Falling in love is one of the best feelings in the world. You feel that rush in your veins, going to your heart, and your stomach is full of butterflies. You finally find someone who makes you feel complete and happy. The real dilemma is when you don’t know whether he’s in love with you or not. And you are frantically looking for signs that say he is falling in love with you.
“When you are missing someone, time seems to move slower and when I’m falling in love, time seems to be moving faster”– Taylor Swift
You get these hints from a guy, suddenly something feels different about him. At first you feel he’s acting weird, but then his behaviour changes even further. Suddenly, he’s Mr. Caring and sensitive. Now, we know love makes one a better person, but you want to know whether its you. You wonder, is he falling in love with me? How do you know when a man is in love? How to look at the signs before it’s too late?
How do you know when a man is in love?
Women are gifted with the power of ‘Sixth Sense‘. You just tend to know a guy is falling for you. It’s just a feeling you get from inside. The way to know when a man is in love is through the signs. When a guy is head over heels for you, he can’t help but show it through his gestures and body language. Sometimes, he will just say it upfront, leaving your heart pounding and giving you cold feet. It’s important to look out for the signs a man is falling in love with you so that you can know for yourself whether you are in love with him too.
Here are 13 telltale signs a guy is falling for you.
13 Signs a man is falling in love with you
There are things a guy does when he is in love with you. These are the signs you should look for in him.
1. He looks at you differently
You both are at a party and you are laughing when suddenly you find him staring at you. It’s not the normal stare he usually gives. This look is different. It’s more of a soft, dreamy eyes look that you’ve never seen before. The moment you catch him staring at you, he will look away, giving you mixed signals. It’s because he is falling for you but doesn’t know how to express it just yet.
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2. He spends his free time with you
Even the free time he has after work, he decides to spend it with you. He enjoys your company and feels comforted when he spends more time with you. Even if he spends hours with you, it doesn’t seem enough because there’s still so much to you he wants to know about you. You are important to him and he wants to show it by spending more time with you. He shows his love for you with these seemingly little things.
3. He talks to you more over calls
You will suddenly notice that he will start calling you more. It is because he wants to hear your voice but will not say it upfront. Even the duration of the calls will increase. If you would normally speak for half an hour, notice it being now extended to more than an hour. Most of the times, he will not feel inclined to hang up too.
4. He will be available for you
If you’re having a bad day and want a shoulder to cry on, he’ll be there with your favourite food to cheer you up. He will shift his schedule for you but won’t let you know about him. Try calling him on his most busy days and ask him to hang out. He is not going to turn you down.
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5. Your opinion matters to him
Has it ever happened that you commented on his dressing style or spoken about him looking better when he’s clean shaven? In a few days you will see subtle changes in his dressing style, especially in the areas you told him to improve. Even if he loves his beard, he will be willing to sacrifice it because you like him clean shaven. It is because your opinion matters to him and he is willing to change himself to impress you.
6. He will remember small things about you
A guy who is falling for you will pay a lot of attention to what you do and say. Even if you yourself don’t remember what you said at that time, he will remember. Have you ever mentioned about your favourite flowers or favourite dishes and seen him getting them for you? It is because he remembers every small thing about you and will use it make you happy. At times, you will catch him day-dreaming like a hopeless romantic.
Remember the brooch Ross gave Rachel on her Birthday? It’s because he remembered.
7. He likes to do everyday chores with you
Guys hate doing everyday chores like getting groceries or doing the laundry. But if it’s with you, he won’t take a second to think about it. Guys in love with you will never say no to doing everyday chores with you because it means getting to spend more time with you.
8. He makes you feel special
A guy falling in love with you knows how to make you feel special. No matter how bad a day you’re having, he will always find a way to bring a smile on your face. Days important to you like your birthday, work anniversary, etc. will be important to him as well and he will make sure to make you feel special on those days.
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9. He will sit through your chick flick
Watching chick flicks is not a guy’s cup of tea. They avoid all the mushy love and corny lines that chick flicks have. But if a guy is in love with you, he will be there for you even if you want to watch a chick flick. No matter how much he hates it, he will be there to comfort you in the dramatic scenes and give you tissues on the side for you to wipe your tears.
Sounds like the ideal guy.
10. He will introduce you to his friends and family
You are important to him and he wants you to get to know him on a level he is getting to know you. What’s better to get to know him other than by introducing you to his family as your “Friend”. Don’t freak out. He’s not going to straightaway propose. He just wants to express how much you mean to him and that he’s not afraid to introduce you to his inner circle. Infact, he seems like he is not afraid to acknowledge your relationship in public and is ready to settle down with you.
11. He listens to your stories
He will listen to your never ending stories without getting bored. It is because each story you narrate brings him a step closer to knowing you more. You can spend hours talking to him and he will still want to hear more. One of the most common signs of a man falling in love with you.
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12. He will take care of you
You call in sick and sleep on the couch. Guess who will turn up with some chicken soup? A guy falling in love with you will start taking care of you more because he is concerned about you. Even a slight flu will make him want to take you to the doctor to get it checked. He will keep calling you to check up on you. Your illness will worry him and he will do anything to make you healthy again.
13. You make him smile
If he is falling in love with you, very small reaction or smile of yours will bring a smile to his face. He loves watching your lively, bubbly nature and he can’t help but smile at you. Your expressions make him blush at times and he can’t control it even if he wants to. He’s falling for you and it’s too late to take a U Turn.
Guys falling in love are at times unable to realize their feelings. It is because deep inside they may be afraid of rejection and realizing their feelings will make it real. Sometimes, they are just shy to say it out loud and expect you to recognize the falling for you signs instead. Who said girls were the complicated ones? If your guy’s gestures match the above signs a man is falling in love with you, you know what to do. Don’t wait too long for the ball to drop.
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