Marriage requires constant work. There will be bad days, and there will be days when you will be smiling ear to ear. If you are looking for ways to make your wife happy, you needn’t fret. There is no need to spend lavishly or make grand level efforts to keep your wife happy. With a little bit of planning and understanding of what your wife likes and dislikes, you can make her feel extremely special and loved.
Over the years if you want to keep the romance alive in your marriage then keep the ways discussed here in mind as these can truly be beneficial for you.
Besides, keeping each other happy is the prime responsibility of both the partners. The sooner you accept this fact, the better it will be for your married life.
22 Ways To Make Your Wife Happy
Here are the 22 ways to make your wife feel special and happy almost every day of your married life. Doesn’t a happy wife make for a happy life?
1. Write love notes for her
Girls love it when their men are romantic and send them love letters or notes of love from time to time. Send creative text messages that show ‘I love my wife’. Sweet, short yet innovative text messages with lovable emojis can be a good way to show that you love your wife and miss her when she is not around. This is one of the simplest ways to woo your wife and make her day.
2. Make efforts to groom yourself
Before marriage men usually make efforts and try to look good and attractive so as to impress the girl. But once they get married, they hardly care about their looks. In this context, make efforts to look good when you are around her and show her how important she is to you. And take care of your personal hygiene. Something men become lackadaisical about but it’s truly important to women.
3. Use compliments to make the wife feel loved
To make your wife happy, appreciate her often. After marriage, partners tend to get comfortable with each other and take each other for granted. Compliments and appreciation is hardly a part and parcel of daily life. Remember this, girls just love compliments. Therefore, compliment her for anything like her dress, her bag, her shoes, her work, etc. She will just love to hear good and encouraging words especially from the person she loves the most in the world.
4. Listen to her
When she wants to discuss something or there is any problem she is facing and wants to share it with you, listen attentively to her. After listening and understanding, help her out, and try to give suggestions for the same rather than acting as if you do not care. Have you tried flirting with her? Married people almost always forget how to make each other feel special through flirting and it often dulls the relationship. Rejuvenate your marriage by flirting with your spouse.
5. Consider her as your equal
In order to make your marriage work and for both of you to be happy, remember to treat your wife as an equal partner in the relationship. Make her realize that she is important to you and her presence and opinion matters in the relationship.
6. At times cook meals for her
Make her feel special by cooking meals for her and spending some time with her. All she wants from you is attention and love, give it to her.
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7. Go on dates and long drives
Apart from spending all day juggling professional and familial responsibilities, try to take out time for the two of you. Plan a dinner date or just go on a long drive together. Do not let the romance between the two of you die away.
8. Give surprise gifts to make your wife feel special
No need to wait for an occasion to buy her gifts. She will be super happy to receive a gift from you especially when it is a surprise. It is not compulsory that it should be expensive then only she will be happy. Gift her anything that she likes and she will surely appreciate it.
9. Be honest and loyal
Girls want their husbands to be loyal and truthful towards them. Thus, you should be loyal to her and make her feel secure. Loyal men are not easy to find nowadays. Prove her you are one of them, she will be really happy and feel lucky.
10. Thank her often to make your wife happy
When she does something for you, say thank you to her. Do not ever behave like she has done nothing for you or only you are the one making all the efforts. This will make your marriage suffer. So always be thankful towards each other.
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11. Do household chores to show that you care for your wife
She will be looking after the house all by herself. But if at times you are at home, then try to help her with the dishes or laundry. She will love to get some help from you and this is also a very romantic – doing the chores together.
12. To make your wife happy, buy her flowers often
Do not wait for Valentine’s Day or your anniversary to bring flowers for her. Buy her some whenever you feel like expressing your love and appreciation to her.
13. Tell those three magical words
She is now yours for life but you need to keep expressing yourself to her. Never shy away from saying ‘I love you’ to her. Even if she knows that you love her the most, expressing it at times can really make her feel special. In fact, there are so many ways to express love without even saying a word. Try them.
14. Keep aside your ego and accept your fault
When you do something wrong, accept it gracefully and apologize for the same. Never bring your ego between the two of you as it can destroy your relationship. Learn to accept your mistakes and improve yourself.
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15. Treat her gently and pamper her
Treat her gently and be sweet and nice to her, even if it has been years after your marriage. This will make her feel happy and show her that you still care for her in the same manner as you used to care for her before marriage. Try these ideas to make her feel special.
16. Be responsible
Be responsible and accept your responsibilities in life with accountability. Having the support of a responsible partner, will not only make her happy but also will make her life easier. This will, in turn, make your marriage strong and you will be able to tackle life’s challenges together.
17. Support her and let her achieve her dreams
Always show support in whatever decisions she takes or whatever she achieves in life. In case she has any unfulfilled desires, then help her achieve those dreams as any true partner would do.
18. Include her in all the decisions
She is your better half, make her feel that way. Include her in all the important decisions of the house and do not neglect her. Make her feel valued. Otherwise, she will be really upset if she just has to follow your decisions.
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19. Always show respect to her family
Remember she is the one who is leaving her home and family to come to stay with you. Her life has changed tremendously after marriage. She is doing everything to make your family happy and satisfied. You should also do the same for her family. She will really like it.
20. Plan a trip
Go on romantic holidays to revive the romance in your life and to relieve all the stress. Random trips are really a better option to spend some time together away from the daily boring routine life.
21. Be sexually active
Sexual connection is very important in any married person’s life. Be sexually active and take the lead, she will be happy and really enjoy it.
22. Give her a much-needed break
Whenever you notice your wife needs her personal space, you can give her the opportunity to unwind. Give her space and tell her not to worry about the family and enjoy herself. Do check the warnings signs to see if the two of you are growing apart and make sure you address the issue and work on your marriage.
These 22 ways are enough to keep your wife happy and make your married life a joyful ride. So get ready to enjoy this ride to the fullest.