Marina Ray (name changed) went to her school reunion when she met Rahul, who used to have a crush on her. They were good friends in school. That was 15 years back. Now she believed they had both moved on. She was a successful TV anchor, he had become an established corporate honcho and looked super handsome in his black suit. Marina spoke to him for some time and after that when she moved to one corner another friend Manav told her, “Do you know there are signs he finds you irresistible, still?”
Marina started laughing because she couldn’t believe that someone still had a crush on her after so many years and found her irresistible. Her friend said, “Okay I will prove to you that he still finds you irresistible. Come out with me to the terrace.” Marina walked with her old school friend to the terrace and stayed there. “He will come here because I saw him looking at us when we left the party,” said Manav. Within moments Rahul walked into the terrace. Marina looked flabbergasted. Manav smiled smugly. “See I told you he won’t let you out of his sight tonight. He always found you irresistible.”
What Makes A Woman Magnetic And Irresistible
After reading this account you might be thinking what did Marina have that made her so irresistible to Rahul, after so many years of leaving school. What makes a woman intriguing to a man? There are many reasons for which a man finds a woman irresistible and in all possibilities she had the irresistible woman traits. It could start with the way she looks. Marina wasn’t a pretty face in the most conventional sense but there were things about her that made her irresistible.
There is a popular perception that a woman is irresistible if she is sexy. And sexy in that sense means having a 24-inch waistline and the ability to carry those high-heels and LBDS to perfection. But there is much more to being irresistible. We list the things that makes a woman irresistible.
- A smile that reaches her eyes and comes out spontaneously.
- When a woman is not self conscious although she looks really beautiful in whatever she wears.
- She is intelligent, good in academics and knows how to hold a conversation.
- The true meaning of being an irresistible woman means having confidence and a sense of humour that’s tasteful.
- A distinct personality, passion for what she feels strongly about and she values herself and her own opinions.
- Last but not the least she isn’t easy to get. You could have to wait to get her.
Maybe not as long as 15 years like Rahul waited for Marina but she isn’t easy to get and that is what makes a woman irresistible.
15 Signs He Finds You Irresistible
The reunion party proved to be the real reunion for Marina and Rahul as Manav played Cupid showing how Rahul finds Marina irresistible. There are things that makes a woman memorable to man and that is why Rahul, despite meeting so many women later on in life, couldn’t ever forget Marina. When they got together Marina realised she was always desirable to Rahul. These are the 15 signs that say how a man finds a woman irresistible.
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1.He would always make eye contact
When a man finds a woman irresistible he wouldn’t be able to take his eyes off her. If you are at a restaurant having candlelit dinner he would look deep into your eyes and talk to you. And if you both are at a party and talking to different people then be sure he would seek you out constantly.
Marina went to Rahul’s cousin’s wedding with him and she felt so desirable when every time she would be sitting with the women at the Sangeet or the Mehendi session she would find Rahul looking at her from the balcony, or from behind the pillar or he would get the ladies some juice and snacks just to catch a glimpse of her.
2. He would admire what you wear
A man finds a woman captivating when he finds her dressing sense adorable. A man finds a woman irresistible when she dresses up elegantly and knows what suits her. If a woman knows what looks best on her that is what a man absolutely admires. You could be dressing up conservatively in salwar suits or skirts and tops could be your thing, but when you know how to carry off a piece of garment a man finds that irresistible.
Marina opts for ethnic wear both for work and special occasions and Rahul thinks she looks absolutely stunning in it.
3. He always compliments you
It’s not a fleeting compliment. Ever. He would ask you where you got the dress from? How you did the make-up? How did you know the shoes would go with this attire perfectly? When a man takes so much interest in a woman’s attire he does it because he finds you irresistible. The compliments don’t stay limited to your clothes and looks, it could extend to an achievement, a kind gesture or just anything.
Marina always fed the street dogs in her locality. Rahul always complimented her on her kindness.
4. He always shops for you
Wherever he goes he is only thinking of you. He surprises you with things he picked up for you from different places. It could even happen that he isn’t the kind who shops for himself but loves shopping for you. This is an absolute sign that he finds a woman captivating and she is always on her mind.
When Rahul went on a work trip to Bangkok he returned with bags, dresses, perfumes, shoes for Marina. For himself, he had just picked up a sunglass. This is an absolute sign that he finds her irresistible.
