Sex and Passion

BDSM 101: Did you know that sex is only one part of BDSM?

It's not only about sex all the time in BDSM. Talking and bonding with each other and planning fun activities is just as important
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This is an ongoing series exploring the BDSM community and the rules of interaction that are to be followed when looking for kinky sex. We’ve talked about code words for BDSM interaction elsewhere. And the importance of consent in a relationship. You can also look for workshops that help you explore your tendencies.

“Hey! How was your day at work?” Srikanth’s phone vibrated.

“Sulking!” he stole a glance from the computer screen to type the text.

“Are you still at office?” the vibration was determined to break Srikanth’s concentration.

“Yeah. Work pressure!” His eyes fell to the lower right corner of the computer screen. 10:45 pm.

“Codes!” he grumbled.

His focus was completely disrupted now. He peeped through the window.

The city looked like a princess draped in a gown of fairy lights. Most of the dwellers must have been enjoying the comfort of their loved ones by now, he thought.

His jaded eyes craved some affection, some care and comfort.

Beep beep!

An email from the boss.

Srikanth hurried back to his work.

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Half an hour whizzed past and he felt like taking another break again.

“What are you doing?” he called Apurva.

“Nothing much! Too lazy to do anything!” she giggled from the other side of the phone.

“Yeah! You can have fun!”

“I don’t like having fun alone!”

Her weary telephonic voice sent a heat wave through his spine.

“Then make me a part of it!”

“Ah! I was missing this kinkiness in you the whole day.”

“Haha! It needed the perfect flavour to wake up!”

“So?”

“So… how about you meet me tomorrow for a short morning walk and I will give you something to wear to your office.”

“Something to wear?”

“Yes.”

“And how is that supposed to be adventurous?”

“Wait and see.”

“Tell me!”

“No. I won’t now. But are you okay with it?”

“Well, I trust you. Let’s see what you have in store for me!”

“Keep on dreaming!”

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The shocking gift

Srikanth unwrapped the box as he started to undress himself for his shower. Apurva hadn’t told him what was inside. She gave clear instructions that he was supposed to wear it to office and open it right before his shower.

“Text me every single step of unwrapping!” she was clear.

One after another, Srikanth removed the folds and finally found the surprise!

A box full of assorted panties!

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He gulped down his insecurities!

Laces! Satin!

Pink…red…blue…purple!

Polka dots…flowers…!!

“Whoa!!! These!”

“Yes…these!”

For a moment, Srinakth’s head was filled with male laughter! What would they think if they know I am wearing female panties to office? His hands trembled, but he had already given his consent. He could smell humiliation all the way down his balls. And then it stopped.

“They aren’t even going to know I’m wearing them!” he laughed.

Sex isn’t the only thing

BDSM is not always about sex. Sex is just one part of BDSM. The couple might choose to do things other than sex and these activities are also activities of BDSM. What Apurva and Srikanth were doing is something called ‘humiliation play’. Apurva was being dominant here, and she ordered Srikanth to wear panties to work.

Now, if a man is wearing panties to work, that sounds very funny and he can get humiliated for it by his peers. He’s always conscious of that. However, at the same time, nobody knows what he is wearing inside. So, technically, it’s not affecting his reputation at all. But this fear psychosis works within him all the time. That is how he submits to Apurva and they enjoy their orgasm without having sex.

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