Some consider a dry sense of humor as an added advantage while others simply think it is a plain insult to another person. Not to be mixed up with sarcasm, dry sense of humor has its own set of audience. You may ask, but what exactly is a dry sense of humor?
Today in this article we will help you understand everything about a dry sense of humor, whether or not you have it and how to develop it.
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Dry Sense Of Humorâ Meaning
Dry sense of humor as the name suggests is a form of dry humor where a person often says funny things but in a serious, calm way which may or may not be understood by many people. And some may even take it as an offense when dry jokes are thrown their way.
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It is also known as deadpan humor too because the joke cracker cracks the joke at the least with no display of emotions and in a subtle matter-of fact tone.
This below-the-belt, non-dramatic type of joke is a mere witty statement that a person makes about another person, situation, or occurrence. You may wonder whatâs funny in it?
Well, the outrageous and cleverly implied manner in which the joke is delivered makes it funny to those who understand and confusing to those who donât.
Some classic examples of dry sense of humor
âOur bombs are smarter than the average high school student. At least they can find Kuwait.â
 âIâve never been married, but I tell people Iâm divorced so they wonât think something is wrong with me.â
âThe most important thing I would learn in school was that almost everything I would learn in school would be utterly useless.â From The Secret World of the Irish Male by Joseph OâConnor
Most often people confuse dry sense of humor with sarcasm as the wittiness factor is almost the same in both of them. But yet, at a deeper level they both are different in nature. To have avoid confusion, letâs have a quick view on
What Is Sarcasm?
Sarcasm is using words in an exactly opposite form to what a person means. It can simply be called as ironic comments said in a tone of voice that makes its opposite to be obvious.
For example:
âDo you want some cake?
âWell! I only have cake when itâs baked by a Michelin chef.â â This is sarcasm.
âI will not only have it I will eat it too.â â Hereâs dry sense, we guess. And you have to be intelligent enough to get this wry humor.
In simple words, sarcasm is often used to mock a person or simply put to show them how stupid they are.
For example:
If somebody says something really obvious like âitâs raining outsideâ the sarcastic person might say âReally? Are you sure?â In this example the sarcastic person is mocking or insulting the other person as it is obvious that it is raining outside.
Thus, sarcasm is when a person says something opposite of what he means while a dry sense of humor is more the territory of a clever smart-talker.
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How To Know Whether You Have A Dry Sense Of Humor?
Not everyone has dry sense of humor so to make things simple for you, we have a checklist that will let you know if you are the blessed one or not.
- You use words and phrases that take time for people to understand its context
- You donât need any change of facial expression, use of body language, or props to get the joke right. Your tone of voice and witty words are enough
- You can state absurd and incorrigible facts in a blatantly honest manner that it creates laughter among the listeners
- You know to juggle between sarcasm, cynicism, and irony without putting in the effort
- People laugh at your little comments (except the one on whom itâs made upon)
If you said yes to three or more points in the checklist then congratulations, you are born with the gift of dry sense of humor. But if you havenât ticked, then read onâŚ
So this checklist seems distinct to you but yet the idea of having a dry sense of humor is appealing? We agree that some people get it from their genes but some also acquire it on the way to adulthood. There are ways in which you can develop the skill.
How dry sense of humor works for you
Before we move on to the list of âHow you can develop a dry sense of humorâ you may ask, but why I need to develop it in the first place?
- Studies have shown that people with wit and quick-to-make punchlines are way smarter than the vapid ones. Humorous people are anticipated to do much better in life.
- A sense of humor is like your mindâs immune system. Being funny is possibly one of the best things you can do for your health.
- Humor helps to lift up other peopleâs mood and overcome difficult times (just like what comedians do for us).
- It can make you the center of attraction at a party and help you get good dates too (Yay!).
- People would remember you much longer than you think they do (not always in a good way though).
How You Can Develop Dry Sense Of Humor
Things donât come easy and when we are talking about developing humor, itâs like a walk on the snowy mountain during a glacier without shoes!
Scared? Donât be, we are here to get you gumboots and safety gears to make your walk easy, but remember, at the end its still you who has to commence the journey. So here is a checklist that will help you develop dry sense of humor and be the one whom people look up to.
1. Ear-mind-mouth co-ordination
Jokes are the best examples of taking things with a pinch of salt and when it comes to dry humor jokes, well, you need a slice of lime too. The best way to develop a dry sense of humor is to hear what the other person said. Repeat it in your head three times and then come up with the most relevant comeback.
For example:
âMy nose is so big it goes from A-ZâŚHave a look at your keyboardâ
âOh, Iâm sorry. Did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours?â This is one of those good comebacks for the person constantly interrupting you.
âYou bring everyone a lot of joyâŚwhen you leave the room.â This one goes left then right then left again, salting the wound.
