Falling in love is one of the best feelings in the world. You feel the rush in your veins, blood rushing to your cheeks, and your stomach is suddenly full of butterflies. You finally find someone who makes you feel complete and happy. But before this, you are faced by the real dilemma when you don’t know whether he’s in love with you or not. The uncertainty is killing you and you’re frantically looking for signs that a man is falling in love with you.
“When you are missing someone, time seems to move slower and when I’m falling in love, time seems to be moving faster”– Taylor Swift
You get these hints from a guy, suddenly the dynamic shifts between you two. At first, you feel he’s acting weird, but your gut tells you there’s something more. Suddenly, he’s Mr Caring and sensitive. “Is he just being nice or is he falling for me?” Now, we know love makes one a better person, but you want to know whether it’s you he’s falling for. You wonder, is he falling in love with me? How do you know when a man is in love? Look at these signs before it’s too late.
How do you know when a man is in love?
Women are gifted with strong intuition or a ‘Sixth Sense‘. You just tend to know a guy is falling for you. When a guy is head over heels for you, he can’t help but show it through his gestures and body language. Sometimes, he might just say it upfront, leaving your heart pounding. But in most cases, it’s not as simple as that. It’s important to look out for the signs a man is falling in love with you so that you can know for yourself whether you are in love with him too.
Here are 13 telltale signs a guy is falling for you.
13 Signs a man is falling in love with you
It might be something as simple as him taking a “wrong turn” on a route he knows at the back of his hand, just to spend more time with you. There are things a guy does when he is in love with you. These are the signs a man is in love with you. Guys can do many things that can be interpreted as the signs of a man falling in love. Read on to know what these are..
1. He looks at you differently
You both are at a party and you suddenly find him staring at you. It’s not the normal way he looks at you. This look is different. It’s more of a soft, dreamy-eyed look that you’ve never seen before. The moment you catch him staring at you, he will look away, giving you mixed signals. It’s because he is falling for you but doesn’t know how to express it just yet. He might just be playing it safe.
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2. He spends his free time with you
If he has free time after work, he chooses to spend it with you. He enjoys your company and feels comfortable when he spends more time with you. Even if he spends hours with you, it doesn’t seem enough because there’s still so much he wants to know about you. You are important to him and he wants to show it by spending more time with you. He shows his love for you with these seemingly little things.
3. He calls you more often
One of the signs of a man falling in love is him calling you more often than he used to.
You will suddenly notice that he’s calling you more. This is because he wants to hear your voice but won’t say it upfront. Even the duration of the calls seems to increase. If you would normally speak for half an hour, this is now extended to more than an hour. Most women tell us that when a man is falling in love with them, most of the times, they will call them for longer and not feel inclined to hang up the phone.
4. He will be available for you
If you’re having a bad day and want a shoulder to cry on, he’ll be there with your favourite food to cheer you up. He will shift his schedule for you but won’t let you know. Even if you’re calling him on his most busy days and ask him to hang out, he won’t turn you down.
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5. Your opinion matters to him
Has it ever happened that you commented on his dressing style or told him he looks better when he’s clean-shaven? In a few days, you will see subtle changes in his dressing style, especially in the areas you told him to improve. Even if he loves his beard, he will be willing to sacrifice it for you because you like him clean-shaven. Your opinion clearly matters to him and he is willing to change himself to impress you.
6. He will remember small things about you
A guy who is falling for you will pay a lot of attention to what you do and say. Even if you don’t remember what you said yourself, he will. Have you ever mentioned your favourite flowers or favourite dishes and seen him getting them for you? This is because he remembers every small thing about you and will use it to make you happy. At times, you will catch him day-dreaming like a hopeless romantic.
This is one of the most obvious signs a man is in love with you. In one adorable anecdote, a girl tells us how she once told her now-boyfriend that she likes a particular rock band and in a week, he had a signed t-shirt delivered to her doorstep! The best part is, she didn’t even remember telling him!
Remember the brooch Ross gave Rachel on her Birthday? It’s because he remembered.
7. He likes to do everyday chores with you
No one is a fan of doing everyday chores like getting groceries or doing the laundry. But if it’s with you, he won’t even take a second to think about it. Guys in love with you will never say no to doing everyday chores with you because it means getting to spend more time with you.
8. He makes you feel special
A guy falling in love with you knows how to make you feel special. No matter how bad of a day you’re having, he will always find a way to bring a smile on your face. Days important to you like your birthday, work anniversary, etc. will be important to him as well and he will make sure to make you feel special on those days.
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9. He will sit through your chick flick
Watching chick flicks is not a guy’s prefered genre of movies. Given a choice, they’d rather watch something else. But if a guy is in love with you, he will be there for you even if you want to watch a chick flick. No matter how much he hates it, he will stick by. He will comfort you in the dramatic scenes and even give you his handkerchief for you to wipe your tears.
Sounds like the ideal guy.
10. He will introduce you to his friends and family
You are important to him and he wants you to get to know him sincerely. And how better to get to know a person than by being introduced to his family as his “Friend”. Don’t freak out. He’s not planning to rush things. He just wants to express how much you mean to him and that he’s not afraid to introduce you to his inner circle. In fact, he seems like he is not afraid to acknowledge your relationship in public and might be ready to settle down with you.
11. He listens to your stories
He will listen to your never-ending stories without getting bored. To him, each story you narrate brings him a step closer to knowing you more. You can spend hours talking to him and he will still want to hear more. This is one of the most common signs of a man falling in love with you.
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12. He will take care of you
You call in sick and sleep on the couch. Guess who will turn up with some chicken soup? A guy falling in love with you will start taking care of you more because he is concerned about you. Even the slight flu will make him want to take you to the doctor to get it checked. He will keep calling you to check up on you. Your illness will worry him even more than you and he will do everything in his power to make you healthy again.
13. You make him smile
If he is falling in love with you, the little things you do will bring a smile to his face. He loves watching your lively, bubbly nature and he can’t help but smile at you. Your expressions make him blush at times and he can’t control it even if he wants to. He’s falling for you and it’s too late to take a U-Turn.
Guys falling in love are at times unable to realize their feelings. It is because deep inside they may be afraid of rejection and realise confessing their feelings will make it real. Sometimes, they are just shy to say it out loud and expect you to recognize the signs he is falling in love with you instead. Who said girls ate the complicated ones? If your guy’s appearances match the above then the point towards the signs a man is falling in love with you. This is when you should know what to do if you feel the same way. Don’t wait too long for the ball to drop.
After all, you can make the first move too!
