Vineeta was in a relationship with Rahul for seven long years. She was secure, happy and apart from the usual fights, everything was perfect. Then it happened one day and she didn’t see it coming. He called it quits saying that he had fallen for someone else. It is a big blow to your heart when someone you thought about having a future with leaves you for someone else. Vineeta was distraught, broken and love quickly turned into hatred for Rahul. She really wanted him to regret his decision. Aren’t we all familiar with a situation like this? At some point in your life haven’t you wanted him to regret not choosing you?
How To Make Him Regret Rejecting You?
Instead of sitting in a corner and crying, you can be the boss and show him that you are doing just great without him. If you’ve been rejected and want him to regret you just don’t need to wear your armour and get down to war. Sit back and sip the lemonade, things will fall into place.
So how to make him regret not choosing you? How to make him realize what he lost? How to make him realize your worth? Make him realize your worth by being just you. You know that he made a mistake not choosing you. It’s a matter of making him realize what he did and make him regret ignoring you. How?
Here are 8 ways to make him regret rejecting you.
8 Ways To Make Him Regret Not Choosing You?
You can make him regret his decision subtly and simply without going all out. You don’t have to be a scheming, conceited woman hatching a plan every now and then to turn his attention to you. Just be who you are and in no time he would start thinking about you.
1. Always keep your A game on
If you want him to regret not choosing you, always dress to kill. But remember you are not doing this for him you are doing it for yourself. Pull out that perfect black dress or those hep pair of jeans. Looking good will make you feel good and if there are “accidental encounters” with him when you are looking stunning, it’s just providence.
When in doubt which colours to wear, red and black are always there to save the day. Wear your best outfits. He won’t be able to take his eyes off you and then he would start ruminating how attractive you always looked.
2. Get your stories straight
Whenever you run into your ex, the first thing he will ask you is how you are doing. Some people just go blank when their ex asks such questions and catches them off guard. This gives your ex the indication that you are still into him. You need to always keep your stories ready about how well you are doing without him. Don’t use the word “breakup” in your conversation.
You can’t help it if you feel bubbly, bright and enthusiastic when talking to him because your life has truly turned happening.
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3. Play the psychology card
When you meet your ex, talk about the funny and weird things you both would do together. This will make him reminisce the past and he will remember the fond memories you both shared together. This psychological trick will make him go down memory lane and remember how happy you both were together. Remember to talk about the positive memories and not the reasons why you both broke up. He might show signs that he regrets hurting you
4. Make him jealous
In your conversation with him, you can casually slip in this person you met or are dating. He will start asking you more questions about him. You can tell him where it’s going and whether you want to stick to just dating or be in a relationship.
You don’t need to directly tell him that you are dating someone else. Just a mere mention of another guy’s name will make him start asking questions.
Thinking about another guy in your life will make him regret losing you and he will want you back.
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5. Show him you’re fine
No matter how heartbroken you are, you need to show him you are fine and you are at peace with the breakup. Behave like nothing major happened. This will remove the initial awkwardness, but he will soon start racking his brain thinking how you are so fine with the breakup.
He will feel jealous that his effect over you is wearing off and he will start putting in efforts to bring that effect back again. Just start pushing him into the friend zone and the rest will work on its own.
6. Let him know what you’re up to
Keep yourself busy doing the things you love. You can even try out new things and enjoy your single life. Trying new things will keep you busy and you will actually start knowing things about yourself that you didn’t. These things will develop your personality and you will see a better and happier version of yourself. If he gets to know about what you are up to without him through some common friends then it’s not really your fault. All you can do is keep everyone abreast about you.
Social media could be a great tool. Don’t be surprised if he starts stalking you on social media because be sure he will start regretting ending it too soon and will rethink the breakup.
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7. Have loads of fun
If he left for someone else the world doesn’t end for you. In fact, this is the time to finally make all those pending plans go through. Have fun with your friends and family, the kind which you couldn’t have because you were so absorbed in the relationship. Spend time with your inner circle. It will comfort you too.
Make sure to have actual fun with your friends. Remember, your loved ones are the only people that are going to remain constant in your life. Seeing you happy without him will make him burn for some time.
8. Love yourself
This phase is all about self-love. When someone rejects you, you feel that you are not worthy of love and acceptance because you don’t love yourself enough. People who don’t love themselves enough think that they aren’t worthy of anyone’s love which is completely untrue.
Once you start loving yourself, you will know your worth and that’s when people will also know your worth too. You will feel more confident about yourself and your entire outlook related to things will change. When he sees the new you, he will get weak in his knees and come after you.
At times when men begin to regret, they come back to you saying that they want you back and regret leaving you for someone else. He will tell you that he made a mistake and has realized that you are the one for him. Play back your episodes with him and relive how he made you feel when he left you for someone else. Remember all the red flags that led to your break up.
Ask yourself if you really want to get back with him. Always remember, he can repeat the same thing again when he finds someone better than you. The call is yours. You need to decide whether it is worth going through all that pain again. Know your worth.