How to seduce a married man?

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how to seduce married men

If you are looking for tips on seducing a man who is already married, then you have landed at the right page. Now only will you know how to seduce a married man and make him go weak in his knees for you, but also know some important tips that may help you date a married man successfully?

Married men are the forbidden fruit of relationships. The thrill of seducing a married man gives you a secret pleasure and makes you feel confident and sexy. Women love to get involved with married men as they are more matured and experienced in life. So they seek emotional support and attention from them. And men? Well, most men love to get seduced, they pray for it. If you have fallen for a married man, you need to temp him to let go of his inhibitions, his family, his wife, his social status and everything else to be all yours. While being beautiful plays a vital role in seducing a man, a little understanding of the tips and trips that make him desire you will also help a great deal.

The principles of seducing a man, whether he is married or not, largely remain the same. Arousing the man, building the anticipation for great sex together, the build-up of the tension and the play of emotions, well, seduction is an art. And while most women think ‘showing up’ is all that they need to seduce a man – it’s half true. While physical excitement is important when seducing a man, the art of seducing goes much beyond it. And here are some tips and tricks on wooing a man who is, well, married and not yours.

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How to seduce a married man?

Seduction, my friend is an art, and one that plays with human psychology. To seduce a man, especially if he is married, you basically need to convince him to do something that may not be socially acceptable. Seduction has lust at play, and you will use tips to make him lust for you, no matter whoever he is with. Seduction basically implies that you intend to make him sleep with you, without any promises of love or marriage. Seduction can only cast a spell, and after some time may wear out. Perhaps you are married too and are looking to have some fun – though we’d warn you to proceed at your own risk. But then sex is not a sin.

And when you have made up your mind to seduce a married man, you must first identify his weaknesses – a bad marriage, a nasty partner, lusty nature or flirty behaviour? And once you have identified his weaknesses, you can look at attacking them using the tips given below.

7 tips to seduce a married man

Seducing a man, especially the one who is not yours, can be thoroughly enjoyable. Whatever your motive- to have a lustful night or to have him like you, you can seduce a man who is not yours and make him mad with sexual tension that gets created between the two of you. Women have the power to actually make any man fall for them, provided they know how to play their cards right. Moreover, timing matters a lot. And no, you do not need to play any dirty tricks, you just need to be your best and use all your womanly traits to maximum effects. Here are 7 magical, effective and simple way to seduce a married man, and leave him wanting you (if that’s what you wish to do!)

1. Smell great

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Did you know that the way you smell can actually make you appear more attractive? Ascent is so powerful that is affects the way we think about the other sex in our subconscious. To seduce a man, scent can go a long way. Use a fragrance that you like, but use it reasonably. Do not overdo – and apply perfume to your wrists, bend of elbows, behind your knees, and inside of the ankles. Every time you walk past him, the scent to should register in his mind and will aid your success in seduction. He will associate the scent with you and probably look for you around even if someone else wears it.

2. Flirt-text him

You do not have to be near him to seduce him, thanks to the technology-driven world we live in. ‘Sexting’, as it is popularly known can keep your man aroused all day long. A text with a subtle hint or a few suggestive words can make his imagination go vivid. He may start to have ideas and may imagine stuff that you want him to. Time your texts so that he gets to feel them, not just read and forget about them. Just get to know a little on his routine and then you can text him accordingly. It is worth mentioning here that sexting someone in the night can make him go to sleep thinking about you.

All you need is to be a little creative and somewhat flirty. Get him addicted to your texts!

Related reading: How to seduce a man through text messaging?

3. Show a little skin, but hide more

Seduction is an art, and it surely does not involve showing off all your lady parts at once. Well, that may make a man drop his pants, but when we talk of seduction, it is about a heightened level of sensuousness and anticipation. Plus, skimpy clothes and showing off cleavage will get you odd stares from all kind of men – so no point attracting everyone when you are just trying to get one man go weak in the knees. You need to assure him that what you have is just for him – he gets to see you, not everyone else. Play a little peek here, peek now game. Build that up by showing a little skin, but hiding more. This would make him want to look for more, and more without the clothes maybe.

There is always a sense of seduction in being mysterious

4. Listen to him

So you want him and want him more because he is unavailable. Right? Men rarely get heard, especially the married ones. So show a little interest in what he has to say, let him do some talking, lend him an ear when he has to share something and listen to him attentively. Hold his gaze every time and smile at him when he forgets what he was saying. Listen to his problems, without interrupting, and offer carefully solicited advice only when asked. Use the time to touch him on the hand, a casual rub on the shoulder and a little concern to complete the equation.

There, he is half yours already.

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5. Give it with your body language

Womanly curves are nothing if accentuated. Play with your hair casually, run your fingers through your tresses. Wet and bite your lips, again and again, making it look natural. Face him directly, and if standing, lean forward now and then between a conversation. Caress objects that are within reach. Smile more, laugh often and be happy. Men are always drawn to smiling happy women.

These signs can not only be read by experienced men, but also the ones who are inexperienced.

6. Take a shot at erotic dancing

This is one of the most powerful ways to seduce a man – it is not only entertaining but also stimulates sexual thoughts and fantasies. A girl’s moving curves have a lot of power on men. Should you get a chance to hit the dance floor, make sure you practise it well. Show off your dancing skills and build sexual tension by dancing together, touching just as much. The sexual tension that builds up between a dancing couple cannot be met with anything else. The occasional hand on the waist, the sensual brushing of the body and the music hitting just the right chords – you have a recipe for some great sexual chemistry.

