100 Naughty Text Messages for Him

The onus of keeping spice alive in the relationship shouldn’t be on your man alone. Sometimes, you can stir the pot a little too, and leave him surprised and wanting more. The simplest way of getting this done is to have a few naughty text messages for him up your sleeve, that you can shoot off when he least expects it, making him pause mid-scroll, raise an eyebrow, and grin like he’s suddenly got plans. 

Whether you’re in the mood to tease, tempt, or flat-out wreck his focus for the day, you’ll find something in this selection of texts that will make him want you to match your energy. So go ahead, hit send, cause a little trouble. That innocent vibe? Totally optional.

7 Tips For Leaving A Guy Turned On Through Texts

If you are new to the naughty texting game or want to take things to the next level, it helps to know how to craft and time your texts right. After all, whether or not a naughty message for him will land the way you want it to depends not just on its content but also on how and when you text it. Here are some tips to ensure your naughty texting drives him absolutely crazy:

1. Start with playful hints, then amp it up

Don’t just drop a super graphic message out of nowhere, unless you know he’s into that. Begin with a subtle tease or a flirtatious line to set the mood. Once you’ve got his attention, gradually make your texts naughtier as the conversation heats up. This slow build is tantalizing and will have him hooked.

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2. Use descriptive language and visuals

Paint a sexy picture in his mind. Instead of just saying “I want you,” try something more descriptive like “I’m imagining your hands gripping my hips as you pull me close.” Invoke the senses—talk about how it looks, feels, sounds, or tastes. The more vivid your text, the more it will turn him on.

3. Mix in questions to engage him

A naughty question can be irresistible. Try something like, “Do you like it when I tell you exactly what I want? 😈” or “What’s one thing you want me to do to you later?” Asking questions invites him to play along and share his fantasies too. It becomes a two-way exchange, not just you delivering a monologue.

4. Match his energy and comfort level

Pay attention to how he responds. If he’s dishing it back and loving it, you can go as wild as you want. If he’s a bit shy or slow to respond, dial it back and maybe try flirty texts to make him laugh, and then amp it up from there. Sexting is fun when it’s a conversation, not a one-sided performance, so read the room (or rather, read the texts!).

5. Time your texts for maximum impact

Send your naughtiest text when he has time to savor it. Maybe during a break in his day or at night when you know he’s relaxed at home, not when he’s neck-deep into work or in the middle of a presentation. A well-timed, “I want you so bad right now” text when he’s free to fully enjoy it will set his mind and body on fire. Bonus: he’ll have time to send a juicy reply.

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6. Be confident and own your desire

Nothing is sexier than confidence. Use “I want,” “I need,” “I can’t wait,” kinds of phrases to show you’re unabashed about your lust for him. If you’re feeling a little shy, that’s okay. Embrace it. You can literally say, “I feel shy saying this, but it turns me on so much thinking about…” Vulnerability in a relationship can be hot too. Just be authentically you.

7. Have fun and be playful

Naughty texts don’t always have to be serious or straight-to-the-point. Feel free to throw in a witty innuendo or a cheeky joke. A little laugh can break the tension and make both of you more comfortable delving into the dirty stuff. The goal is to enjoy yourselves and feel closer, so keep it light-hearted when needed.

With these tips in mind, you’re armed and ready to leave him turned on and eager. Now, let’s get into 100 naughty text examples for him that you can pull from. Whether you want to be outrageously bold, playfully coy, lovey-dovey and dirty, goofy but spicy, or just flat-out sexy, we’ve got you covered.

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20 Wild Naughty Texts For Him

These naughty text messages for him are perfect for moments when you’re feeling a little extra and want to suggest something adventurous or outright daring. They’re the “no-holds-barred” kind of naughty. Think fantasy scenarios, roleplaying ideas, riskier locations, or a bit of playful kink. If you want to blow his mind with how bold you can be, try one of these wild ideas:

1. I want to do it somewhere crazy tonight, how about the kitchen counter or the backseat?
2. I’m in the mood to be a little wild. You up for a midnight adventure, no clothes allowed?
3. I had a dream about you taking me outdoors… maybe we should make it a reality.
4. Let’s break a few rules tonight. I promise it’ll be worth it.
5. I’m feeling daring, would you let me blindfold you later?
6. Tell me: have you ever thought about us doing it in a public place? Because I have, all day.
7. I might just drag you into the shower the minute you get home. No hello, just hot water and us.
8. I want to hear you growl my name while I do something outrageous to you.
9. Feeling like not bothering with the bed tonight… the wall or floor could be fun.
10. I bought handcuffs. Just saying.
11. I’m in a “rip each other’s clothes off” kind of mood.
12. Careful, I feel like being very, very bad tonight, and I won’t take no for an answer.
13. I want to make you lose control completely…think you can handle that?
14. Tonight, I’m going to be your naughty little troublemaker.
15. I have a naughty bucket list, and I’m ticking one item off with you tonight.
16. I’m imagining you pushing me up against a wall in a dark alley… turns me on so much.
17. Ever tried making a sex tape? Because I have a camera ready if you’re down. 😈
18. Tonight’s safe word is “red”… just in case we need it 😉.
19. Let’s see how quiet we can be while being very, very bad together.
20. My place. 10 PM. We’re going to do something wild that we’ll both smirk about tomorrow.

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20 Teasing Naughty Texts For Him

You don’t always have to be explicit or spell out the last detail to come up with texts that will make him want you. Teasing, with an extra naughty twist, can get the job done just as easily. So, if you’re just dipping your toes into the sexting territory and don’t feel comfortable going all out just yet, try messages that will string him along just enough to drive him a bit crazy. 

The idea is to be playful without giving away too much. Offer him glimpses of the X-rated thoughts in your head, but make him wait to experience them. The result? He’ll be on the edge of his seat (or bed), bursting with anticipation.

1. I’ve got a naughty thought about you that I’m not sharing… yet.
2. Maybe I’ll text you what I’m thinking… or maybe I’ll just show you later.
3. I might have a dirty story to tell you later, starring us two.
4. There’s a surprise waiting for you here, but you’ll have to earn it.
5. I’m not even trying to be good today, and it’s entirely your fault.
6. I could tease you all day long… in fact, I plan on it.
7. Let’s play a game tonight: I tease, you beg.
8. I was going to behave, but then I thought about you and said screw it.
9. Guess how long I spent thinking about you in the shower this morning.
10. You’ll find out what I’m imagining when you get here… if you’re lucky.
11. I’m sending you a mental image right now. Did you get it? Because I’m blushing over here.
12. I’m not wearing anything right now. I’ll let you guess what.
13. Every time my phone buzzes, I hope it’s you telling me exactly what you want to do to me.
14. You know, delayed gratification can make things so much hotter… just saying.
15. I’m teasing you now so I can have my way with you later.
16. This text is a preview of coming attractions… Emphasis on coming. 😜
17. I’m being bad at the office, thinking of all the ways I’ll be good for you later.
18. You like a tease, right? Because I have zero intention of giving it all away over text.
19. Anticipation is the best, isn’t it? By tonight, you’ll be so ready for me.
20. Patience, babe… I promise, I’m worth the wait tonight.

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20 Romantic Yet Naughty Texts For Him

Who says you can’t be sweet and spicy at the same time? These texts blend romance with erotica. They’ll make his heart flutter and his body respond in equal measure. Perfect for when you want to remind him how much you love him while also reminding him how much you want him. It’s the best of both worlds—lovey-dovey with a side of dirty.

1. I adore you… And tonight I’ll show you just how passionately.
2. You are my everything, and right now, my everything wants you so badly.
3. I love that we can be sweet and totally filthy together.
4. You mean the world to me, and you also make me unbelievably turned on.
5. Every love song makes me think of you… And every sexy song too.
6. I cherish you — and I also really, really want you tonight.
7. You’re not just my love, you’re my ultimate desire.
8. I love spoiling you, especially in bed.
9. Just thinking of your eyes on me gives me butterflies and… other feelings.
10. I’m so lucky to be yours. Tonight, let me show you how much I appreciate you, in very naughty ways.
11. With you, love and lust come as a package deal (and I’m loving every second).
12. You make me feel safe and so very, very sexy at the same time.
13. I fall more in love with you every day, and fall into bed with you every night with a huge smile.
14. Sweet dreams are nice, but I prefer the naughty reality I have with you.
15. There’s nothing more romantic than knowing every inch of each other intimately.
16. Being in love with you makes all the naughty stuff even better.
17. I love you… Now get over here and take off your pants.
18. Even when I’m being naughty, it’s because I love you like crazy.
19. Our love story is my favorite… especially the spicy chapters.
20. You’re my heart, my soul, and the star of all my dirtiest fantasies.

