.

16. He is constantly touching you

Wondering, “How to know if he loves me, without asking him?” Well, his body will let you know. If a guy is unable to keep his hands off you, then chances are he is completely smitten by you. According to a study conducted, physical touch happens to be the top two love languages in men below the age of 45, and for those above the age of 45, it is their top love language. We often love people the way we want to be loved. So, there you have it, a clear sign he is into you. 

17. He supports you in your goals

When you love a person, their dreams and wishes become important to you. And this is common both for men and women simply because you want what is best for your bae. You are concerned about their well-being and want to see them happy and successful in their lives and endeavors.

A man who is not playing games will give you the support you need to fulfill your dreams whether it means making coffee for you when you are studying for a test or finishing a work report, or not chomping down on KFC while you are sitting with your salad because you are trying to lose weight.

18. His gifts are thoughtful

Just as they say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, there is also a saying that diamonds are a girl’s best friend. And to be honest it is comforting to resort to the clichés when you have no idea what to gift your girlfriend. So gifting jewelry or perfume is certainly a safe choice.

But if your guy ends up giving you a Ukulele just because you casually mentioned your wish to learn how to play an instrument, then that means he loves you. Like a lot.

19. He doesn’t mind indulging in a little PDA

According to a survey conducted in the Netherlands, people have mixed feelings about PDA. Some are completely ok with the public display of affection, while others feel a little shy about it and believe that affection is private and best expressed behind closed doors.

If a guy happens to belong to the second category but doesn’t mind holding hands in public and sometimes sneaks in a peck on the cheek, here and there in public, then know he does love you a lot.

20. His closest people know about you

How to know if he loves me without asking him? This is a question that a lot of women want to know the answer to. Well, do the people closest to him know about you? If yes, then there is your answer. We all have an inner circle of people with whom we share all our life experiences with. If your guy has talked about you to his best friend, sibling, or mom, then it means he is quite serious about you.

21. You are the first person he shares good news with

One way of knowing you have made your man fall deeply in love with you is that when something good happens in his life, you are the first person he wants to share it with. Does he ever call you super excitedly in the middle of the day, saying, “Babe, babe, babe, babe, guess what? That contract that was supposed to get us in the big leagues, the one that I have been chasing after for the past six months. We got it!!”? Well, then you certainly hold the strings to his heart.

22. You have a song

Music is the closest thing we have to magic. It connects people who do not speak the same language. It conveys emotions that words often fail to capture. It cheers you up when you feel low and makes you get work done when you have no energy. If you two have a song, a song that is like an inside story, then know that it is one of the more subtle signs that your man is crazy about you.  

23. He knows something is wrong without you telling him

Does your guy read your mood to perfection? Can he tell the difference between the angry you and the hangry you? Is he able to predict what’s gonna make you jump with excitement so much so he is waiting to catch you? Yeah, that’s a sign that he is totally into you.

When you love a person, you are so emotionally attuned to their vibrations that you can detect even the slightest change in their mood or demeanor. So it doesn’t really come as a surprise that your man who loves you from the bottom of his heart understands something is wrong even without you telling them.

24. With you, he doesn’t get the fear of missing out

On one side, the boys are planning a beach trip. And on the other, you have plans to spend the entire day together. And he picks being with you and not for a second does he show any signs of regret about not hanging out with the boy. There, that answers your “does he love me” question.

If a guy really does love you, he is going to be happy being with you. And the thought of him missing out on the fun that he could have had with others won’t bug him. He is indeed the happiest with you around. 

25.  He says he loves you

Many guys are players, who are so invested in playing games that they will not hesitate a moment before saying they love you if it means their ulterior motives are being fulfilled. But actions do speak louder than words and you can tell when a guy is being disingenuous about his feelings when his actions don’t match his words. But if a guy not only expresses his love for you but also makes you feel loved through his actions, you better believe him.

So, there you go. A little of the list of signs to let you know that your man has got it for you really bad. Being in love is one of the most beautiful feelings ever. Often, it is difficult for men to express their feelings to the person they love. If you notice any of these signs in your man, then don’t shy away from making the first move. Drop hints to show that you feel the same way.

This article has been updated in Oct, 2022

FAQs

1. What behavior makes a man fall in love?

There’s no particular behavior that makes a man fall in love with you. He usually looks for a deep emotional connection with the person he loves, someone he can be vulnerable around. He wants his partner to accept him for who he is.

2. How do you test a guy to see if he really loves you?

See if he treats you with respect, is attentive to your needs, cares for you when you need him the most. A guy will go out of his way to make you happy if he really loves you. He’ll do little things for you to make you feel comfortable.

3. What questions to ask to see if he loves you?

A few questions you can ask him are what love means to him, what he thinks of the relationship, how he feels about you, his biggest fear, and what he loves about you and the relationship the most.

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