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2. Little psychology is indeed needed
Wondering how we suddenly landed up to a high school subject from talking of humor? Well well, the most insightful tip to have a great dry sense of humor is to have some knowledge of basic human psychology.
Making a joke on someone is only possible if you know something additional of him/her. And when it comes to strangers, all you can use to crack jokes is your mental ability of reading them like a book. Once you get to know them a layer deep, only then the joke would make the audience laugh.
For example:
âIt melts my heart when two stupid people fall in loveâŚGreat, whoâs the lucky one?â
An old teacher asked her student, âIf I say, âI am beautiful,â which tense is that?â The student replied, âIt is obviously past tense.â
âSomewhere out there, a tree is tirelessly producing oxygen for you. I think you owe it an apology.â
3. Not all things come easy
Life isnât a cake-walk and so isnât humor. Sometimes it may happen that while cracking a joke, you end up breaking someoneâs heart. There is a thin line between mockery and insult and learning the difference between the two is the most essential thing.
Insult:
Girlfriend: âAm I pretty or ugly?â
Boyfriend: âYouâre both.â
Girlfriend: âWhat do you mean?â
Boyfriend: âYouâre pretty ugly.â
Joke:
A teacher wanted to teach her students about self-esteem, so she asked anyone who thought they were stupid to stand up.
One kid stood up and the teacher was surprised. She didnât think anyone would stand up so she asked him, âWhy did you stand up?â He answered, âI didnât want to leave you standing up by yourself.â
We suggest you learn to maintain this thin line and only then try out jokes on dear ones. (Else you might end up losing some relations and we wonât take any blame for that. Peace!)
4. People might not laugh â accept it
Be ready to be standing in a crowd of hundred people with no one actually getting your joke. Not every time or everyone will get your humor.
At times, some people will think that your jokes are slightly tasteless, but that is just because they are not on the same page as you are. Donât be disheartened, trained stand-up comedians do have faulty moments of silence when they are on stage. Its fine.
All you need to do is practice and enhance your skill. Let others decide whether they want to laugh or not.
For example:
âA cop stopped me for speeding. He said, âWhy were you going so fast?â I said, âSee this thing my foot is on? Itâs called an accelerator. When you push down on it, it sends more gas to the engine. The whole car just takes right off. And see this thing? This steers it.â
Whether the person (or the audience) gets the joke totally depends on him (them).
5. Take control of the situation
As said earlier, the journey of being humorous is challenging and the biggest challenge would be to turn your turmoil to treasure i.e take control of the lost situation. How? Have an amazing comeback, make a joke on yourself, or simply change the topic.
For example:
âIâm an acquired taste. If you donât like me, acquire some taste.â
âI enjoy self-deprecating humor a lot. Iâm just not very good at it.â
âOoopsss no one is laughing. But I am used to it. No one laughed right from the time I was born.â
âIn the interests of self-care, and to promote healthier lifestyle choices for myself now that Iâm single, each morning when I get up, I look myself in the mirror, and say the three little words I always used to say to my wifeâŚYouâre too fat.â
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The world isnât a cheerful place neither it is easy on you. So having a dry sense of humor is a great tool to lighten up the mood and save yourself from tyrannies. Humor gives you the power to laugh at serious things and spread the laughter among others too.
It teaches you to laugh at yourself too and thereâs nothing better than someone who can laugh at themselves, or at the absurdity of the modern world.
Learning wit, humour or simply to be funny requires plenty of practice and a lot of determination. If you want to develop this skill the key is to practice, practice, and practice. Some things that might help you are comedy shows (dating a comedian maybe), reading and using puns, and having a humour buddy.
Before we move on to some quicks FAQs, let us warn you that cracking it is the responsibility of the person cracking the joke to ensure that their words do not take a toll on someone who is not as good a sport as he is expected to be. Donât make people laugh on someoneâs expense!
Be Smart. Be Humorous.
FAQs
A dry sense of humor, often referred to as dead pan, is when you find things funny that others may not⌠but you say it without any emotion, or in a serious tone of voice.
Well to some, itâs an inborn talent. Some people are outrageously upfront and funny in a witty manner. For others, the 5 steps mentioned in the checklist above would help develop the skill and they can be great at it.
Certainly not. Itâs a conscious choice that requires sharpness of mind and constant practice irrespective of the age.
It is a misperception that a dry sense of humor is insulting and offensive. But when used smartly, it is the most sorted out tool to make you the most important person at a party. And a bonus, no one dares to insult you as they know you will have a quirky comeback.
Wittiness has no place or person. A dry sense of humor is not a job to be done at a place and stop while you get back home. It is a skill that has to be inherited or worked upon and used as if it comes naturally to you. But be sure that you donât end up breaking hearts.