It won’t only lead to great sex, but also make you feel sexy and unstoppable

Related reading: Get him in the mood with ‘dirty dancing’

7. Be super-confident

Men are impressed by confidence in a woman. Look stunning, and be a woman who knows what she wants, and also knows how to get it. A talk looking straight in the eye, watch your posture and do everything that makes you look and feel as confident as a supermodel. Be a woman of class and throw some attitude. Don’t act pricy, but don’t be readily available as well.

But remember, there is a thin line that divides confidence from arrogance – stay on that side of the line

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Dating a married man

If you are dating a married man, the below tips can make it easy for you:

  1. A married man susceptibly falls for you if he is hassled, not happy with his family life. So to woo your desired married man, you have to give him what he is looking for
  2. Keep your relationship a hush-hush one. You have to be proficient enough to keep your secret relationship secret
  3. Be a fun person to hang out with, which all married men want in their extramarital affair
  4. Don’t force him to compare you with his spouse. It might piss him off
  5. Be a good listener. Lend your ears to his problems and frustrations. Your chances of attracting a married man increase if you listen to his problems with all your attention and lend your shoulder to cry upon
  6. Warm hugs are good and they are the perfect way to show affection, especially hugs from behind. It will make them feel special as well
  7. Bring the spice back into his life by wearing provocative dresses or having sensual conversations. This will turn him on and would make things easy for you.
  8. Keep him close every time you meet and know how to seduce a man with your body parts. But make sure that he doesn’t feel uncomfortable with that
  9. Be available on the phone but accommodate his timings. Do remember that he has secrecy to maintain. So if he doesn’t give you the proper response, then don’t get over him
  10. Try to revive the sleeping beast in him. Let him explore more in sex life
  11. Don’t get irritated with his family phone calls when he is with you. Give him space at times
  12. Try to do things that his wife fails to offer him. Make him laugh and try to bring him out of the troubles of daily life
  13. Finally, be his friend and know how to connect with a man on an emotional level

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Nea February 1, 2020 - 12:06 pm

What is the purpose of this article? You are supporting the practice of cheating and infidelity while coating it with praiseworthy words. Cheating does not make anyone sexy or attractive. It degrades people’s self-worth and makes them a lowly human being, it is an immorality. Confidence? Confidence comes from within yourself, from the good that you have without harming others. If looking down on others is already arrogance, then cheating is all the more arrogance. Since succeeding in dating a married man gives you the pride of trampling other’s life, mainly, the wife. Aside from that, you have destroyed the future of possibly many lives. I am a daughter of a cheating father, and I am sure not going to forget what he (and the woman) have done to me and my mother. Cheating causes a wound no one will ever be able to get back to. It ate my mother’s sanity and I have to be there for her to prevent her from doing further harm to herself, all the while watching her breaks down. Jokes or not, I find this article worthless.

Unsuspecting Wife December 9, 2019 - 1:14 am

I wanted to share my thoughts with your advice in this article even though it may not mean much to you, perhaps only providing fodder for your next article. I was on the receiving end of this sort of behavior, the unsuspecting wife in this case. Everything you said was absolutely spot on! These tricks worked wonders! And boy of boy, I’m the wife who welcomed you in, gave you so much praise and compliments after your babies were born and for the life of me, can’t figure what I did to you but man, you sure got me good!! I’ve never been more hurt by anything or anyone in my life! Not even when we faced the late term loss of my first baby. Nope. That didn’t hurt nearly as much as finding you in the arms of my husband. You see, losing a child wasn’t a choice, that was beyond anything anyone could control. But this, your affair with my husband? Yup. 100% your choice. It caused way more heartache and pain for me and the children than that. So. Much. More. Congratulations on having that much pride in your self and your prowess….it’s good that you can prove it to yourself despite what it costs everyone else at home. As you can read, it’s not very hard to do what you did, being proud of this is not saying much. As this writer points out, men are easy to get. Slap on some perfume, and nod your head in agreement at whatever he says…Ooo, way to go girl, you proved that point. But in doing so, you totally wrecked the trust that women should give to each other. You know, girls stick together and build each other up? Never be the reason a man strays…your mom and dad must be so proud of what you can do! it would be interesting to see how you’d feel if your dad did this this to your mom. Would it be a big deal? Or would you be like “eh, no big deal!” Like you were with my kids hearts. I wonder if karma will teach you a lesson or if your pride is just too great. Way to go girl, you’re amazing at having an affair -you must be so proud of your “hard” work…the lies he told you about me to make you think you were such a great woman was told to you to make you were important. And you were! You were the affair partner! That made his day(s) when you guys ran off to the hotel together but it wrecked my life. And my daughter’s perception of her daddy being a good man, and created such anger in his son that I’m not he’s going to come out of it. Thank you affair partner! Thank you having so little self respect that you needed a cheater to build you up. And thank you writer for encouraging others with your words! Building up a great society I think not.

Ryanna Nicole Michelle Murphy May 25, 2019 - 5:09 am

I’ve been trying to seduce an extremely attractive married bus driver. I know that he loves it when we can be alone with each other, flirt and just talk . He is afraid to admit that he loves me! What can I do to have him actually say that he loves me?

Ryanna Nicole Michelle Murphy May 25, 2019 - 5:02 am

So for the last year I’ve been trying to seduce an extremely attractive married bus driver? I know he enjoys my company and likes me too however he won’t straight away say it

Deb Chatterjee
Deb Chatterjee May 20, 2018 - 10:09 am

Isn’t the article preaching and supporting immorality? Why should the bonobology site help prospective cheaters?

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