He thinks good sex is enough to keep her happy. She thinks he should stop depending on sex all the time to make her feel sexually intimate. He is totally confused and classifies this as yet another side of her enigmatic personality. She cannot make him understand that he can avoid being lustful and horny to show his loving and passionate side. The same body he uses to assert his manhood can also be used to spread the wings of warmth around her.
Is he tuned in?
When he lets his skin get deeper into all her pores instead of limiting his pleasure-giving capacity to a bout of lovemaking lasting for some minutes, he is able to experience what she is trying to explain through sexual intimacy. Is your man already enlightened to distinguish along similar lines?