5. He plans to make memories
You will know a man finds you irresistible if he wants to make memories with you. It could be a visit to the rooftop restaurant from where the whole city is visible or a visit to his grandparents and spending the whole day with them. He wants to cherish the memories about you and how you react to his surprises and his family, makes you memorable to a man.
Rahul booked a small yacht and spent the entire day with Marina in it. A memory he always wanted to make with a woman he found irresistible.
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6. He takes care to dress up
He could be the kind who would be usually in Bermudas and Ts when he’s taken off his work clothes but if he decides to meet the woman he finds irresistible he would take care to dress up. A shower could be followed by spending endless minutes in front of the wardrobe to choose the right clothes. Then he would spend time choosing the right deo and hair gel. He would go all out to dress up for the woman who captivates him.
Rahul went a step further to ask Marina what kind of clothes she would be wearing at a do. Then he would choose a shirt often that would complement her attire. Aww! So cute.
7. He wants to be with you
He makes an effort to be with her. It’s not about just going for dates and movies. When a man finds a woman irresistible he makes an effort to be with her when she has to visit the grocery store, the med shop, take the dog out for a walk or when she has to take a parent for med checkups. He tries to be with you and spending every minute with you is precious.
Rahul drives down 40 minutes from work, picks up Marina from her gym and drops her home three times a week just to be able to spend time with her.
8. He has no ego with you
If you tell him to drop you and pick you from different places when you are running errands he would do that happily never thinking for once that you are bestowing chauffeur duties on him. He has no ego when he is with you. He could be highly placed on the ladder of success but with you he is just your man. This a man only does when he finds you irresistible.
Rahul cooks for Marina whenever she drops in at his place and when she cooks at her place he does the dishes.
9. He desires you
You will know you are desirable to him when he holds your hand while driving the car, lingers on your cheeks a bit longer when you are saying goodbye or keeps brushing his hands against yours when he talks to you. He kisses you whenever he gets the chance and discusses what a fiery session you had in bed. Tells you he always looked forward to this when you make out.
For Rahul and Marina a goodbye kiss in the car often becomes a prolonged one and then Rahul says bye with a happy smile on his lips.
10. He puts up with your whims
You could have got a call from your friends on Friday night to meet at a nightclub but he is too tired after work. Instead of trying to keep you in he makes that extra effort to dress up and join you because you want to party with your friends.
You could be craving for biriyani at 11 pm and he would Swiggy it immediately and if you have been dying to go to that particular resort he would surprise you with a booking. He does all this with a smile and loves your whimsical side because he finds you irresistible.
Marina loves to get drenched in the rain. Rahul hated getting wet till they got together. Now as soon it rains he reaches for the raincoat and goes out with her.
11. He never harps on your imperfections
Your short temper, your habit of over spending or inability to stir up a proper meal are never issues for him. He accepts you with your warts and all and he finds you irresistible with all your imperfections.
Marina isn’t too good at keeping her apartment tidy. Rahul never complains when he walks over a worn socks lying on the carpet or the wet towel on the sofa.
12. He is proud of you
The most important irresistible woman trait is being someone a man is proud of. You could be great at managing a home or a career woman but he is proud of whatever you do. He finds you intriguing and magnetic and is proud of your achievements.
Rahul just loves to see Marina on TV when she comes on screen as a TV anchor and he tells everyone how he finds her irresistible.
13. He appreciates you
He appreciates you for who you are and not for who you could be. You could be a shy person or an extrovert, you could be someone who is extremely successful or you could be someone who has taken really good care of her parents. He appreciates what you do and your small gestures for him.
Rahul was really busy at work and his gas hob had conked off. He wasn’t getting the time to get it fixed. Marina called the company, stayed in his apartment and got it fixed. Rahul showed his appreciation by cooking her favourite meal that night.
14. He shares everything with you
Men are usually not too forthcoming about sharing everything about themselves with anyone. If he is discussing his office, his friends, their girlfriends, his family and even his ex with you then that means he finds you irresistible.
Rahul is always discussing his family dynamics with Marina.
15. He values your opinion
If there is an issue at the workplace does he ask for your opinion? If he does then he really values your opinion and you have the most irresistible woman traits. He thinks your opinion really matters and you are intelligent and experienced enough to guide him.
Rahul got a promotion and a transfer abroad he consulted Marina on this. He would be moving to Hong Kong soon and before that he wants to tie the knot with the woman he always found irresistible.