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20 Funny But Naughty Texts For Him

Sometimes, a little humor can make sexy times even better. These flirty texts to make him laugh use jokes, puns, or goofy scenarios, but set the tone for a hot and heavy encounter between you two, be it virtually or IRL. If your guy appreciates a good sense of humor, he’ll love that you can make him chuckle while also hinting at very dirty things. It’s a great way to keep things light, fun, and insanely sexy.

1. Are you a magician? Because whenever I think of you, my clothes disappear. 🪄
2. I was just writing a to-do list, and well… you’re literally the only thing on it. 😏
3. I’m trying to be PG, but my thoughts about you are very R-rated.
4. Knock, knock. Who’s there? Not wearing. Not wearing who? Not wearing any clothes when you get here.
5. I thought I was allergic to nuts… but I can handle yours just fine. 😜
6. Warning: The content of my next message is too hot for work.
7. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by naked again? 😉
8. Just a heads up: tonight I’m going to make the neighbors extremely jealous (or call the cops).
9. I’m not drunk, I’m just intoxicated by you (okay, maybe a little tipsy too).
10. If wanting you was a crime, I’d be serving a life sentence with no chance of parole.
11. My therapist said I should confront my addiction… So, when can I get my next fix of you?
12. I tried to think of a clever sexy pun, but all I got was “I want you naked”. Does that count?
13. I’m practicing my stand-up routine tonight. It involves you lying down. 😏
14. They say laughter is the best medicine, but I think our kind of “exercise” works better.
15. Is it hot in here, or did you just text me? Because my phone isn’t the only thing heating up.
16. You must be a wizard, because one text from you and I’m under your spell (and possibly under you later).
17. I’d make a joke about you, me, and a bed, but it’s too long… kinda like tonight will be. 😇
18. I was going to send a sexy pic, but the camera overheated from the hotness. True story.
19. You owe me a new pair of panties. Mine mysteriously fell off after that last text you sent.
20. I tried to do yoga to relax, but I just ended up in positions I want to do with you.

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20 Sexy Naughty Texts For Him

This is the grab-bag of generally seductive, sultry lines that didn’t necessarily fall into the other themes. These texts are straightforwardly sexy and guaranteed to turn him on. Use these when you just want to express raw desire in a way that will make him stop in his tracks and focus on you.

1. I can’t even say hello without it sounding seductive when it comes to you.
2. My body reacts to just your name popping up on my phone.
3. I get chills just thinking about your lips on my skin.
4. I’m craving you so much it’s distracting.
5. You make me feel bold… like texting you all my dirty thoughts in broad daylight.
6. I love how just hearing your voice can turn me on instantly.
7. Just picturing your face when I do that thing you love is making me smirk in public.
8. All I want right now is to straddle you and kiss you senseless.
9. Even my fantasies about you don’t do the real thing justice, but I’m enjoying them anyway.
10. You have no idea how sexy you are to me. Or maybe you do, and you enjoy driving me crazy.
11. I’m addicted to the sound of your pleasure.
12. My fingers want to trace every muscle on your body tonight.
13. The way you say my name in bed should be illegal — it’s that good.
14. I’m greedy when it comes to you; I want all of you, over and over.
15. There’s a spot on my body that only you can get to just right… Care to find it later?
16. I swear, sometimes you cast a spell on me; I get hot and bothered out of nowhere thinking of you.
17. You’re my favorite fantasy and my delicious reality.
18. I love it when you take control… it makes me weak in the knees just thinking about it.
19. I don’t think I’ll ever get enough of you — and tonight I’m definitely getting more.
20. Even when we’re apart, my mind (and body) are fully yours.

Final Thoughts

Sexting should ultimately bring you two closer, ignite laughter, spark arousal, and reinforce that special connection you share. Keep it consensual, keep it private, and most of all, keep it fun and true to you. Whether you’re dropping a sly tease at noon or an explicit play-by-play at midnight, own it with confidence. Now grab that phone and get texting – you’ve got all the tools and examples you need. Go forth and be sexy, you naughty texter! Enjoy the blushes, the suspense, and the sizzle you create. Just don’t blame us if your partner can’t keep their hands off you later. Have fun and stay safe!

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